I had a great libido during marriage,lately though I have had trouble with the new women in my life,is this a common thing?
2007-05-02 18:02:17 · 8 answers · asked by mike p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep, very common. And then, you start watching and observing yourself so you can't relax and enjoy, so you are making it worse just through your thoughts. Relax, enjoy making out and feeling, just enjoy the sensations. Maybe rule out sexual intercourse until you know someone much better. Read Masters & Johnson for more info. It's easily overcome, if you do the right things.
2007-05-02 18:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would say, this is a common problem. You want to do a good job when you are with new women. Because of the divorce and the need to perform, I think that is where the anxiety comes from. Just try to relax and enjoy yourself when you are with a woman, and do not over think it. Good luck.
2007-05-02 18:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. L. Junior12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm dunno....fiance who cheated said he did not come when he did. Yeah probably performance anxiety. I have experienced the same thing after divorce and I was not the fault of the divorce in any way.
2007-05-02 18:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's common that we question EVERYTHING about ourselves after a divorce as we see divorce as a failure to live up to the expectations of others as well as our own selves.
Dating, following a divorce, is always an...interesting experience, to say the least.
2007-05-02 18:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Moxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is different after a divorce.... You'll be fine. Relax.
2007-05-02 18:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be you should find one like me and just hang with her and put the rest out of your little mind! The key is woman not women!
2007-05-02 18:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 Social Reprogramming Method - http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?kyyS
2016-06-21 02:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one is different. Get to know her and her likes and dislikes. I'm sure you'll be fine. Just like riding a bike.
2007-05-02 18:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋