there's this guy i liked a lot but somehow couldn't coz he's like my best friend's bf..i don't care about them got together..i'm actually pretty happy 4 them..but then i started contacting that guy 4 a while n he also started treating me more special then before..and there's 1 time he told me that he liked both of us n he was jealous to see me talking to some other guys..i don't know if he was serious or he was just trying to make fool out of me..but what he did somehow made me feel into him even more..n it still hurts to hear him says how much he loved my best friend..what's worse is that he didn't know about how i feel for him n she didn't know anything about me n her bf..n now i don't know whther to tell her or to ignore him??i still don't wanna hurt both of them.....
2007-04-23 04:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by b_lash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Been there, done that.
You have to forget about him or you will ruin your friendship w/ her. Even if they break up she will never trust you or forgive you if you end up dating her ex.
You have to make a choice - is he worth her friendship?
2007-04-23 04:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Diane A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend. She deserves to know that this guy isn't really into her and only her like he should be. If they break up and she gives her aproval, you can date the guy. But do you really want to date this guy that was trying to have a relationship with you behind his girlfriend's back? What if he does the same thing to you?
2007-04-23 08:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your mouth shut and get yourself a BF - keep away from them for a little bit and let the "feelings" settle. You will all be better off. Good Luck!
2007-04-23 04:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say stay away from him and don't tell your bf cause that's going to mess up there relationship, then you going to be feeling bad cause you going to think they broked up because of you.
2007-04-23 04:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Coleman(not married) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably tell your friend and then also tell her how you feel about him- it might not turn out that great but she should know what he has said and how you feel about him. She has a right doesn't she? She is his girlfriend.
2007-04-23 04:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ðarkrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have to tell one of them and if he says he really likes u than tell one friend and then tell the frieng that he is going out wit tell her u like her boyfriend if u want to be honest with her
2007-04-23 04:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by tyaye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to stay away from both.
2007-04-23 04:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him or else u will ruin ur relationship.
2007-04-23 04:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-23 04:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋