Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

he was with me before,I broken off with him, because I found out he cheat, but He use my e-mail address to start groups a woman to start sex with her,is it wrong for me to get in my e-emil address to read the e-mail?

2007-04-23 06:07:55 · 25 answers · asked by sska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really care about this guy that I was / am / supposedly dating for the past 1.5mos. He told me that if he was to lose interest, he would tell me upfront, but he hasn't. Spent a weekend together and since then the calls have been less and less. BUT, he called me 4 days ago to say that he isn't ignoring me, but that he is busy. I know he has had a previous heavy problem with drugs and alcohol, so I texted him to say that if he isn't interested to let me know because I am really worried. I still haven't heard from him. I am torn bc he has never been shy of any of his words, but I am not hearing from him AT ALL. Should I continue calling/texting or just say F*** it?

2007-04-23 06:03:47 · 24 answers · asked by Dion the Wonderful 3 in Singles & Dating

Im pregnant and in love with my babys dad, he left a while after he found out i was pregnant, we kept some contact, and we slept together some times.He says he dont love me and dont want to be with me, a year ago I nearly destroyed my life when he left me, now things are getting worse and worse everyday and i keep on texting him and calling him, and i cant stop.He says im obsessed with him, but im not, im just in love and i cant control my feelings.Usually he is ok but can get very nasty, and when i text him a lot he gets really mad I want to be with him, but im doing everything wrong, i should hate him but i cant, can you guys help me?
Only answer if is to help me if not dont bother.
Thanks

2007-04-23 05:57:42 · 23 answers · asked by cc 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Bloody hell that title made me sound like a geek.

Anyway I'm only 18 so I'm no expert on this, which is why I'm asking you guys your opinion.

I don't know about girls fancying guys. But I think all girls are beautiful and in fact its just different guys are attracted to different things meaning they don't fancy the girls who don't have those features and all, making them seem unattractive in their eyes. I know personality is a huge thing, but I'm really just talking about looks now. Anyway think about it. There are those guys who are attracted to the "larger" women and all sorts of other aspects, so I'm thinking maybe my theory ain't bad. I know I would never ever call a girl ugly or bad looking, whether she was present or not. The thing is I'm constantly having to get p***ed off at my mates for saying stuff like that, which makes me think u don't all agree with my view lol. Anyway I'd be dead interested to hear what you think please.

2007-04-23 05:57:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 05:53:47 · 24 answers · asked by tresvoisdieu 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 6 months pregnant and the babys daddy is in jail and going to be there for 2 1/2 years. well i want to stay sex free until he gets out, is that stupid??? i really love him. he says he wants to get a tattoo of my name and 2 pot leaves beside it. he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me also.

2007-04-23 05:51:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's really starting to hurt my feelings. It's not like we're teenagers and need thier permission, he just doesn't want to tell them. What do you think I should do?

2007-04-23 05:50:51 · 30 answers · asked by Old Gregg 3 in Weddings

2007-04-23 05:47:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I reside in California and i have a boyfriend that lives in North Carolina. We been having a long distance relationship for 6 months, and lately he has been avoiding me. He hasn't called me, hasn't been on yahoo messenger, or myspace. Every time I called him, he never picks up. He said he's going to move to California with me in 2 years, but i had a friend secretly call her, and he said that's not true. he hasn't called me in like 3 months. and she has left me severely depressed. what should I do?

2007-04-23 05:47:27 · 8 answers · asked by liljmaniac 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf is looking for suggestions in what will be the best revenge for me

2007-04-23 05:44:06 · 21 answers · asked by hawk 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 05:43:15 · 42 answers · asked by cleopatraluv06 1 in Singles & Dating

can a girl have sex when she has her period? is it ok?

2007-04-23 05:39:53 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

so i pray everyday and work on my relationship with Jesus. I'm not perfect of course! I ask Jesus to help me be a better person. But why in the past 3 weeks when i pray i have felt like hes not there and listening??????????? what should i do??? your probably gonna say he is there but i don't have that same feeling!

2007-04-23 05:36:20 · 18 answers · asked by Juiles L 1 in Friends

I noticed a lot of single moms want a father figure for their kids. I have two, but their father is involved and I don't want to bring another one around. I'd rather date a little (get my needs met every once in a while) and focus on my kids and job than put forth more energy into a relationship (I've been through two busted ones in the past few years).

A lot of friends don't think this is a good idea, they seem to think that mothers should find someone to marry and live with, but my situation is different. My oldest son is autistic, and he may never be able to live on his own, and I feel it would be better to raise him alone in my house with visits to his father's house. A lot of women don't understand my position. What's your opinion?

2007-04-23 05:35:47 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 05:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out our 9 yaer old son is not mine,she let me believe he was.We just had another baby which I am now questioning,because she would hang out all night on our deck with our neighbor,some times till 4 am,2 or 3 times a week. All she says is they have alot in commen.I get home from work at 3 pm and she is still sleeping,(tired from being up all night),this went on for 2 summers.In the winter he would have bon fires,and she hates being out in the cold, but she had to go to his fires.He moved to another state a week before the baby was born, it just dont seem right to me.

2007-04-23 05:33:26 · 31 answers · asked by screwed over 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been together for nearly six years and we are expecting our first born this summer. We have just recently been married although not much has changed.
He is absolutly addicted to porn. He says it has nothing to do with me, and promises not to do it anymore when I confront him, but sure enough I catch him again...always on accident. I want to experiance a more sexual relationship with him, but I feel akward when all that he shows interest in is porn. I love him with all my heart, but I feel that if this is not resolved, our marriage could crumble. Is this all in my head or do I have a point? I understand "boys will be boys," but our sex life is always put on the back burner- no matter how much I try to engage in sexual activity, he shows no interest in it. This has gotten dramatically worse in the last few months, and being pregnant makes it even more emotionally draining. Is it really me?

2007-04-23 05:33:18 · 2 answers · asked by girlipits 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which was better for you
high school or college and why?

2007-04-23 05:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you change that? but he cares for me still

2007-04-23 05:27:23 · 20 answers · asked by pericingme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend keeps asking me how many men I was with before him and I won't answer him. I said I won't give him a # because it will stick in his head. Why does he care? He knows I have been with far fewer men than he has women but he keeps asking. Is this something all guys want to know about their g/f's? Is this a jealousy thing or just curiousity?

2007-04-23 05:25:14 · 15 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Singles & Dating

An Indian boy/man (age 30), after two years, repeatedly refuses arrange marriage meetings his parents continue to set up for him. He continues to tell his parents that he is in love (and wants to marry) a caucasian girl, but they refuse to even consider this. He says if he marries someone in an arranged marriage that he does not love, he will make their life miserable. What will his parents do to him, over time, if he keeps refusing arranged marriage meetings and his parents refuse to accept his choice for marriage?

2007-04-23 05:23:17 · 21 answers · asked by cj.blue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

d since birth i want to make him happy

2007-04-23 05:22:06 · 13 answers · asked by Shaheerah S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 05:19:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is this guy that likes me, but i dont like him how can i get him 2 quit liking me plz help

2007-04-23 05:18:59 · 2 answers · asked by bballerbrit 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 19 months, things have been tough lately. She has become distant etc. Today she told me she is not as serious about us as she used to be, she said she still loves me, but she just doesn;t take things as seriously anymore. Where do we go from here? We are meeting up to talk it through later on - but what can I say? I know one thing for sure...I really don't wanna lose her. Serious answers only pls :)

2007-04-23 05:16:58 · 3 answers · asked by tony 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just asking

2007-04-23 05:14:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you, let your spouse fulfill "past regrets" in life to save your marriage?

Pasted regrets is what you spouse wanted to do or wanted to have done before marriage, but was unable or never had the opportunity to do it at the time; but your spouse is trying to see past the regrets by talking openly about them, telling about all the desires wanted to do in life, but also feels a little cheated in life because your spouse believe's that they got married a little to soon. Now there is no regrets about the marriage, just regrets that your spouse never had a chance to do the things or wanted to do the things in life before it's late & will get to old & die. With that thought in mind, (even though trying to move past it) it is starting to affect the marriage.

Would you, let your spouse fulfill their past regrets,(too personal to list here) or even help your spouse fulfill those regrets it to save your marriage.

Even though it is something you would never allow, or even considered?

2007-04-23 05:14:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my currant bf is in a detention center, he says he doesn't want to hold me back by keeping me all to himself, should i date someone else or keep crying, after all i have known him since i was seven

2007-04-23 05:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey i love my boyfriend and he likes virgins the fact that im not a virgin just turns him of he also loves me and he has proven it .heres the deal guys like my boyfriend like to have sex vith virgins and i am not a virgin so he sugjested for me to have an operation were they put a skin in my vagina and i become a virgin again should i reely do it?i so wanna have sex with him he said he also wants to but he reely wants to de-verginate me

2007-04-23 05:11:43 · 62 answers · asked by betty d 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i went out wit this guy and we broke up and a few weeks later he called my name and i looked and he said f u what should i do?

2007-04-23 05:10:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating