Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

I'm in way too deep. I've never gotton attatched to a guy before so i thought it would be the same now, but he's doing something to me i've never felt before. I'm falling for him really bad and he's always treating me like he's just doing me a favour being with me. I was warned about him and that he's hurt all his ex's but i was stupid and stuborn and had to keep him close, at first just to prove everyone wrong, but now I can't help but come back to him! It hurts now but it'll hurt more later, how do i get out of this? I've tried so hard, but i can't go a single day without needing to talk to him! He's breaking my heart and i can't stop him! please help me!

2007-04-23 08:53:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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like hidden wierd recipe face mask things or something?

2007-04-23 08:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 08:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Larry White 1 in Friends

Heres the thing...

ok this past wednesday after church i walk outside and there is a bunch of people outside and suddenly this girl from my class that i have never talked to b4 says,

"Do you want to be my friend?"
i said, "sure what's your name?"
she said "holly"
then she looked over to her friends and they giggled.

PLease don't be rough with your answers.

ps she is pretty, shy, and soon to be 13 i think. I don't see her but on wednesdays.

i am 13, homeschooled, and like 5-10lb overweight, but not much.

so what should i do?
what should i say?
what could i talk about with her?

2007-04-23 08:49:45 · 10 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

This question is mainly for men who have experienced this, but I'm open to women responding because I know they have some valuable input. I believe that a child that is ridiculously attatched to their mother will drive a man away just as fast as a hell-raiser child. This is not about being jealous of the child, but I do believe there is a such thing as being too attached. At what age is it no-longer acceptable to be a mama's girl (boy)? What are the general stereotypes of mama's girls? (It's easy to get info on mama's boys.) How do kids end up being ridiculously attached to parents? Your answers are greatly appreciated.

2007-04-23 08:48:53 · 14 answers · asked by Thomas S 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, do you ever purposely try to make your girlfriends whom you say you love jealous?? If you do, please explain your thinking behind this...thanks!

2007-04-23 08:48:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u thinkabout a 16 year old having a baby on the anerversey of here brothers deth 4/22 but a differnt year is that spost to b a happy tyme or sad i mene i dont no

2007-04-23 08:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by baby gril 1212 2 in Family

2007-04-23 08:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by janetjacksoniscool 1 in Singles & Dating

so my parents want me to go to medical school....not quite open with their options. so i just want to take a break from school and get my medical tech license, but they won't let me do that either. they are driving me crazy and they always screw with my emotions by putting me through guilt trips. i always have to do wht they think is best eventhough i know it is not always best for me. i try to stand up to them, but i feel bad because they are my parents and they invested so much into me.

2007-04-23 08:47:25 · 2 answers · asked by pardesiangel31 2 in Family

I had a young lady yesterday buy ticks from me at the box office for an upcoming baseball game.....I think I might of double charged her...it took me 10-15 minutes to reboot the system and made her wait along time. She told me in casual chatter where she worked and I went there to see if she was there she wasn't. Is it ok to leave a message for her about this? I also want to see if I can make it up to her too.

2007-04-23 08:47:04 · 4 answers · asked by sporteguy03 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently reconnected with my x of 5 years ago.
we talked and all and all of a sudden we connected again and feelings develop. we express to each other that we want a long term with each other but for now lets not rush things and lets enjoy each other and take it slow.

not the other day, he told me that his neighbor who he doesnt know only says hi and bye to her, she knock on his door and invited him to watch a movie with her at her apt. and he went
i dont know how to react towards this, it really bother me because he doesnt know her and how inconsider he could be, i express to him that this situation bothers me and he comes tell me it was innocent that he is a free spirit person but still he doesnt realize that this bothered me, its not insecurity, its the doors it will open for the future. how should i handle this situation
please help

2007-04-23 08:46:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom moved in with me . she and her boyfriend are living in one of my extra spare bedrooms and well, my mother in very unmotovated and she tells me that she doesnt care about anything anymore she watches tv all day long. she is weird and she makes me feel yuckie. she is going from job to job. 3 jobs is 2 weeks. she had this squacking bird that drives me nuts. i feel like she is a wacko and a weirdo i dont want her to live with me anymore but i feel like a bad daughter for this. she gives me panic attacks and he self esteem is zero, i tell her to read she says she cant i tell her to . she is very depressed with low self esteem and she is bringing me down she said she cant take antidepressents because it will kill her. she is really low and taking me with her... what should i do

2007-04-23 08:45:44 · 33 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family

So I have this friend that is really beautiful and resembles. Every time a group of us girls go out, guys will look at her, but they never ask her out or anything. A lot of my other friends get hit on and have guys come and talk to them. My friends are pretty, but none of them are like my beautiful friend lookswise. I get hit on too and I think I'm ok looking with a good personality.

It's not like she has a horrible personality because she is funny and very outgoing. It's weird to because some of my friends are kind of frigid and I know this one girl who has a very nice, handsome boyfriend and I think she is lacking in the looks and personality department.

Guys, I wanna know: Do you go for pretty/cute girls over beautiful ones? Are you imtimidated by really beautiful women? Are pretty/generic girls safe? Or are you just practicing on less attractive or even ugly women until you can work your way up to beautiful ones?

2007-04-23 08:45:38 · 14 answers · asked by lyzz 2 in Singles & Dating

he bought it from Walmart 3 months after I proposed to him & no wedding date has been set??

2007-04-23 08:44:42 · 13 answers · asked by Happy go Lucky 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I knew each other when we were teens however we never dated. Now, years later we are both 26 and we ran into each other a few months ago. Ever since, we have spent every day together except for the week I took my son to FL for vaccation. (pre-planned) I am a single Mom of my six year old boy and I have been single for over a year and I havn't been in serious relationships. My boyfriend and I are already in love at two months! Its the best feeling Ive ever had and he treats my son and I the best ever. My gut tells me everything is okay but I'm afraid people would judge. He talked to me yesterday on our hiking trip and asked how I felt about him moving in with me when his lease is up in another month. He already stays there 6 out of 7 nights now. I would love nothing more for him to move in with me when his lease is up but I feel like people will tell me it's too early? He has never lived with another woman so it makes me happy to hear he wants to take the step

2007-04-23 08:43:18 · 55 answers · asked by summer123 2 in Singles & Dating

My wnderful husband and I will be celebrating our 1st anniversary shortley. I want to get a really nice, senimental gift for him. The kicker is that he is currently serving in Afghanistan. Can anyone think of some thing that would be a good gift. Being that it is our first and under such special circumstances, I want to make it really nice. HEEEEEELP!!!

2007-04-23 08:42:04 · 8 answers · asked by LadyRico 3 in Marriage & Divorce

yo I keep scoring with the pretty girls but I can't get the uglies. I don't necessairly want 'em, but I want to be able to say that I've had 'em all, ya hear? how do I lower my bar?

2007-04-23 08:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by wellfirstofall 1 in Singles & Dating

Mt bf & I have been 2gether for 2.5 yrs, he has always been lovely, sweet, caring & gentle. we got engaged last yr & I thought everything was great. On Xmas day, his phone rang with 'Kelly' i asked who Kelly was, cos I thought i knew all his friends, he said she was a girl at work, i said 'why dont you answer?' and he got v.v. annoyed (which is not like him) he confessed eventually he had feelings for her but hadnt done anything & they had just been texting. i didnt believe him & said i would call his bluff & ring her myself, i did & she told me they had been seeing eachother for 2 weeks & had kissed, he had told her he had split up with me! i told him to get out my flat & didnt see him for a week. we started talking again in the new yr & decided to give it another go - he quit his job & changed his mob no. & as far as im aware has had no contact with her, he's been good & has answered all my questions & has been patient but i cant get over it. its killing me. he is 19 & i am 25.

2007-04-23 08:41:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well this girl told me one time she might have feelings for me. then one time when we were hanging out, one of her friends who doesnt like me and is also a guy kept trying to get her away from me n putting his arms around her n stuff. i just kept away n let her decide who she wanted to talk to. when it came time to leave i left without saying bye cz his arms were around her again. this really botherd her n she told me later on and she says shes not used to being attracted to guys that often she tries to avoid it and shes unstable and she went from possibly having feelings for me to "taking a step back." what should i do in this situation. i asked her again about a week later n she said im different to her from other guys but still she doesnt consider melike she used to. wat is the solution to this? do i be nice and patient? should i just leave and let her decide to talk to me? if she wants to stay just friends and i dont want to, should i go with it? basically what attitude is needed for this, and wat steps or actions should i make? plz b specific

2007-04-23 08:40:26 · 16 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13/14 and people in my year are always asking each other out but half the time they're joking. Since the beginning of the year 3 people have asked me to marry them and 5 said they loved me. (They were all joking). But how can I tell when they're serious?

2007-04-23 08:39:04 · 9 answers · asked by KittyKat 3 in Singles & Dating

i got with my boyfriend two months ago, he has a kid to his ex they only split up six month ago.
but they text each other all the time, on sat he went into her shop for a chat then we went to the pub and when we got back at 3 in the morning he called her to see how the kid was (ofcourse he was sleeping ) but he went on to ask her if she had went out.
then today he went to her shop again on his lunch break and drove he to mcdonalds.
he says all the right things but im just not sure

2007-04-23 08:38:13 · 39 answers · asked by clairexxxx 2 in Singles & Dating

is this true......

For the 15 prettiest girls on my friends list. Once you have been hit, you have to hit 15 pretty girls. If you get hit again you know your really pretty. So hit 15 pretty girls on your friends list and let them know they are pretty!"
----------------Girls-----
----
-----------are like apples------
-------on trees. The best ones-----
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The boys dont want to reach---
--for the good ones because they--
-r afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
from the ground that arent as good,
but easy. So the apples up top think
something wrong with them when in
-reality they're amazing. They just--
---have to wait for the right boy to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
---------------climb all---------
---------------the way------
-------------to the top-------

2007-04-23 08:35:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can he avoid getting in trouble with the law. There is no sex invloved. Waiting to date is not an option.

2007-04-23 08:34:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you've seen the movie, "The Notebook", then you somewhat know my problem.

I'm currently with an amazing man that is responsible, caring, and nice. We've been together for 5 years. I love him dearly, but I'm not IN love with him. We have very little sex life, no passion, never say "I love you", never kiss (intimately). We're best friends. It didn't start this way. It's just how HE likes it. Yes, I've tried talking. We have a business together.

I have 2 children from a previous relationship and 2 years ago their father revealed he's still in love with me. He hasn't dated anyone else in 10 years. He's had girlfriends, but not for more than a few weeks. I tried to blow it off at first, but I'm still in love with him, 2. He's the complete opposite. Irresponsible (though, slowly getting there), passionate, romantic, etc. He remembers EVERYTHING about us- down to the color of socks I was wearing when we met 16 years ago. (I DON'T remember everything.)

I have not physically cheated.

2007-04-23 08:34:20 · 13 answers · asked by funnyface 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 08:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by Rebecca R 2 in Singles & Dating

what type of clothing do you like yur girls wearing in bed with you

2007-04-23 08:32:54 · 17 answers · asked by sexy shit 1 in Singles & Dating

I found a gorgeouse lookin lady, but she is 15 year older then me,is it ok? to marry her,

2007-04-23 08:32:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently been hesitant in going out and meeting people to date because of my finances. I've recently met someone I'm definetly interested in and the feeling is mutual but because of my current situation I'm not sure if I should move forward or not. I don't what him thinking I'm looking for someone to support me.

2007-04-23 08:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by averyd84 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex and me fell out about six months ago he is with someone else now, but 4 the last week he has been calling me every day and sending me about twenty texts a day. on saturday he came into my work and sat 4 two hours his girl friend phoned and he told her were he was.
On sat night he called me when he got in from the pub she was their to, he never said ny thing about her and i did not ask because i still love him and it would have hurt if he spoke about her.
today he came into my work again and brought me lunch,
the reason we split up is because i felt he did not make an effort with me.
do you think he is trying to show me he has changed or am i looking to much in to it

2007-04-23 08:31:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i go? it is in two weeks and i have talked to her 3 times if i go what should i get her my budget is 20$ max

2007-04-23 08:30:45 · 10 answers · asked by baby_rach_21 5 in Friends