Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month we are both christians she is just more devoted to God you might say then i am. She basically renewed my faith and has changed my life. She says she loves me and still wants to date me but God dosent think it is "right". She says God should be her #1 and if she is dating me God is kinda pushed aside i guess, she says she isnt getting any closer and im not growing as a christian either. She is telling me it might be temporary and that it could just be one of God's tests. Should i try and move on or wait and see what happens....? I still really like her i just cant decide what to do....
2007-04-23 09:12:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God put the two of you together so that you can learn from each other. It maybe for a month it maybe forever. Tell her that God could NEVER be pushed aside since he brought the two of you together.
2007-04-23 09:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by The Queen Bee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait it out, it could be something shes going through as a christian. If you truely love her and want to be with her then isn't she worth the wait?, I would hope so.
God should come first in anyones life, not that shes pushing you aside but, think of it this way she sounds like shes got a good head on her shoulders. If it's meant to be then I think God will let you know and her as well. hope this helps you.
2007-04-23 09:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only God knows what He wants to happen with you and your girlfriend. It seems that she made a decision to devote more of her time to God. Just try to hold on a little longer since she told you that it might be temporary. You said you like her, then do wait for her.
2007-04-23 09:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jeyp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but a month isn't long enough to make a final decision on whether or not the relationship is going to work. It takes more time to say that. As far as what GOD thinks, only time will tell you the answer to that. No one can speak for GOD but HIM. If he doesn't think that the two of you are right for each other, HE will let you know.
2007-04-23 09:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by wilsonhutchison04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God should be #1 in every ones life.But that doesn't mean that you can't have a boyfriend or girlfriend.God wants us to find someone to love and marry.The couple should be equally yoked(meaning both should be Christians) for the relationship to last.Maybe your girlfriend doesn't really think that you are saved.We all need to grow as Christians.Maybe you can attend church with her sometimes or go to some of the church activities with her.Maybe sometimes she can go with you.Your girlfriend sounds like a good christian girl and if you really like her I would keep seeing her.
2007-04-23 09:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently Ur GF does not know some of her stuff. Everyone is supposed to love GOD first. In her going out with you she is not pushing god away, what she should do is ask god to bless your union. Sheesh anyway, personally I would move on, it seems to me she is using her religion to kinda dump ya. SHe Says ur not growing as a christian? True Christians don't judge others.
2007-04-23 09:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lrd 666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on your knees every morning and ask Him to guide you. At the end of the day, do it again and thank Him. Take care of yourself, be available to serve Him and trust Him. The rest will work itself out. If all you get out of this relationship is a renewal with God, she's done her part. She's not asking you for an answer so.......... you don't have to look for one. Simply enjoy what you have, just for today.
2007-04-23 09:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? First of all, if you really believe in God, then you would know that no one can answer this question. But as for your girlfriend, she's a bit out there....Putting God first means living well and treating people right, and doing good. If she thinks of God as her "boyfriend" then perhaps she should become a nun.
2007-04-23 09:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lyfeizbutadream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she may be destined to be a nun, if she's pushing you away to be closer to God. Maybe this is Gods way of showing you that your relationship isn't meant to be. I would think that moving on would be the best thing, because you both seem to be in different levels of faith as well as in different areas of faith.
best of luck and God bless
2007-04-23 09:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Missy 75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like my co-worker. For one, God wants us to be happy. He wants to be part of our lives, but he will not make judgment on if a relationship is right or not. He lets us make our own decision. He just gives us the options and let us choose them for ourselves. If she is using God as a shield, then there is more to it than meets the eye. Maybe she is ready to be married, have kids, the whole nine yards. Just give her the space she needs and see what she does with it.
2007-04-23 09:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋