So I have this friend that is really beautiful and resembles. Every time a group of us girls go out, guys will look at her, but they never ask her out or anything. A lot of my other friends get hit on and have guys come and talk to them. My friends are pretty, but none of them are like my beautiful friend lookswise. I get hit on too and I think I'm ok looking with a good personality.
It's not like she has a horrible personality because she is funny and very outgoing. It's weird to because some of my friends are kind of frigid and I know this one girl who has a very nice, handsome boyfriend and I think she is lacking in the looks and personality department.
Guys, I wanna know: Do you go for pretty/cute girls over beautiful ones? Are you imtimidated by really beautiful women? Are pretty/generic girls safe? Or are you just practicing on less attractive or even ugly women until you can work your way up to beautiful ones?
2007-04-23 08:45:38 · 14 answers · asked by lyzz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant to say she resembles Angelina Jolie.
2007-04-23 08:48:02 · update #1
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for one.
There is a lot more competition for 'beautiful' women.
Also, the potential flirts may be put off by her looks if they think she might consider them too low-down to date.
You say she already has a good personality, so I guess she doesn't need to loosen up any more. I guess she just needs to wait - it'll happen, one day. Patience is a virtue.
2007-04-23 08:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Deconstitutionalization 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretty Vs Beautiful
2016-10-18 02:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by privett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have actually had this problem myself in the past and have often asked my male friends why guys will stare at me but will rarely talk to me or ask me out. I'm told that "too" pretty or beautiful women scare men away because they are intimidated and yes, think they have no chance. Or they think you she must be taken. My fiance has an issue every time we go out because guys stare at me. I'm sure when people see us they think "how did HE get her". Don't under estimate not so good looking people, their personalities make them great people. Anyway, that is what I think it is. Also, have you ever seen the movie A Beautiful Mind - where Russell Crowe and the other guys in the movie were in a bar and there was an extremely beautiful woman with four of her just pretty or okay friends. Crowe's character devised a plan that each guy ask the okay girls out so that they all get a woman and no one gets shut out - because he said that not all of them can have the beautiful one so if none of them went for her, they'd all have a date. And it worked. Sounds like what happens a lot to your friend and that sucks.
2007-04-23 09:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Most men who fantasize about or date "hot girls" have low self esteem. It's not about being with her, it's about being seen with her...an unfortunate circumstance for the girl. The spotlight always needs to be on him. Being seen with a "pretty girl" works OK but it's only worth a glance. Men need to be careful what they ask for. They might get it and that's when we make fools of ourselves.....and the girl. BTW...I prefer "the girl next door".
2016-04-01 03:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I'm intimidated by extremely beautiful people.
I sometimes feel because they are so beautiful they might lack personality, or even be arrogant.
Its just an assumption.
2007-04-23 08:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK the way i see it. Its that guys tend to like the pretty girl better because that's their safe zone for them.
But if you see them with the most beautiful girl they tend to be very full of them self's. then right there they think that every girl wants them. (they think that they are better then most guys),
2007-04-23 09:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by prettygothgirl69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, most guys do feel unworthy of really beautiful girls.But they need to understand that external beauty fades. So when making a date always look for a loving heart !"It is the most important body part ! !
2007-04-23 09:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i personally like the grl that imtimidate others its just me but personality is always a plus so i would prefer a average lookin grl with a great personlity......a lot of guys i know dont like approaching women that they think is out of there league because they dont think they have much to offer and sad to day a lot of them dont....so it depends on the persons verbal skills, confidence and wat type of grls he's into.....also i like to pick the grl that stands out from the group, because friends act a lot alike but one always stands out
2007-04-23 09:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by D.C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that guys r just intimidated by beautiful girls, alot of ppl say i look like angelina jolie too and where im from most guys wont even make eye contact with me
2007-04-23 08:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by blah! 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
the easy ones will increase the chance of getting lay
2007-04-23 08:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋