Given this hypothetical situation, what are your feelings. You have fathered a child. The mother leaves you, taking the child with her. She has totally cut you off from her and your child. You were a responsible father, she left for her own selfish reasons. Father's Day is here. You see other parents with their children. What are your musings upon seeing other fathers being given the opportunity to excercise their paternal instincts.
I understand that this may not be a hypothetical situation for many, I would especially appreciate your responses. Your responses will be incorporated into a character that is being developed for a piece of fiction.
2007-04-23 04:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by yodeladyhoo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you gentlemen for your responses. I am excluding Blunt from this as I asked for mature men for mature answers. And the ten points goes to...
2007-04-25 12:28:15 · update #1
Based on the hypothetically selfish reason for her departure my emotions would range from sadness to anger. Seeing children out with parents on Fathers day would only make that worse. I may even consider isolating myself on that particular day to avoid the painful feeling that are sure to well up inside me.
2007-04-23 05:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 21:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that I am 47 (almost 48) I have been married for 24 years and I have two kids. Yet, you are looking for a mature person, guess my age does not make me mature!
My kids have never given me a father's day gift, I just never made a big deal of the holiday, just having them around has always been the best gift of all.
Now, if they were taken from me and I could never see them, it would be devastating, not just on father's day, but every day!
2007-04-23 05:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if a woman just up and took off with a child cutting the father out of thier life without cause and the father did nothing to deserve it. And the father was longing to see his child, I doubt he would just let it happen without a fight. And a woman is not going to get full custody of a child and be able to keep the father out of their lives without just cause. No court would go for that.
2007-04-23 05:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I guess my first feelings would be what did I see in the mother in the first place? When we met and fell in love..or what I mistook as love...what was it about her that attracted me to her? What changed? How was she able to become so mean, so heartless that she left me, took the child and refuses to let me see him/her?
I would have to re-think our relationship over and constantly replay in my head the "If I had to do it over what would I do different" scenario.
Of course...there will never be a satisfactory conclusion to this because sje left for her own selfish reasons. None of which holds any water for me as far as her justification goes. So every Father's Day I would plan on being miserbale trying to solve this unslovable dilema. Wander off to my favorite bar and perch myself on the end sipping my beer and drowning my sorrows. Just like the previous Father's day and the one before that too.
Hope that helped or gave you some material for your novel.
2007-04-23 05:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat Father's Day like any other day of the week. You can't change the past. You can only hope the future gets better. lol.
2007-04-23 04:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very saddened. My kids are everything to me. But hey what do you do. Ya can't cry over something you have no control over. I'd go home and have myself a nice cold one...
2007-04-23 06:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that were to happen to me I would be devestated because I am very involved in my childrens lives and I love them so much
It would crush me
2007-04-23 04:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to court to force visitation. You have rights.
2007-04-23 04:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mature men? Aren't you asking for too much?
2007-04-23 05:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋