well i want to go to my boyfriends house when we hang out so we can cuddle and you know all that stuff, but if we go and stay at my house then my mom gets really annoying and worried and doesnt let me go to my room. I want to go to his house more and what should i tell my mom?
Also what can i say to get her to let me hang out more often at his house witout her saying "you guys hang out too much ,soend some family time.>:O garr...
2007-05-02 17:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
some more details. im 14 and the guy is 15. We arent having sex. we make out sometimes and just hang out on the bed just happy to be with each other. He's a good Christian and i am too . so.. yea. my mom is just worried, but he isnt that type of guy and even if he DID try to do something to me i wouldnt let him ( im stronger physically) lol:P
2007-05-02 19:09:49 · update #1
Get her trust first and then ask her
2007-05-02 18:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Vicky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is just concerned about you - she does this because she cares.
If you want your mother to trust you then go give her a big hug and tell her how much you appreciate her worrying about you and that you promise there is nothing to worry about. If she would just let you snuggle with your bf at least in the open areas you wouldn't feel the need to hide it from her. Promise her that snuggling is all you want to do.
Now, if this isn't all you are wanting to do, you need to listen to your mother.
2007-05-02 18:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will someday thank your mom for caring! I promise you that! But i was your age once too and i know its hard i had a very over bearing father! You just have to suck it up and try to talk to your mom, if that doesnt work then you are just gonna have to wait until you dont live under her roof! i feel your pain! but trust me you will thatnk her someday!
2007-05-02 18:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by BRIDE*2*BE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, or how old your boyfriend is. And that makes a difference.
Your mom isn't being mean, she's being pragmatic. She knows what happens when kids go off into their room to cuddle and all that stuff. And maybe she isn't ready to have a grandchild underfoot yet.
2007-05-02 18:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your mother is afraid you'll get pregnant. That's the bottom line. So if you and your bf are having sex, tell mom, and tell her you both are using protection. Now if that's going to blow her mind, you'll have to figure out another way to have your fun.
2007-05-02 18:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as your a teenager still living in her house. You gotta grit your teeth and bear it.
2007-05-02 18:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by OhReally 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actually agree with your Mom.
My suggestion is to tell her THANK YOU very much for caring about me.
2007-05-02 18:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by J T 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is exactly what you should say to your mom. "Thank you mom for caring about me so much. I will do exactly what you say."
2007-05-02 18:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by dawnsdad 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋