I found a gorgeouse lookin lady, but she is 15 year older then me,is it ok? to marry her,
2007-04-23 08:32:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dude, being a lover boy, why wouldn't you want a girl? i mean, it'd be okay if she was terry hatcher, but, you know. ah, you want someone like eva longoria? good choice. but good luck with her types. seriously, good luck!
2007-04-23 09:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by ·will¹ªm ºn vacation! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be ok, but you have to think about when you get older. Like when your 50 and she'll be 75. That's quite a difference there. It might seem ok right now, but later... I don't know.
My mom who is 52 is in a relationship with a guy that's 8 years younger than she. He wants to get married, but her main concern is for him when she's old. She knows she's already slowing down and is concerned about the "activity" gap they would have later on.
I guess if you really love her and that doesn't matter, then go for it. ...no on can help where the love falls...
2007-04-23 10:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by EarthGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a serious thing meant for two people who love, respect, and deeply care about one another. If you are commited to this woman and vice versa, and you both are ready for the next step, age means nothing. When two people love each other enough, age should be the last thing from their minds. My parents are only a year apart, but my best friends parents are about 14 years apart, and they have been happily married for close to 20 years. Good luck sweetie!
2007-04-23 08:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rorie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, marriage honorable. I think a man should marry older woman because she is more mature than man. If your intentions are right. Can you live with her age that is the point. Will you let other people cause you not to have the love you desire. Can you be the man in this relationship and not the puck--
2007-04-23 08:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO the classic Greeks USE to try this no longer now at 15 you're so youthful you do no longer' even understand who you're at 15 no longer to point waiting to have toddlers...and be married in those situations you probably did no longer stay as long as we do now the two...
2016-10-03 11:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by lachermeier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its perfectly OK !
I'm married to a man that is 15 years older than me
and we are perfectly happy with the way things
are. i wouldn't have it eny other way. if you love
her then why does her age matter. go for it just as long as you
are both over 18
2007-04-23 09:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are in love why would it be wrong to marry her? Im married to a man 16 years older than me.
2007-04-23 08:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a long as you are not 15
2007-04-23 08:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel a deep connection with her and truly love her, then I say why not. Love is far deeper than a number that only represents how many years we've been alive.
2007-04-23 08:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by fmxkrazyone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be a difficult thing. it isn't wrong. think about when she dies do you want to go to her funeral, in other words are you ok with the pain of loosing her possibly first. Also there might be a barrier of maturity and communication. IE you want to party she wants to go to the opera or sleep
2007-04-23 08:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋