Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

Why does my boyfriend always try to get me horny?

2007-04-23 07:17:28 · 1 answers · asked by Aunt Lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 07:17:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I went to jail, my wife cheated on me with my best friends!!!! then she cheated on me on our one month engagement anniversary, and then again 3 times after that with her ex boyfriend....... I want to leave some times and some times I don't! I really love her and i want to work things ut but it's really hard for me to trust her.... what should i do?

2007-04-23 07:13:24 · 23 answers · asked by hOnDa RaCeR 71 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how?

2007-04-23 07:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am just fed up. I kicked him out, changed the locks, and told him enough is enough. He's continues to use drugs, he won't get a job, he stays away for weeks at a time, i pay all the bills and provide for our children by myself, and has been doing this for 3 years. He's mad at our oldest daughter for finding his drug paraphenelia in her bathroom, now she has lost all respect for him. I refuse to let him back in, and I've told him I want a divorce. He's not on my lease, and has never been on any lease with me. He calls out of the blue and tells me the police says because we're married I can't kick him out. Now let's be real, if I chose not to live with someone anyone(married or not) that is my business, and no one can tell me to live with someone who's not only a danger to himself, but to me and our children. He's out, and he's staying out, the locks are already changed, and his name will never be on this lease.
My question is:" Do I have to let this man back into this apartment?

2007-04-23 07:07:31 · 3 answers · asked by soon2bfree 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend to peices but this is really bugging me. One night he came home from college he only goes 3 times a week one night he came home and was running a fever of a103 then he went to go and have sex with me? I tried and he wasnt even hard really does this mean he has cheated or is it just because he is sick? i just dont understand. Please help

2007-04-23 07:06:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i spilt from him 3 weeks ago when i found him cheating on me.anyway he did call me for a week beging etc but i said a firm no.he then im assuming called up the girl he was cheatin on me with and now tlaks to her....thing is i had something to clarify so i gave him a call last nite on a witheld number he piked up and it was wierd as his voice was emotional and he seemed hesitant and bit wierd i was fine he then said congrats to me [he thinks im with another man which i said i was] and then he burst into tears...and said he cant speak to me so i got off the fone...thing is hes a drama queen and hes alwyas cried his way of out a sitation but he didnt need to cry yday it was pointless...anyway i called him back literlaly within the same second and he was on call waiting talking to HER.....I FIND THE whole thing weird.
can someone explain what hes playin at .......he didnt pik up my call anyhow i jsut wana know why he would cry when theres no need.we wer 2geva 3 years

2007-04-23 07:03:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend, he is weird, and can be frusterating and acting like a baby. I dont know what to do, we have been dating 6 months, and also I have feelings for his best friend, by best friends boyfrined kind of. I would never take him from her but still. Also I have a little feeling for this other guy I used to like but dont talk to as much as my boyfriends best friend. So I dont know what to do. Also my boyfriend has severe acne that keeps getting worse and people make fun of him. I feel bad. I need help please! Im not sure I am quite happy anymore about him, and us. So please help! ASAP. Thanks!

2007-04-23 07:01:38 · 28 answers · asked by Marr 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband just bought a house and ever sense we moved here he has been very rude and cruel. We are so not getting along. He made me scrub the bathtub when we thought I was losing our third baby. I have had no jobs and I have no education and no place to go. I am scared and I dont know what to do or where to go if I leave. We live in a small town and there is nothing here to help me through this. If you know of anything I could try to get out please let me know.

2007-04-23 07:00:31 · 18 answers · asked by Amber T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

everyone will have a different answer. just please, answer properly!
thanks in advance!

2007-04-23 06:55:26 · 12 answers · asked by Tinara 2 in Singles & Dating

Also what is da point of using a D..I..Ldo seems pointless by the way this is both a male and female asking this question.

2007-04-23 06:52:06 · 27 answers · asked by rich050988 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 06:49:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 06:48:59 · 26 answers · asked by SAM 1 in Singles & Dating

i hold in my hand a culmination (sp) of 5 weeksn work or private eyeing. its a website put on by on of her friends, and everyone says shes having s ex in the pix, but recently she calmed down, and started trying to work it out. i want it to work, but if i see those pix, i know its over. this has been killing me for 6 months, and i need to kinow, but i love my family, help!

2007-04-23 06:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My weddings in a month and I don't have a clue what to do with my hair. I went to the knot and all those fun wedding web sites but those pictures they put up are crazy. Like who would do that on there wedding day. I would like a half up half down do. Can anyone help me?

2007-04-23 06:47:44 · 5 answers · asked by Windsor 1 in Weddings

I might be having a blind date here pretty soon (i know, they're the worst), but i'm not counting on anything. I'm thinking its ok to wear a hat around the 3rd or 4th date, if there is one of course. Just wanted opinions. Thanks!

2007-04-23 06:44:49 · 7 answers · asked by Troy Mac 3 in Singles & Dating

What should I do, my wife is not a dyke and would be deeply offended by my friends advances, I don't want to loose a friend or upset my wife.

2007-04-23 06:43:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and her boyfriend are moving to San Antonio in less than a week. She has offered many college links to colleges in San Antonio, and I've found a college that looks good to me. They already have a 2 bedroom apartment, but they have no room for me to stay, which is fine..I just have to find an affordable place to stay. I'm looking to work in a restaurant(I'm currently a waitress at Colton's and I make good money) since she told me that it's a big restaurant town.
However, my parents will not let me take my car(which is in their name) out of state for fear of it being stolen, etc..Their main concern is paying it off before I go anywhere with it.
Can anyone help me figure this out??

2007-04-23 06:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by Nivens_alphaBitch 1 in Family

okay, if you suspected your spouse was cheating on you, so you did some private eye stuff, and you uncovered a website reputed to havre your spouses nude/pornographich pix (that were taking during the marraige, during rocky times) but your spouse seemsm genuinely yto want to work it out, but you know seeing the pix will end it. you dont want to get a divorce, but you need to know. what do you do?????

2007-04-23 06:30:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what are your views on it? why is it that people say that it won't work? why is it that people say "your to young" "your not ready"? When your in a marriage, you grow together...right? why is it that people don't want to settle down until they are thirty?

Im 16 and i will be married next year. Moving to new york with my soon to be husband and I will complete my senior year in highschool there. Hes graduating this year and he is 17. So he will be starting college this year.

People have suggested we wait until im 20 or atleast finish college before we do but I think if it is possible to do this then why not? If we both know what we want then why not? whats wrong with getting married to the person you love? Nothing.

Ofcourse we all know marriage isn't just about love. I'm just saying. My dad disagrees completely but he has no say so in what i do because he does not have custody of me and besides, I think hes racist. He doesnt like my fiance because he isn't fully black and...

2007-04-23 06:29:14 · 28 answers · asked by Aubri's Mommie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex girlfriend and I broke up a few months back but still are good friends. Sometimes make out on nights when we go out, but sometimes just cuddle and stuff. Anyways, I am not dating anyone else and nor is she that I am aware. So, we really aren't together nor dating, just having fun I guess.

This guy I know from one of my classes is friends with her and he messaged me today asking if I was dating her or not. Which, is kind of weird. She went to a party with a few friends a few days ago and wanted me to go but I could not. I saw and realized the guy mentioned above was there and she never told me when I asked who went.

Not that I am jealous, well, a little but mainly just curious. Do I sense something coming on with these two? Is she fooling around with both of us? I still like her, but I am not sure I want to date/get back together with her yet. What do I tell this guy? We are just friends or?

2007-04-23 06:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by Dingdingdong 2 in Singles & Dating

Do people expect wedding favors? It seems like all the weddings I hear about or have gone to, the favors are sweet but are always left behind. I would rather invest that extra $300 on something else.Any response whether negative or positive is most appreciative!

2007-04-23 06:23:41 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 39, my husband is 47.
For all of our marriage, he was not intimate - even before. Before we were married he said he was insecure and that once we were married he would feel better and be more open. Well, seven years later, and we went from our highlight of sex (maybe once a week, with no foreplay, no kissing EVER and no eye contact) to about once every three months if that, always in the morning before he goes to work, and again, very fast and robotic.

In the past, I would try to talk to him. I bought books for me, for him, for us. I tried everything. I am thin, attractive enough, and often get attention from men as young as 25 and as old as 60 when out, and I dress classic - not sleazy.
I do not have hygenic issues and if I did, I would address them. I never had this sexual issue with anyone else. My sex life was always wonderful before. I thought this would be a security issue with him, and he'd relax.

2007-04-23 06:23:33 · 17 answers · asked by sadandconfused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi im feeling quite low because everytime i try to get a gf i always fail i got black hair some where 4ft or 5ft i hav'nt mesured my height and i think im getting fatter and uglier i am smart and i want to look smart and i like video games what should i do to make myself more attractive? and to deal with spots quickly?

2007-04-23 06:22:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just met my dad at age 20 and I am now 23. He is attending the wedding. As a child I always dreamed of one day meeting my dad and him walking me down the aisle. I was actually blessed with the reuniting of me and my father, but now I am having second thoughts. My mother has always been there for me, she is the one who raised me, and the only one who can say that I am what I am because of her. She is also my best friend. I think she is the only one who has the right to give me away, not my father. I wanted both to do it, but I don't want to push it. My mom and dad haven't seen each other in 23 years since he walked out on the family. Please help!!

2007-04-23 06:22:07 · 47 answers · asked by Amy B 1 in Weddings

2007-04-23 06:20:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wish I knew how to get over the pain.

2007-04-23 06:19:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

through our addiction to Wheaties. I just picked up Frosted Flakes today, and we'll make the switch. It'll be hard, but I'm not paying some nimrod to counsel us.

2007-04-23 06:16:52 · 13 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am ask ing this because somepeople laugh what would you do?

2007-04-23 06:12:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm getting married May 5th, that's like two weeks away, and more than half the people I have invited have not RSVP'ed. The invites were sent out a month ago and some people have RSVP'ed and others I'm hearing through the great vine. This is chapping my a$$.. We have put out a lot money and have no idea who's coming and who's not! There will be food and alcohol and a head count would be nice! What do I do???

2007-04-23 06:10:39 · 35 answers · asked by Flying w/ scissors 6 in Weddings