Family & Relationships - 23 April 2007

when i look around, i don't see any guy or know any guy that i think i would like to date. i just feel there is no reason for me to want to pursue any relationship with them...i don't know if it's maybe bcoz i have a really bad crush on someone (who's currently not around) or/and bcoz these guys are just not the right ones...but bcoz i am just not interested, this feeling of complete dis-interest worries me....

2007-04-23 09:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by saxoool 2 in Singles & Dating

To make a long story short, My mother took a little girl in and kept her for 3 months(with no contact from the father, The mother lost rights to child at birth) He then up and came and took the child away. Now he wants mother to care for the child again and refuses to sign any type of custody papers on the child. He said that the child could live with her and that he never would take her away again. I do not trust him so if he leaves her with mother again with no contact is there any way she can file abandonment charges and get custody that way? Or should she just refuse to take the child in again? The thing is she loves her and wants to adopt her and the father is a drug addict and what i would call a DRUNK. That is all that he cares about. It has only been 3 weeks since he took her from mother and the child has already lost 8 pounds. Please give me some advice to give her, she is afraid not to take the baby scared of what will become of her.But scared of being hurt again.

2007-04-23 09:18:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am hosting a bridal shower and I am not sure when to have it. My bridal shower was 3 weeks before my wedding and I felt like it was a little too close. But I don't want to have it too far in advance either. Suggestions?

2007-04-23 09:18:09 · 5 answers · asked by Ilovecheese 2 in Weddings

I need help! My bf lives in Oregon and I live in Ontario. He can't call me b/c he has no more minutes so I've been calling him for the past 2days now. From my cell phone it costs 25cents a min and we usually talk for 2 to 3 hours. What should I tell her if she asks or tries calling him? Please help.

2007-04-23 09:17:51 · 6 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

Would you stay with a guy that would do things for you (massage, roses, open car door) if he yells, throws things in anger, curses at you, tells you to shut up, etc? Why or why not?

2007-04-23 09:17:41 · 19 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I see each other a few times a week and plan to get married in September, so youi can see how close we are. He is a going on a business trip for a week and I feel devastated. I know I'll see him when he gets back, but any advice on how to be strong?

2007-04-23 09:16:47 · 1 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Singles & Dating

If you ever disappeared from your job, school, family or hangout would you ever be missed???

If I ever disappeared from my high school I believe no one would care. Hell, I wouldn't care either!

2007-04-23 09:15:12 · 14 answers · asked by Brodie Bruce 5 in Friends

I have a friend in which I have constantly done wrong to in the past. Things include lying all the time, constantly calling/coming by, and many other things to where I basically did not treat him like a friend, at all. I have changed, however always feel bad for my past actions to him. He as always been a great friend to me & forgiven me, however I still always feel like we shouldn't be friends, as I don't deserve a friend as good as him. I don't want to end the friendship though because I enjoy us being friends, and always look forward to talking to him or seeing him. What should I do?

2007-04-23 09:14:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month we are both christians she is just more devoted to God you might say then i am. She basically renewed my faith and has changed my life. She says she loves me and still wants to date me but God dosent think it is "right". She says God should be her #1 and if she is dating me God is kinda pushed aside i guess, she says she isnt getting any closer and im not growing as a christian either. She is telling me it might be temporary and that it could just be one of God's tests. Should i try and move on or wait and see what happens....? I still really like her i just cant decide what to do....

2007-04-23 09:12:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 09:12:29 · 15 answers · asked by richellelitt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to set up a honeymoon/vacation/wedding at one of the carribean resorts that specialize in weddings. I want to bring my girl a wedding dress, shoes etc.... I want to set her up for hair and make up. I want it to all be a surprise. I want to present her with an engagement ring on the plane on the way there and ask...will you marry me tomorrow? What do you think girls...would you like that? Her Mom said go for it.

2007-04-23 09:11:40 · 12 answers · asked by whymewhynow 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok the last few submissions have been about cheating and you guys answers cause more questions. Ok I've been in love with a few people and even though I did, I cheated. How do you define love? If you know in your heart that you want to be with a person and you do have strong emotional connections with a person and you cheat, does that mean you don't love that person. I know cheating is dishonorable and not a good symbol of love by no means, but is it possible to love someone, even though you cheat on them?

2007-04-23 09:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by ccgmacc69 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating this girl for about 6 months now shes 22 and has 2 kids and ive been really trying to get her to go out and do things but she dosnt like to go out much she likes to stay at home and play video games watch movies stuff like that, i was thinking about taking her out to a aracade/bar but that seems kinda lame, where would be some good places to take her?

2007-04-23 09:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two friends who I have been close with for alomst 7 years. I am currently finish a semister in school and I am studying legal studies, plus I am taking 16 hours. I also have a job working 25-30 hours a week. On top of that I want to make time to spend with my boyfriend of 2 years. I recently have been getting the third degree from these friends. I just can't take it anymore. It seems like no matter what I do, i get my explanation thrown back in my face. I know I have not made time for them, but now they are making it up to me if we have a friendship, yet they don't understand that I don't have time! to drop everything and go out when I have tons of homework to do. I dont know what to do. I 've tried talking to them and they say they understand but I really feel as if they don't, because they are always putting me down. I need support right now with school and I can't seem to get it from them.... what do I do??

2007-04-23 09:09:09 · 15 answers · asked by jennisea04 3 in Friends

After a summons is issued, how long will the sheriff or police continue to try to find you? Do the people who are serving these papers bother you every day till they find you?

2007-04-23 09:08:49 · 6 answers · asked by adam620blue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 09:07:48 · 27 answers · asked by eybyang26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had sex in a park last night and it was better then in bed has anyone did this before

2007-04-23 09:06:19 · 19 answers · asked by Suzanna G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-23 09:04:47 · 15 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Friends

2007-04-23 09:04:07 · 28 answers · asked by matt 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm just wondering if any of you can guess it cos my friends (or who i thought) don't even know it!

2007-04-23 09:03:57 · 15 answers · asked by I.Love.Life. 2 in Friends

2007-04-23 09:03:00 · 20 answers · asked by kendiaileen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My highschool sweetheart left me for a coworker about 5 months ago. I have never lived on my own and I kind of like it. I'm 33 now and my parents are getting worried I might never love again. My now exwife who I have come to realize is codependent but I can say that I love being single. Its like the movie Braveheart "Freedom!" Whats your opinion what if I don't date for say 3 -4 years.

2007-04-23 09:02:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive fallen really badly for this guy at work and i thought we were getting along great n all but then the other day he starts talking to me about this other girl that he likes and im sat their thinking - kill me!! It was like he reached down my throat and pulled out my insides!! Well, anyway, now i no for sure he doesn't like me in that way how do i get over him??

nb: ive never had a bf before and dont really see me getting wiv another guy to get over him!!

Help - im dying here.

xxxxxxx

2007-04-23 09:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Singles & Dating

I've since deleted everything off my computer and anything tangible that I've ever made with ex girlfriends that are x-rated. But apparently itunes uploaded the pictures onto my video iPod without me knowing!!! My fiance saw them today when she was working out and is now LIVID!!! I told her I've never done it before, because I just wanted to protect her feelings because that was a LONG time ago, and I'm very different now. I don't look at any x rated material EVER now. So it sucks. She says she forgives me, but I feel like I've let her down so bad. I don't know what to do or say, I feel like the lowest scum of the earth. I've done everything for her, I love her more than anythingm she's the most important person in my life, and I never want to her hurt. I'm so mad at myself. Please help me!

2007-04-23 09:01:51 · 22 answers · asked by Grisham 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 09:00:54 · 12 answers · asked by cowgirl_mom12 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a new boyfriend who is wonderful, but the smallest things trigger a memory of my past relationship and I start to cry. i find myself comparing and having a hard time adjusting to my new boyfriend.

2007-04-23 08:59:42 · 12 answers · asked by Celi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-23 08:56:05 · 6 answers · asked by ron 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-23 08:55:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I started seeing my boyfriend he had a wife and they were still together he didnt want to leave her but he was misserable so I finally got him to leave her we are together now will he do to me what he did to her even thought we are happy and they werent all he wanted was for her to show him affection she didnt and I do will he look for someone else

2007-04-23 08:55:57 · 56 answers · asked by amanda d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a young-looking 38-year-old man who has been looking for a wife since I was 18. I have a fabulous job and own my own home, so I'm the farthest distance from a deadbeat. Why is it easy for some men to find spouses, but impossible for others?

2007-04-23 08:54:59 · 18 answers · asked by Steve S 1 in Marriage & Divorce