There's this guy whom i liases with @ work quite often.. but i've never met him n dunno how he looks like etc..
He's asking me out for dnr sometime when i'm free.. he sounds really friendly.. at 1st i thot no harm just going out for a meal n get to know more frens.. since i'm not attached.. oops..
But i heard from my colleague that he's oredi married and has a kid.. dat got me kinda taken aback.. why would a married guy ask a girl out?
isit juz a simple meal out? am i thinking too much? shld i beware?
2007-04-23 04:25:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have received mostly "No.." answers.. but how do i go about telling him? any ideas?
2007-04-23 04:52:16 · update #1
of course u shud beware of facts, u shud beware of ur situation & othr thing is, if u want dat guy den think dat u r tryin 2 break his marriage. der is no sense in breakin his marriage whether hw he behaved 2u, as his kids & his wife r mostly unaware of dis facts evn de r nt directly or indirectly involved.
so plz beware & u think abt urslf, he mite wanna hv fun wid u, fun wud b in any kind like emotional, physical etc. so plz let him aware dat u kno d fact & tell him dat if he again try dis 2 u den u wud go2his wife2tel her al d truth.
bt b4 dat plz u think, leave his thoughts, hey u cn get many of guys, dat luv u, luv ur inner mind & feelings, who respect u! etc
hv a nice lovly life!
2007-04-23 04:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Aryan Maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleaseeeee! I know you're not that naive; it's never just a simple meal, or a simple anything. He's married! that right there should be an automatic RED flag popping up. Dealing with a married man is a sure way of getting your heart broken. Also, you wouldn't want "Karma" to come back to haunt you; meaning (one day you're going to be married, and I'm sure you're not going to want your husband asking anybody out to dinner). One thing will always lead to another, leave well alone, and don't be down with OPP....nini;-)
2007-04-23 05:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with it is the women loses respect for the guy. I can tell you out of 10 couples where the girl proposed 2 are still married 6 years later. not very often does a couple where the woman proposed reach the 10 year married mark.
2016-05-17 05:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be innocent or it could be he wishes more.
Ask him if his wife will come along.
If he's wanting to form a relationship with you, then as with most married men, he'll be cheating on his wife.
There are some, usually polyamorous or swingers that are open with their spouses, but they are not a large part of the population. The fact he hasn't mentioned being married means it's either innocent, or he's interested in cheating on his wife.
I'm poly, but I always make sure a girl knows I'm married prior to us going out. Before anything goes further than that, she would meet my wife. My wife has the option of vetoing any relationship I wish to get into, and I have that right with her's.
2007-04-23 04:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have all the reasons in the world to beware.He wants sex and more than that a married guy will be forever a married guy,so don't you think he likes you that much to divorce or something.All you need to do is not to get attached and you are protected.Second time when he asks you out tell him you are seeing someone else ,thats better for you.Good luck
2007-04-23 04:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty simple. Obviously, you've already made up your mind about whether or not you should go out with him. I never pass judgement on people because I've been through alot and I'm not perfect but this guy is going to take your sex and go back to his wife. You will end up crying and in pain. More than one person on here, has said it. Trust us!
If he's willing to lie to the God, his wife, the pastor and the state about honoring his marriage, he will definitely lie to you. Wake up and smell the infidelity girlfriend!
2007-04-23 04:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A business lunch with other business associates is acceptable. Dinner out with just him is not. And why did you have to find out from someone else that he is married? If he was being on the up and up with you, he would have told you that not so minor bit of info himself! Be very aware!
2007-04-23 04:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by CountryLady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he hasn't told you he was married and hasn't been up front with you I would say you should be rather cautious. In fact before I accepted I think I would email him and ask if his wife had a problem with his taking other women out to dinner?
2007-04-23 04:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, beware. Ask him point blank is he married. If yes, steer clear. He's not your cup of tea. More heartache and years wasted. I don't think his wife would like him going to dinner with a woman he just met. Esp if he has a kid. Steer clear.
2007-04-23 04:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware! Any married man that is asking you out to dinner does not want your friendship.... he wants more. The only person he should be taking out to dinner is his wife and child. Leave him alone before something goes wrong!
2007-04-23 04:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋