Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

But yet when i try to go after a normal looking girl they turn me down.

2007-04-23 08:29:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I think that sex can comfort you because it makes you feel wanted and desired, but then sometimes it just leaves this big empty hole in your heart. What do you think?

2007-04-23 08:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Niki 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it better to be alone or stay with someone that makes you miserable.

PS. You can support yourself easily.

2007-04-23 08:26:46 · 26 answers · asked by Ker Plunk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I have a friend who is almost like a brother. We are really close. People are saying that we are going out, or what up between you and Matt? I HATE this. It is the second time within a year that I've had to put up with crap that that. He's only my friend for Gods sake. Why do people automatically think that if a guy and a girl are friends they are dating? What should I say to people when they insist that I like him and he likes me?

2007-04-23 08:26:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have long black with brown hi-lites hair, butt idk which looks better when its straight or curl iron it

2007-04-23 08:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im sixteen an a guy i really like asked me. ummmmmmm. ya, i still cant make up my mind because im like really popular (unfortunately) and im afraid. what if they call me a u-know-what! no. i dont know because i really like this guy alot, scence fifth grade! man! grr. i really need some good advice.
--Yui (^_-)

2007-04-23 08:24:26 · 29 answers · asked by Bella baby! 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl i know told me i was ugly... i need your opinion!
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2007-04-23 08:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lied about having feelings for another person. Although I have not actually cheated on him because I haven't had sex with the other person. The thing is that he would ask me straight up if I had feelings and I just lied to him. He told me he doesn't know if he will ever trust me or if he even wants to have anything to do with me. I am hurting because that's the only thing I've ever lied about because the person i told him i still had some feelings for, we used to have a past. and he always told me that if i interacted with the other male, he would leave me. so i was scared. i never had intentions on cheating. i don't know what i was thinking. but now i've messed up and i'm in so much pain because we are so in love and i may have lost him forever. Can you please tell me if there's anything I can do to make things better between us or make myself feel better?

2007-04-23 08:22:19 · 12 answers · asked by stupidperson 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 08:21:36 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For those of you married to someone with a personality disorder (like narcissism or Borderline personality disorder). Is it difficult for people to understand what you’re going through? Does your spouse hide it very well with everyone else and play the part of a great person but does some of the nastiest things to you? I find it very difficult to discuss anything about what goes on in my house with anyone because they look at me like I’m nuts. They look at you like “not the person you’re married to. They’re great”. And others just find it impossible that a marriage could be like that. They almost think you’re lying. For those of you that are married to someone like this, you know exactly what I’m talking about. It drives you mad. How do you cope without wanted to shout to the world “Hello I’m not the screwed up one. My spouse is insane at home. She saves it only for me to see!” I want to expose her and say “see this is what she’s like”. She’s not some great therapist for kids! Actually she treats her own kids like crap! It’s maddening. I even taped her and played the tape for her about a month ago during one of her outbursts where she was yelling profanities. She couldn’t believe I did that and doesn’t trust me now. I told her I just wanted to record her just so she could see how she gets! She was only concerned with whether or not I let anyone hear it. Hello? I did! How do you cope!

2007-04-23 08:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf wants a baby (he's 28, im 24). He feels like he should have one before he turns 30. Now I dont mind having kids in my twenties and I know he can provide for them (financial, time and insurance), but I dont want to have any kids until im married. When i tell him this, his response is "I dont wanna wait that long (until after marriage)." This is madness to me, you can't wait to marry the woman you want to have your baby (because your unsure), but you want this same woman to give birth and be part of your life FOREVER anyway? Help me understand.

2007-04-23 08:18:20 · 2 answers · asked by wne_stl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy im dating just told me this " I like you but I need to feel we have some of connection" What is trying to say? Has he changed is mind about me?

2007-04-23 08:17:45 · 21 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

i have blonde with red high lights at the bottom and its curly at the botom straight at the top hair blue eyes plump lips taned skin a few frekles and i do have curves but im not skinny just wanna know wo wuold fancie me or be attracted?

2007-04-23 08:17:30 · 14 answers · asked by loopyloodood 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does he shake while kissing?
When ever my boyfriend and I are making out he always starts to shake/tremble and breath really fast and its starting to kinda freak me out because I know guys usually get those symptoms during a ***** but there's no way he gets one EVERY TIME! He'll even start to shake when I just give him a kiss on the cheek. One time I asked him about it and he said "I don't know, but I know it's a really good thing". Do you think he might be nervous or really excited?
Please help :)

2007-04-23 08:14:55 · 1 answers · asked by alabama-man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would u tell your wife so you could rekindle w/ her or just say it not knowing if you WILL do it again ? {an AFFAIR}

2007-04-23 08:11:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I in a serious relationship witha wonderful man we've been going out for 2 yrs. And I'm 16 and he just turned 18 on April 3. I love him with all my heart but he says that he want to marry me as soon as I graduate from high school. I told him that I definately see him as my husband but not now. I want to go to college and make a career and be independant for a little bit. He's on his way to college to major in Bussiness Managment, he was going to attend Virginia Tech but he's going to switch to UVA instead. I want to go to George Mason or VCU or maybe even Ohio State.I told him hundreads of times that we should wait till we both are finish with College and when we're both fiancially settle. Why is he acting like this?

2007-04-23 08:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by Ayita 5 in Singles & Dating

Im in love and im in high school do you think i should marry so youn or should i wait?

2007-04-23 08:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Tree Hugger 1 in Friends

just wanted to get opinions!

2007-04-23 08:01:16 · 28 answers · asked by loopyloodood 2 in Singles & Dating

So i saw my crush for the 1st time in 2 weeks cause of springbreak, i was pretty sure he liked me too cause recently i had been catching him looking at me & looking away again & he said "have a good weekend + my name" when he had never even talked to me before! So i was planning in asking how his break went today & he was standing right next to me waiting to go into class but he turned his back towards me & leant on the wall (i dont know if that was just cause his bag was in the way or cause he was shy or what) so i felt rejected & didnt ask. But during break he was looking over again and chatting to his friends (probably NOT about me) and he saw me & my friend giggling everytime he caught me looking so maybe he thinks SHE likes him & he likes her now cause when we all had a class together he started getting really loud & showing off & stretching but he had his back to us & turned round a few times (not sure who to look at though cause i looked away) i dont know what to do now? help :)

2007-04-23 07:53:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever my boyfriend and I are making out he always starts to shake/tremble and breath really fast and its starting to kinda freak me out because I know guys usually get those symptoms during an erection but there's no way he gets one EVERY TIME! He'll even start to shake when I just give him a kiss on the cheek. One time I asked him about it and he said "I don't know, but I know it's a really good thing". Do you think he might be nervous or excited or just plain horny?

Please help :)

2007-04-23 07:50:59 · 1 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are some good dates that cost little to no money?

p.s. it's about 80 degrees and sunny where I am today

2007-04-23 07:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

can we get married without our parents getting to know?....we are of age and residing in the UAE. what are the formalities for court marriage ? can we get married in a temple in trivandrum, kerala?

2007-04-23 07:50:26 · 10 answers · asked by aparna v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 07:47:01 · 13 answers · asked by Abhishek R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-23 07:46:35 · 28 answers · asked by Arshan 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm the sister...My oldest sister is having a baby...Actually, I have 2 sisters having a baby this summer within 2 weeks apart...One lives in east coast and one lives in west coast...Now, here's the deal...Trying to prepare a shower for Sis #1 w/her MIL and my Mom...We have a small family and at first having a shower w/just the ladies at a local buffet place was an idealistic and most cost effective...Now the MIL offers to have it at her house since she sd that babysitter was going to be hard and that it would be good to have both the m/females...Ok, that's still about totalling 10-15 people from my side of the family...When invitations came out she had a total of 25 ppl on her list and she sd half of it will show up...Now, last week she sd all 40 of them are coming...Totalling 50-55 ppl...Then now I just spoke to my Mom and found out she invited 20 more ppl...Totalling 70-75...Is she insane?!?...I never heard of a baby shower with so much ppl...What should I do?...

2007-04-23 07:41:55 · 11 answers · asked by $&$& 2 in Friends

Hello, I'm engaged and I just found out that my fiance went out to a casino on saturday night? He lied to me and I think he was there with a girl. We have been together for 2 years. I'm so confussed , I dont know what to do or think....

2007-04-23 07:38:32 · 32 answers · asked by Rosie L 1 in Singles & Dating

I wear a white gold ring on my wedding ring finger (with my white gold wedding ring) which has an artificial stone which looks real. When asked if its real I always say yes. Should I be telling the truth or be slightly offended by the question. I would never dream of asking a woman if the stone in her ring is real.

2007-04-23 07:35:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i dont know why but in the last say 3-4 months my nipples have become hard from the inside its like a tiny marble or pebble inside. the outside is soft but the inside is hard and its not like when u get cold ur nipples get hard but its hard inside. its like that 24/7 both of them. since the weather is warming up i wore a t-shirt today and this guy made fun of me saying i was horny. and im a guy too. i dont know what it is but im 16 so is it puberty? will it go back down itself? please help. no rude comments.

2007-04-23 07:23:36 · 2 answers · asked by mikeal a 1 in Singles & Dating

He never takes me out but meets me at the club.He buys me drinks and introduces me to his freinds.He dances with me and shoots pool.We have hooked up.

2007-04-23 07:22:08 · 14 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Singles & Dating

ok I met a great guy about 6 months ago. He was an ex drug user. I have never done drugs so I don't know sign of drug use. I love him more than anything in this world but, I can't get over the fact that he may be using again. When I first met him he didn't drink and now he is drinking everyday. I don't know if I should leave because I don't trust him. I want to talk to him but I am scared to do it. What do I do?

2007-04-23 07:20:49 · 22 answers · asked by StephanieJJJ843 1 in Family