What are the major signs your main mate is cheating on you>?

Question

Lets just be nice people...;)....im an analyst of human behaviour but naive as hell!! haha

Answer 1

They start spending more and more time away from you. They all of a sudden start dressing better, working out, etc. The phone calls come to a screaching halt. They go out alot without you. Elaborate stories about where they where. Oh and there is a naked person on top of them.

Answer 2

A sudden interest in clothing and grooming
that just wasn't there before.
Suddenly "working overtime" or having to go out of town over the weekend.
Suddenly, "not having any money." He had to have the car fixed, or his father needed some help with medical bills.
He goes into another room to make a phone call.
The phone rings, you answer, and the other person hangs up.
You ask him why his car was at the Ramada in and he replies,"mine isn't the only
Ford on the road."
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Enough for start??

Answer 3

Well the first true sign is that your gut feeling is telling you that he is cheating!And the evidence is always there,it is just up to you to find it. Naive is a trait best left to the people who frankly don't give a hoot. And just out of curiosity, what is a"main" mate. Either the two of you are exclusive or not. If not how can one cheat on the other?

Answer 4

If it's a he:
1. He won't look directly into your eyes anymore.
2. He is jumpy at times.
3. He tries to "over-convince" you of things. Normal people would explain things in brief. Over-explaining means he is trying hard to convince.
4. He starts putting down your friends and things that he used to accept. In his subconscious this is justification for what he is doing.
5. He blames you for things more than he used to. Same reason ast #4.
6. He does not enjoy and does not entertain long trips and getaways especially because he won't have easy access to the cheating partner. Ask him to go with you on a long (2 or 3 week trip to a far away island. He won't budge).

None of those reasons by themselves are proof but all those things add up.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Huh? You have main mates and subsidiary mates? You'd know he's cheating if he smells of perfume or if he suddenly knows a lot of women things you know he didn't learn from you. Also if there's a change in behavioural pattern, e.g. if he always had dinner with you, but nowadays comes back late and goes straight to bed and doesn't even want to touch you.

Answer 6

1. Sudden changes in behavior
2. Changes in cell phone use (ie turning ringer off, or getting a lot of "wrong #s, leaving it in the car)
3. Unexplained absences and breaking dates.
4. Lack of interest in sex (with you).
5. New friends or hangouts
Unless you are dating a hard-core player, it's usually PAINFULLY OBVIOUS to everyone around us that we are being cheated on. We are usually so blinded by love and denial that we make up excuses for the behavior and they get away with it until someone better comes along and you get dumped.

Answer 7

have self belief your gut feeling. it really is not incorrect. a pal of mine reported to me purely the former day, i do no longer comprehend how an similar mission it really is making you unhappy and causing you discomfort is an analogous mission that you pick to keep. Do i imagine I marriage will be kept after dishonest, sure! yet at the same time as the have self belief is lengthy previous, it really is not any relaxing anymore. sometime you purely ought to allow bypass and flow ahead although that is amazingly not undemanding. or you could a minimum of let some months bypass and in case you both are assume to be mutually then you actually will, yet do no longer attempt to emphasize someone to be in love with you.

Answer 8

Change in routine. (used to come home from work at 6 now at 7) .
You ask a question and can't get a straight answer.
You ask them if they are cheating and they become hostile and turn it around on you.
Dressing nicer. wearing perfume/cologne
All of a sudden your female mate starts shaving her legs, bikini line and armpits more often and you're not getting any( girls are more adamant about shaving their legs when with a new partner and having sex more often)
Your male mate gets mad at you when you check his pockets before putting them in the wash. -- yeah pretty obvious.
Just some examples.

Answer 9

1. SHe ignores you
2. She comes up with excuses
3. Her story doesnt make sense.
4. SHe ditches you on the last minute
5. She doesnt pick up the phone immediately
6. She wont have sex with you.

Its pretty straighforward. Sadly, Im an expert in this cos Ive been the victim many times......

Answer 10

The intrusive male with usually mark his territory by spraying or leaving droppings.