I love my boyfriend to peices but this is really bugging me. One night he came home from college he only goes 3 times a week one night he came home and was running a fever of a103 then he went to go and have sex with me? I tried and he wasnt even hard really does this mean he has cheated or is it just because he is sick? i just dont understand. Please help
2007-04-23 07:06:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're old enough to be having sex with people, you better be old enough to ask HIM what was going on.
2007-04-23 07:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he was running a 103 degree fever, then I think it's safe to say he's sick and not cheating. But two things.
One, are you crazy, having sex with someone running a fever? Do you just WANT to be sick? And congrats on him for giving it the old college try anyway.
But two, why would you equate a little limpness with him cheating on you? I mean, unless he just got off some other girl 5 minutes ago, it shouldn't be a factor. The point is, that's awfully suspicious of you. Do you have other indicators that he might be cheating, or are you just super jealous and suspicious by nature?
2007-04-23 14:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Bob the Builder 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey the man had a temp of 103, he was sick hell he was probably drained for the fever. Don't read that much into it, you no if you look for trouble you will find it, so don't think that let him get better an try again. Anyway you should be trying to help him get well.Chicken soup and a little TLC would be good, and plenty of fluids.
2007-04-23 14:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons for the limp problem. Probably it is because he had a 103 degree temp. I have had a temp like that and I didn't feel like going to school, that is for sure, much less have sex with anyone. Just because he didnt get hard does not mean that he is cheating or unattracted to you.
2007-04-23 14:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was just running a fever or something if he was 103 degrees.
but like, it could also be drugs too.
Some drugs can make you really hott and guys arent able to get it up when there loaded if you know what I mean.
you should ask him and if he freaks out hes hiding something I would say.
2007-04-23 14:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by whineyviney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't include enough reasons for us to deduct that he was cheating. If he was sick, that could be it. What are the other reasons that you think he cheated? That cannot prove anything, just that ONE thing. You must not trust him for something.
2007-04-23 14:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to proofread your statements.
Second - he had a freaking fever!!! Of course he's not going to be able to perform and why would you think he was cheating.
2007-04-23 14:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, not all guys are hard all the time, could be the sickness or any number of reasons.
2007-04-23 14:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by John L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because he was sick. With a temp of 103 you shouldn't be surprised that he couldn't get it up.
2007-04-23 14:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably rubbed one off earlier in the day. If you weren't wet, should he think you were cheating? There are bigger things to think about in the world than this.
2007-04-23 14:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋