Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

2007-04-23 05:09:30 · 24 answers · asked by Joshua G 1 in Friends

I recently found out that my bf had sex with a girl a couple of weeks who's best friend is my best friends cousin. He called the girl up at 3 in the morning went to have sex with her with no protection and she gave him an STD which he in turn gave to me. I don't quite know how to confront him about it.

Should I tell him that I know and put him out of my apartment because most of his stuff is there or should I talk it out with him and find out why he would do something so stupid. I know this is someone he's been friends with and that they just slept together this one time but how can I trust him, now? What should I do?

2007-04-23 05:07:24 · 1 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

i went out on a blind date with someone i met online, we talked for a few weeks he sounded like a good guy. when we met up he had a hicky on his neck. he didn't offer to buy me a drink or anything. he was rude and unkept. i tried to stick out the date just to be nice, he got a call from his dad that he need help to move. if it was a way to end the date i was so releaved for it to be over. when he got out of my car he said call me. all i could think of was why. i knew we weren't right from the second we met but i wanted to be nice and i don't know why. what do you think??

2007-04-23 05:06:51 · 14 answers · asked by BABY GIRL 3 in Singles & Dating

I love him so much. He really does love me and cares for me. Something no one has ever done. I was in a horrible relationship before I met him, and all my friends told me that my ex probably ruined any chance any guy would have of getting close to me. And then he came along and changed my whole perspective. I felt that I could love again. I just want to get him something to show it. I do on a daily basis by being there for him and helping in anyway I can. I just don't have an idea as to what. I was thinking of getting it today, because he works and it would be a nice surprise. Any ideas?

2007-04-23 05:06:11 · 25 answers · asked by girl_is_depeche 2 in Singles & Dating

Scared, Paranoid, lifeless, etc. ???????????????

2007-04-23 05:04:54 · 7 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of you idiots think that if you have sex with anyone besides your spouse that it will be an automatic STD. LOL you people are the most paranoid freakazoids I have ever seen.

STD's are not a problem in my world and we have multiple partners. Your pastors have brainwashed you all.

2007-04-23 04:56:29 · 19 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this guy for around a year and know him really well. Me and my family met him on holiday last Summer and ever since we've talked on MSN and stuff. We have so much in common and he is the NICEST PERSON I have ever met in my whole entire life. He is so sweet, caring, sensitive, polite, clever, good looking and just a genuine, humble and down to earth guy. There aren't many like that. I didn't think I would EVER meet somebody like that.

The thing is, the ages 16-23 aren't working. I told him how I feel and he says that he sees me as a sister and that I'm still young and stuff. He said maybe one day it could work.

I think about him 24/7, specially at night I can lie awake thinking about him. I miss seeing him so much, and when I talk about him or talk to him I get really excited. Were really good friends at the moment me and my family are going to see him in August.

How do I get over him..? I don't even know if I want to get over him?

Help.
Thank you

2007-04-23 04:54:14 · 14 answers · asked by Sahra 4 in Singles & Dating

Given this hypothetical situation, what are your feelings. You have fathered a child. The mother leaves you, taking the child with her. She has totally cut you off from her and your child. You were a responsible father, she left for her own selfish reasons. Father's Day is here. You see other parents with their children. What are your musings upon seeing other fathers being given the opportunity to excercise their paternal instincts.

I understand that this may not be a hypothetical situation for many, I would especially appreciate your responses. Your responses will be incorporated into a character that is being developed for a piece of fiction.

2007-04-23 04:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by yodeladyhoo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I know its just our human nature but why????
Do oyu think its because were so use to working for everything that when its just given to us it doesnt see as important???Why cant we just be satisfied with where were at???

2007-04-23 04:50:29 · 5 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, here's the break down. Currently I am living w/ my boyfriend at his parents' house. We always help w/ groceries and offer to help w/ rent because his parents are constantly struggling for money. It bugs me because they spend money on things like beer and other things that they don't really need, and then they bicker about being broke. We help whenever they need it. However, around this time last year they threatened to kick us out many times for no reason at all. We got sick of it and moved out. We ended up moving back in a few months later due to a crisis at our apartment. Everything seemed fine until this past weekend when my boyfriend's sister told us that his parents have been saying the same old things. Yesterday, his parents apologized to both of us and said that they just said those things cuz they were drunk and they are having a hard time right now, and they just wanted to make somebody else's life miserable. But why us?! We have done nothing but try to help!

2007-04-23 04:49:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my fiancee. She's the greatest thing to me. Her mother....is a different story. I never had a bad relationship with her mother. She was friendly and we joked around. Now, I'm engaged to her daughter and things were still fine until planning the wedding. She doesn't have any money but is making some serious demands about the wedding and I disagreed being I'm paying for it. Now, I'M the bad guy. What's worse, my fiancee is taking her side on anything. It seems that she puts her before me. I am the kind of man that will put my wife first. She is giving me the impression that her mother, and her opinion, comes first. I'm concerned because I would like to be put first as well. In her eyes, her mother can do NO WRONG. If I disagree with her mothers opinion, my fiancee and I get into an arguement. It's insane! All because I disagreed with her opinion. What should I do?

2007-04-23 04:47:00 · 25 answers · asked by Snuggles123 4 in Weddings

so lets see...how about bigamy marriage...one man marries two women...

1. advantages...the man gets to sleep around...
2. the women have someone to actually talk about their emotional problems that actually listens and really cares.
3) double the children, double the fun...

disadvantages...
1) the divorce contracts could get messy...
2) cat fights
3) now the man has two women that hate him as opposed to just one.
4) double the children...double the fun...

all right...do you have something better?

2007-04-23 04:41:29 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What color bridemaids dress should we wear?
1. She doesn't want any more blue in the wedding- like Navy.
2. It's a winter wedding Jan
3. it's 40's 50's vintage style
4. We can't wear white because she is wearing a historical ivory dress in the church and then switching to the pale blue dress in the reception.

So the problem is half the pics will be in one dress and then the other blue dress. She wants the bridemaids to look nice with both dresses. I was also trying to find remakes of 40 and 50s dress we could wear. If anyone knows any websites, let me know.

2007-04-23 04:40:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know it sounds dumb, but everytime he sees her now that they are grown up, he comforts her when she is down and he takes her to lunch. The few times that he sees her he treats her better than he ever treats me. So thats why im a little jelaous, he says that they are just friends. Am i making a big deal? by the way i didnt find out they went out to lunch till today ( and it was through a text message i found on his cell phone) and that happened last year. HElp please?!!?!?!??!

2007-04-23 04:39:29 · 20 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I am thinking of moving to the west coast of Florida. I love it there, and family wise, it would bring me closer to them...However, it seems like all the serial killers and child molesters seem to do business or come from Florida. It seems to be a pattern on every news story or whatever. Anyway, if theres anyone out there who has moved from the New Engald area to Florida, and not for retirement purposes, can you let me know the pros and cons realistically? I have heard mixed reviews, and my fiance and I are just looking for some in put. We are in our 20's, and dont have a family yet. I am just looking for some input as to if you regret the move and why, for general reasons of course. Also, how is the job market for administrative work? I have a good income now, and wouldnt want to risk it. Thanks!

2007-04-23 04:39:04 · 4 answers · asked by Alley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello, I am an amateur photographer, and my friend just asked me to do the photography for his wedding, which is in July. I was wondering if anyone had any tips or advice to share about prepping for the big day and on that day. It will be at a beach also.

Thanks!

2007-04-23 04:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by kristin22 4 in Weddings

Well why, its morally wrong, and dont they see that if they are so shallow and unhuman as to do something so evil that they are incapable of love? Why dont people leave other people alone when there happy in relationships? Why are so many people so petty and greedy?

2007-04-23 04:36:27 · 28 answers · asked by Adam 5 in Singles & Dating

you and your spouse "make love"? I am just curious as how often other married couples are.

2007-04-23 04:36:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do killers prefer blonde victims?

2007-04-23 04:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by §P¡©ë¥ 2 in Friends

does anybody truly love their spouse/significant other so much and are so completly happy with them? I would just like to see the light in the darkness in here. For me...I am totally HEAD OVER HEELS for my husband of 3 years...and it is only getting better!!

2007-04-23 04:33:33 · 26 answers · asked by Boo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are having a destination wedding, followed by a clambake at home for all our friends and family. This will be a very casual event with games, etc, and we want our guests to wear something they will feel comfortable running around in. I don't care if someone doesn't choose to play horseshoes or baseball, but I'd hate to think they wish they could, if only they were dressed for it...we can't figure out how to convey this on the invitation. Does "casual picnic attire, please" do the trick, or what else can I say? We want people to come in shorts, sandals, sneakers, etc...if we just put casual attire, people will probably wear khakis and golf shirts, etc--overdressed for our event...Thanks for any ideas! We don't want to get too wordy, either, if we can help it.

2007-04-23 04:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by melouofs 7 in Weddings

there's this guy i liked a lot but somehow couldn't coz he's like my best friend's bf..i don't care about them got together..i'm actually pretty happy 4 them..but then i started contacting that guy 4 a while n he also started treating me more special then before..and there's 1 time he told me that he liked both of us n he was jealous to see me talking to some other guys..i don't know if he was serious or he was just trying to make fool out of me..but what he did somehow made me feel into him even more..n it still hurts to hear him says how much he loved my best friend..what's worse is that he didn't know about how i feel for him n she didn't know anything about me n her bf..n now i don't know whther to tell her or to ignore him??i still don't wanna hurt both of them.....

2007-04-23 04:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by b_lash 1 in Friends

My husband has a hard time with emotions, anger, and loosing his temper. And he puts so much emphasis on what he DOES for someone, like opening car doors, sending me flowers, giving me massages, etc.And will often say in pride no other guys do that stuff for women, and that's how i show you that I care. But what he fails to understand is that, all of that stuff means nonthing if he is yelling at me in anger, throwing things at me and hitting things, and cursing around me in anger. I don't know what to do, i feel like he's afraid to see his REAL side, maybe this is why he only see himself and the THINGS that he does. Why does he put so much emphasis on what he DOES instead of how he behaves and acts?

2007-04-23 04:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She has literally found the biggest skanks she can attract in a little town population 2500. She was just dumped by a 26 yr old man who now is in jail for providing alcohol to minors.
She has been disappearing all nite for the last 3 days and when I got up this morning, she had a 4 yr old named Lindsey in my living room. She is babysitting for another skank boyfriend who has a child. He was just in the local news for beating up this childs mother. He was charged with aggrivated battery, and my daughter tells me this little girls mother dont want her and he is raising her alone. What a crock!!!
Its not that my daughter is ugly,fat, slow or poor.
She is a beautiful girl with long blonde hair, very petite and could do soooo much better. I feel like I just need her to get out and stay away from me because I cannot handle watching this. It upsets me.
What is with her? Why does she keep picking up the trashiest men in the area?

2007-04-23 04:27:04 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

can u give me some creative ideas to do for my cinderrella themed wedding.these are ares where i need the most help:

centerpiece,head table,stage,bridesmaids groomsmen.

2007-04-23 04:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

There's this guy whom i liases with @ work quite often.. but i've never met him n dunno how he looks like etc..

He's asking me out for dnr sometime when i'm free.. he sounds really friendly.. at 1st i thot no harm just going out for a meal n get to know more frens.. since i'm not attached.. oops..

But i heard from my colleague that he's oredi married and has a kid.. dat got me kinda taken aback.. why would a married guy ask a girl out?

isit juz a simple meal out? am i thinking too much? shld i beware?

2007-04-23 04:25:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 04:24:11 · 9 answers · asked by maricela v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah it's great. What about you.

2007-04-23 04:23:53 · 13 answers · asked by TJ 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has always been proud of my appearance and has always wanted me to dress to "accentuate" my figure (specifically my large bust) when we go out. Other than a topless beach in Europe a few years ago, I'm really your typical conservative "soccer mom", and other than a little cleavage here or there, I don't go around flashing my breasts. Recently he asked me if I would post pictures of myself on on of those "look at my rack" sites. They don't show the face, just your bare breasts. He says it would fulfill a fantasy for him. I feel a little funny about it, but we've always been open to eachothers needs/wants sexually, so should I play along?

2007-04-23 04:23:27 · 35 answers · asked by Kelly C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is anyone eals in that kind of marrige and what do you think of it. i need advise

2007-04-23 04:22:00 · 33 answers · asked by vampirellasbite 2 in Marriage & Divorce