How do I get her back?

Question

I just broke up with my gf.shes been under alot of stress and broke up with me because I made a mistake. The mistake I made was that I had flirted with a girl on myspace and said some things I shouldnt.It meant nothing cuz i love this girl with all my heart.I also commented a friend saying that I wasnt single i'm just tryin to get her attention and that i hope things will work out between us but im goin to keep my options open.I also lied about it.I kno I made a mistake by doin what i did. She keeps tellin me she doesnt want to deal with this and just wants to be friends.I feel something different though because I feel that she is just basing her decisions on bein extremely stress and also cuz she is hurt and mad by what I did. I want so bad to get back with her because I really love this girl.Please someone help me with what I need to do to get her back.

This girl I love so very much. Shes very stressed.She has 2month old twin boys that shes been taking care of, working full-time to support them, and going to school.She lost her twins because the dad won a custody battle but she's gettin them back soon. Shes also moving in a couple weeks.I've been with this girl through her pregnancy, and all her struggles. I know I made a mistake and I'm never goin to make it again.I truly love this girl and want to work things out with her.

Answer 1

oh myspace...... well give her time and space. she's under alot of stress and you are obviously adding to it. Give her her space and let her come to you. If she doesnt then you can try and talk to her but you have to give her time to handle her business so that she doesn't rush you off without really listening to what you have to say.

Answer 2

If you have truly learned your lesson, you can probably get her back. The lesson is that when you care for someone, you show them respect. Think about how you would feel if she did the same thing to you. There is no sense trying to get her back if you are not willing to think differently about the relationship. If you are try this:

Write her a letter, pouring your heart out. Apologize sincerely, and ask for one more chance. Tell her what you plan to do to change. Ask her what she would like you to do to make the relationship better.

Hopefully she will forgive you. I have to also tell you that if you have been handling other situations in the relationship like you did this one, she may not want to try again. When a person makes up their mind that they have had enough, it is very hard to change their mind. If this is the case, just use this situation to make yourself a better person. Your next relationship will be better for it. Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

Dude, i know what your going through, I've been there and I have had some good luck and bad luck. What im gonna tell you may or may not work, that'll be up to her, but I suggest you make her feel special. ie. flowers, write something beautiful about her, make her know that you only have eyes for her and for GODS SAKE, never do it again.

Answer 4

Give her time but still talk with her and just apologize and find ways that you can apologize big. Your right shes basing her decision on not getting back with you because shes stressed.
Just give it time, she'll come around man.

Answer 5

Well talk with her and do sweet things for her. If you are trying to "win" her back basically, show her reasons why she should give you a second chance, and prove to her you are sorry. "Actions speak louder then words."

Answer 6

k well dude1 big mistake but there is a propabilty u can get her back talk to her say that u r truly sry for wut u did and u still love her write a letters to her saying that u love her and u r sry for wut u did never give up trust me and u will get her back