i hold in my hand a culmination (sp) of 5 weeksn work or private eyeing. its a website put on by on of her friends, and everyone says shes having s ex in the pix, but recently she calmed down, and started trying to work it out. i want it to work, but if i see those pix, i know its over. this has been killing me for 6 months, and i need to kinow, but i love my family, help!
2007-04-23 06:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To make the right decision you need to look, don't take someone else word for it. If you don't look you will always wonder. When or if you do look keep a open mind and try not to make the decision about your marriage right off.
2007-04-25 06:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets get right to it, if in any way possible you feel that your marraige can be saved then save it. But if you feel as though you will not be able to save it then let the dead bury the dead.
Give your spouse a chance to explain what you have found because as the old saying goes " if you look for it dont be mad when you find it", it may be something that which was used to get attention or worst case scenario to hurt you and end the relationship.
But once you find out for yourself from your spouse's lips to your ears then and only then can you make an informed decision and have a clear mind when you do it. Dont rush but take time and clarify from spouse not friends
2007-04-23 07:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by xxprotein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense.... but the feelings of wanting to look at those pics are never going to go away until you look. So either way your going to end up looking at them... Maybe you need to look at them so your true feelings come out. If you continue to hold things in...... your gonna take it out on something else later. Get it over with and look. If you cant handle things after that... then its time to leave.... the best thing you can do for your family is to have a good relationship with everyone... and if you and your wife dont have trust.... your kids are going to suffer
2007-04-23 06:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by crazyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid...take a look at the pics...see if it is even her...it may not be. There is a chance that someone is trying to phuck with your head. OR, it may be true. If you cannot deal with the truth, then you cannot build anything that will last. What do you plan on doing...living forever more with the idea that she was having sex and posted on the internet, but if you don't see them, they aren't real ???????? Face truth and make a decision...up to you.
2007-04-23 06:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have a close friend of your or a trusted family member of yours go to the site and copy the pic and back it up on disk and on a server. Go to marriage counseling quick, go to your local Church they us ally have free marriage counseling. I hope it works out for you.
2007-04-23 06:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you. No one here can advise you. Do you want the marriage to work and can you live with knowing that your wife has cheated?
It's your decision to make.
2007-04-23 06:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there really is no way you can save that! everyone that you see on a daily basis you will ask "wonder if they saw it". you will always have that in the back of your mind! trust me- that will be there! and the trust you had is completely gone.
2007-04-23 06:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me the website link and I will let you know after I've watched it
2007-04-23 06:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋