I have a boyfriend, he is weird, and can be frusterating and acting like a baby. I dont know what to do, we have been dating 6 months, and also I have feelings for his best friend, by best friends boyfrined kind of. I would never take him from her but still. Also I have a little feeling for this other guy I used to like but dont talk to as much as my boyfriends best friend. So I dont know what to do. Also my boyfriend has severe acne that keeps getting worse and people make fun of him. I feel bad. I need help please! Im not sure I am quite happy anymore about him, and us. So please help! ASAP. Thanks!
2007-04-23 07:01:38 · 28 answers · asked by Marr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont not like him because of his acne, I just feel bad people make fun of him. I am not shallow.
2007-04-24 05:56:46 · update #1
That mean you not ready to go with this. break up with him because in a relationship you have to have one feeling for who you going out with. You just liking someone, think about who you really like, i know one of the guy you really dont like.
2007-04-23 07:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all hun, you need to sit down and decde who u like the most, cuz obviously u cant like 10 ppl at the same time lolz...and plus looks are just one characteristic of a person, have u concentrated on other factors too, except the fact that he has a lot of acne? Since you've been in a relationship for 6 months, why dont u try to work on it, rather than remove urself completely...give it a chance.
2007-04-23 07:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by ~Layla~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem.You don't know exactly what you want,you like this guy,the other your boyfriend,and for the acne there are too many treatments for that,you shouldn't be ashamed for that but you should be ashamed for saying you feel bad.If you really love him it doesn't matter the acne,have you ever think how he would feel if you tell him this or if he finds out your feelings.Don't you see that you are the one that maybe give him more confidence and self esteem,because of his acne problem.Would you like if you were like him and everyone makes fun of you,and he leaves you because there is a more attractive girl that doesn't have skin problems.Think about it.
2007-04-23 07:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. It sounds like you're a little bit confused. Maybe you could try being single for awhile so that you can give yourself time to think things over.
I've been in relationships where I wasn't happy and during that time, I was extremely vulnerable and almost any other guy looked good to me. I was getting crushes on everyone because I wanted out of my previous relationship.
But then I met someone 2 years later and I'm happy with him. We've been together for 3 years and still going.
I hope this helps encourage you. Just follow your heart! Good Luck!
2007-04-23 07:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by FitChic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to think seriously what is making you change your mind all of a sudden stay real to yourself... is it because you have feelings for this other guy?.... or is it your boyfriend's acne and the fact that people are making fun of him?.... sorry to tell you but you really don't love your boyfriend otherwise nothing anyone said or his acne would not phase you you would see past his flaws, and still have a great love for him as a person.... if you do not love him tell him plain.... don't string him along, do the right thing.
2007-04-23 07:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems like you have a problem. Let me make a few things clear...If you have feelings for someone other than the person that you are with, you probably don't love the one you are with. That being said, why string him along? Unhappy with his appearance? People would like to think that they are not superficial but we are, we want to pass our genes on and we want those genes to be attractive to someone else so that they can keep being passed on, etc. Sounds like the guy is immature and ugly (at least to your standards), maybe you should think about the reasons you got with him in the first place.
2007-04-23 07:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. first if you aren't happy in ur relationship now then the first step is to break up w/ ur current boyfriend. then you have to go thru all the guys u seem to have "feelings" for. see who you like the best. if it happens to be the bff's bf then you have to see which relationship is worth keeping. do you like this dude so much as to lose ur best friend? i think not. there are a million guys out there to choose from. but a best friend is different. just keep that in mind before making a final decision.
2007-04-23 07:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mad Jack Wants To Help. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
such a junior high question.. i guess the smartest thing to say is you.ll prob have a ton of boyfriends after him, most likely not the guy you will marry..lol.. ur young have fun.. altho i wouldnt play the 'i wanna go with his best friend game' thats kinda mean. also remember the ugly duckling story?? this guy could turn out to be real hot soon..lol.. so keep that in mind too.
2007-04-23 07:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by julie092179 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are not that many black pupils at my university both and nobody turns out to care approximately any one's dermis colour. The most effective racist feedback I ever listen are from the historical men that reside out within the nation side of the town. So you must simply take a look at, possibilities are, he will be excellent with you.
2016-09-05 21:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously are very young. Maturity will teach you that when you care for a boy (or man), it won't matter what others think of his appearance - to you he will be a hunk! Also, you won't acquire feelings for other men while you are dating him. Why not remain friends, but date others as well. Just remember to protect your reputation. It's the one thing that is very, very difficult - if not impossible - to regain.
I wish you well!
2007-04-23 07:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋