My husband has always been proud of my appearance and has always wanted me to dress to "accentuate" my figure (specifically my large bust) when we go out. Other than a topless beach in Europe a few years ago, I'm really your typical conservative "soccer mom", and other than a little cleavage here or there, I don't go around flashing my breasts. Recently he asked me if I would post pictures of myself on on of those "look at my rack" sites. They don't show the face, just your bare breasts. He says it would fulfill a fantasy for him. I feel a little funny about it, but we've always been open to eachothers needs/wants sexually, so should I play along?
2007-04-23 04:23:27 · 35 answers · asked by Kelly C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey, enjoy what nature gave you. And I'm here to tell you, the sex will get HOT after you do it. My hubby has a really good (and cute) friend who we've known for years. He's always looking at my breasts (I'm a DD-DDD depending on the bra!). I'd never cheat, but one night after cards and drinking, with my husbands consent I showed him what he'd been fantisizing about! He was so turned on it was incredible. Later, my hubby and me went at it like newlyweds!! Go ahead, show us what you got!!!
2007-04-24 05:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this is the first time he asks and you're willing to give some in the name of the game...be sure...He'll be willing to do the same and that this one will be the only time...I fell for something like this 8 years ago. I gave my husband an special very provocative picture, then he asked for more and I did...to make this short he kept on asking and escalating in the kind of pics he wanted to the point of asking me to flash my breast and genitals to truck drivers while he drives me around... I don't like him anymore. Now that I had the strength to say I won't keep on...He's not touching me anymore...Our life is just a routine and basically I keep it going just cause I have a 7y.o. boy who loves his daddy way too much. He's still says he loves me but it feels like No...
2015-01-20 06:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Little girlManik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should do it! The guy you love is proud of you, probably in many ways, and he's asking you to do something totally harmless. There is no difference from the topless beach in Europe. Who knows how pictures were taken there?
Tell him you'll do it, but only cuz he asked. And then mention that he owes you one - to be determined by you at a later date :-)
2007-04-23 04:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Movinonup 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
*Hey I agree with another user that posted, if you are certain your face will not appear on those sites then...by all means...just go for it :) Your identity will be secret, and you will give your husband what he wants to see at the same time.
*It's a win/win situation if you ask me.*
~And I do have to say I respect you for not being one of those women who go around letting all their "stuff" hang out everywhere. BUT as for what you just mentioned, I think you should go for it...especially if no-one will even know it's you.
~Anyways...let us know what you decide to do.
2007-04-23 05:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your husband before you do it, there is something that you want him to do for you. You want him to expose himself on one those flash your stuff websites, tell him this is just a fantasy of yours and they wouldn't see his face, just his private parts and see how that makes him feel! Your body is sacred. I know your identity will be concealed. But, as the mother of his children he should have more respect. I'm sorry but he is asking the impossible. And what else will he asked of you once you do this little endeavor. Stop him in his tracks. Tell him, why can't he just love you for you soccer mom and all.
2007-04-23 04:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where is your husband in all of this? His cousin, his visitor, it's his responsibility deal with the weenie wagger. If your scared and not sleeping, it's also his responsibility to do his best to provide for your security. I have trouble even imagining what prompted him to pull it out over coffee. "Yup, looks looks rain, by the way, have a look at my d**k" SHEESH!
2016-03-18 21:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is weird. He will eventually tell some, otherwise what is the point? How will his fantasy get fulfilled? Are you sure he has not bragged to his friends about how lucky he is to have a wife with such assets and now he wants to give proof?
2007-04-23 04:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by Traveller 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
alright ladies he you go from a man's point of view- i would say no. matter of fact i would say hell know. yeah i admit i have done somethings like that in the past when i was married but i never posted it out of the bedroom. i always made sure it was there, but then one day i thought about it, like what the hell was i doing, so i destroyed them and apoligized to my wife. she was fine with it but i told her that it was degrading. and that it should have never been done in the first place. you don't have control over what's on the net. someone can you tose and paint a pic on it. you don't want to be involved into that. see if you can make it up by fulfilling another fantasy for him.
2007-04-23 04:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
That is totally ridiculous. What you do in your own home is no ones business buy yours. His "fantasy" only shows how little respect he has for you. If no one can see your face anyway how is this fulfilling anything but disrespect for you as a women on his part ??
2007-04-23 04:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by capecodyellowrose 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I you are CERTAIN your face would never be shown, I say go for it! And yes, that is every husbands fantasy, but I would never allow anyone to take naked pictures of me with my face showing, unless it was a digital camera that I could erase. You just never know anymore what someone will do with those once they get mad at you, or you get divorced!
2007-04-23 04:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋