Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

2007-04-23 02:23:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like a guy and recently found out he does too i am 17 and a virgin but i get so turned on when i am around him or touching him!
we are in a bit of a prdicament due to a 6yr age gap
and him being a friend of me bros
also we never get anytime alone

i want to go out with him but he is so nervous about my brother and the akwardness
and i dont want to make the first move
and even if i did i would only do it when we were alone11!

what should i do
what should we do

? thanks

2007-04-23 02:16:35 · 26 answers · asked by Iris 1 in Singles & Dating

I meet this girl. she has all the qualities i always beeing looking for. the problem is she lives in a different country. i really like her and i think the only thing stoping me not loving her at least yet is because of the distance, i dont want to get my hopes up for nothing. do you think i should go see her? she wants me to. but i never been to this country. what should i do.?

2007-04-23 02:15:01 · 3 answers · asked by superman 2 in Singles & Dating

I have only been married for three months, we dated for 4 years before that. My problem is that I love flirting with guys, I love the attention and I love the beginning of a relationship when everything is new and fresh and exciting. I love trying to see if I can get a guy to want me. I Know this is a huge problem. I don't want to cheat on my husband because I truly love him and take my vows very seriously. How do I get over wanting to flirt and trying to get attention from guys? How do I recreate those feelings of a new, fresh, exciting relationship?

2007-04-23 02:14:55 · 17 answers · asked by bmorediamond 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how i can say my husband is man/women because he wearing my dress at night daily suit salwar , sarees , lipistick , bindi & then drinking & torcher me whole night .when i asked him why you wearing my dress then hi beat me & say wear my pent shirt & give your ear ring or nose pin & he wear it. i fed up this man.

after comleting the make then he start drinking & force me to drinking .
our marriage time maximum 6 months only.
he say i like wearing ladies cloths & what can i do.
our aaya working in home on sunday early he is sleeping with my dress & with make up.

i am not satisfied this man.

suggest me ?

2007-04-23 02:07:28 · 29 answers · asked by ritu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First - thanks for your responses to my first question. This Q&A thing is a god send! Secondly - if I take my husband back does the pain of what's happened ever go away? And if it does how can I aid that healing? I have offered (maybe stupidly) that I will get the Decree Nisi then give him until Sept to be the person he says he wants to be. He did drink every night, 6-8 cans during the week and alot more at the weekend but has now stopped the weeknight drinking (2 weeks). In all the time we have been together he never took me out. I used to go out for meals on my own. Since I found out what he did he has taken me out twice but that has now stopped. I feel he does want to change but I'm not sure he can. Perhaps RELATE may help.

2007-04-23 02:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by LoulouBelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A spanking?

2007-04-23 02:05:05 · 20 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well am old fashion so id loose it when i get married am 20 now and for some reason i am really hatin myself for being old fashion. I cant take it i wanna know how it feels like. damn myself

2007-04-23 01:51:00 · 16 answers · asked by ILOVEU 5 in Singles & Dating

A smart funny person that wasn't that good lookin' or
someone with look's that wasn't that smart?

2007-04-23 01:46:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and yet he complained to the council about me hes done horrible things to us and his girlfriend complains to council, a freind said today she went off all night long till moring and left her kids with someone and someone else said he 5 year old was out a long way pushing the pushchair, cheeeky arn,t they calling the council on me

2007-04-23 01:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by hairy armpits 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend so much and moving in with him soon, but for some reason i'm a bit worried is that normal??

2007-04-23 01:43:09 · 21 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Singles & Dating

And why ask knowing the answer and you aren't going to like the most logical answer? And why is the most common answer "DUMP HIM!"?

2007-04-23 01:42:38 · 21 answers · asked by Tall Chicky 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 16 and I'm going to my girlfriends house for the first time. What should I do? How should I dress? Should I bring a gift? Personally I am nervous and cannot think. Please give me any suggestions as soon as possible.

Thank you,
Danial

2007-04-23 01:40:47 · 10 answers · asked by danialqureshi007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-23 01:38:43 · 2 answers · asked by alen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am happily single, but recently kissed this girl and spent the night at her's. Now I really like her, but I don't think she's very interested, but I keep making a fool of myself when she's around cos it seems awkward. We're quite good mates, so what should I do? Persevere with trying to pull her again, or just try to get our friendship back to normal?

2007-04-23 01:36:13 · 5 answers · asked by splat 3 in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I are broken up, but he still text me asking me if I still think about him. why is he asking me that? one is it a game to him, or does he really miss me?

2007-04-23 01:35:02 · 12 answers · asked by strongfemale 1 in Singles & Dating

it was a love marriage its been an year.........everything going on fine with little differences over me being called sardarni by my in-laws and other issues involved in an inter-religion marriage.....i ignore them. now comes my problem.....we are planning for a family but i feel insecure that my inlaws will surely make him / her a sikh.......i will not be allowed to give my child the name i wish to give......what shud i do?

please dont tell me i shud have decided before marrying.....at that point of time it was marriage on my mind and not kids........i just loved him.....i discussed this with my hubby bt.......no answer from him.....

2007-04-23 01:24:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like a gal but she already has a boyfren( although we became quite close and she oso flirted with me ), we oso went to different schools already...

So in my new school, i met this new gal shes not that bad looking but not crazily beautiful...we get along well and i can tell she is interested in me, she became my galfren and we recently went out for a first date...but i just dont have this unexplainable feeling that i have for the previous gal...

am i just using this gal as a subsititute? i really dont know how it will work but i wanna try....am i being bad?

2007-04-23 01:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you, girls, feel an amazing connection with your brother-in-law like I do? It's one of the best feelings one can ever have. We have known each other for years. We love, respect, admire and adore each other. We connect emotionally in a level that few people can understand. He's like a brother but also a very good friend that is there for me when I need him. I am so lucky, anyone feels the same?

2007-04-23 01:21:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im sat in the computer room and people are throwing paper at me. I feel so alone. Why do they keep doing this?? I've never done anything to them. What should i do?

2007-04-23 01:19:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-23 01:15:51 · 21 answers · asked by Woody 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im a married woman with kids, but most of the times im at home alone. I met someone online and now im very much attracted and addicted to him.I know this is a futile relationship but still i cannot control myself from chatting with him,and the more we chat the more attracted we get to each other. How do i get over this chat addiction ? I try to keep myself occupied ,but then this urge to chat with him takes over .I tried deleting my hotmail account too .How to control this urge to NOT to chat? Pls help!

2007-04-23 01:11:24 · 10 answers · asked by . 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 8 months pregnant and want to have sex all of the time. My boyfriend on the other hand doesn't seem interested anymore. Just a month ago he was saying we don't have sex enough and now it seems like I'm pressuring him to make love to me. He says he's still attracted to me even though I have my round belly.-Anyways, he is always on porn websites and "takes care of himself". I told him on Friday morning that I was really wanting some affection, at night I tried to approach him for some affection and he didn't want to because he already "took care of himself". Would this bother any of you?

2007-04-23 01:07:12 · 1 answers · asked by starrinights 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok - So i've liked my personal trainer for a while - and he asked me to go to a concert with him the other night.
We got into the concert and it was dark and I though that he was going to make his move, but nothing happened (although he did have the flu). (It was a sitting down, and watch concert)

I really enjoyed the concert and would like to get to know him better.

At the end I mentioned that we should do it again sometime and he said sure.

Anyway I have a fitness test for my job (which is what i'm training for on Sunday). Was thinking of asking him out for drinks on Sunday night (just him and I) if I pass the fitness test, what do you think? Too forward? Do you think he would be interested? Any ideas on what I should say?

2007-04-23 01:06:31 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah_Silverstone 2 in Singles & Dating

He hinted last night that he did not want to get married (we are engaged ). He is my everything. But I have enough selfrespect to make a clean break and accept it. He is not a good guy. What are some of the signs I should look for and how can I know he is not in love with me and how can I break up with dignity.

2007-04-23 00:57:58 · 15 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

five years clean and three of them i never even thought about it anymore.......but then one day about 8 months ago it just happened and its not stopped since. this time seems harder than last, even though now i have every thing to lose.....mostly hard earned trust. any suggestions? already done groups and it didnt help a bit

2007-04-23 00:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by bedebe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He elbowed me in the face. He punched me over and over in the head, he pulled out my hair, he slapped my face, he punched my body, he punched my stomach and winded me, he put his hands around my throat..All because i kept him up in the night because he was snoring, and i have been struggling to overcome somethings so i find it hard to sleep. I was crying in early hours and he told me to die and that he needed his sleep. He told me he wanted to kill me and that everyone wants me dead, he called me fat and told me he hates me.. all because i kept him up. I feel like its alll my fault. I still love him, i dont know why. He took me to the cinema last night and it was a nice night. He regrets what hes done but he sed i shouldnt of kept him up all night. he said he didnt mean anything he said.

Im in pain, i just feel like doing him and everyone else a favour and die .
please give me some advice.

2007-04-23 00:41:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i always felt asleep at 11pm.but i want to continue study but i will usually sleep early

can u give me ways about how to keep myself awake ?!.
example..do exercise , drink coffea like tat
i'm taking an important exam this year thats why i have study late in the night ..

please help
thanks god bless u

2007-04-23 00:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by 5566 1 in Singles & Dating

This man in a dating site is seeking a woman who will accept this kind of setup: They will both get married and have a lot of kids, and she will have no complaints whatsoever if the man brings home another lady, marry her and bear her kids too. He wants both women to be his wife, live in the same house and get along perfectly well. He wants to create his own loving and happy "community".

Note: He's not muslim. He calls it "plural marriage". What kind of b.s. is that? Does this happen normally to some countries? What are your thoughts on this so-called "plural marriage"?

2007-04-23 00:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know, is it legaly permisable marring first cousin (father's sister's son)in india, Can one register this marriage as per marrage act(hindu).

only serious ans only, please don't give unwanted advise.

2007-04-23 00:24:11 · 13 answers · asked by sampita001 1 in Marriage & Divorce