2007-04-23 09:04:07 · 28 answers · asked by matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think a lot of women like being with larger guys for the sense of security.
2007-04-23 09:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Ashley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being fat does create some hurdles when it comes to finding someone. Even if you are the woman that is fat.
The first thing that draws us to someone is typically something that the eye sees. If the eye can't get past the fat then the person typically goes on looking.
Fat people are usually stereotyped as being lazy and I think it is more often than not true. But is it the laziness that created the fat or the laziness a consequence of being fat? Either way this is the stereotype.
2007-04-23 16:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once saw in a movie the fattest man in the room was the coolest. They were in an Italian restaurant. I dont agree with that but fat wont stop you from getting a girl unless you are going after the shallow ones, and who wants them anyway
2007-04-23 16:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not true b/c if you feel that you will not get a girl b/ you are fat then you will not! b/c when i was fat i didn't want to date b/c i didn't like my fat so it was hard for me to accept the fact that someone else could ever like it, but i had lots of guys wanting to take me out. anyways, females love a guy that can work his sh*t fat or skinny but if you are fat and insecure its not sexy, so you just have to be confident b/ the ladies like that. some big guys can handle their stuff better than the ones that are slimmer, for the ladies that are into bigger guys.
2007-04-23 16:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
I am 5'4" tall and weigh around 250. I am fat by nearly any definition you can thnk of. Not thick, not chubby, not obese either...just fat.
I have a lovely wife who I think is gorgeous (and who, also thinks I am sexy). I have had more than one woman in my day and most of them were volunteers (one of them wasn't but that was special).
A woman will be attracted to any man who is clean, well-groomed, well dressed, pleasant to be around (funny helps) and who will treat her with the appropriate respect and admiration for who she is ... not what she is.
And it doesn't matter if you are fat.
2007-04-23 16:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by MrDave2176 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women would prefer a slender or well-built man, but if they look down on you because of your appearance, then they weren't the one for you. Look at it this way: They did you a favor. Rejection is a rescue from whatever drama or issues that you might be dealing with if you had hooked up with that person.
2007-04-23 16:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that like 2 ton guy in the Discovery Health channel show is married.
2007-04-23 16:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its totaly wrong. u just need 2 find the right woman 4 you that loves you 4 who you are and wont want to change you.
2007-04-23 16:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by lilnicole45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely untrue. I know plenty of plus-sized guys who are happily married (some to plus-sized women, some to very petite woman who like a husky guy).
2007-04-23 16:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all!
You just have to find the right girl. Someone who would like you for who you are. No one wants a girl who is too into looks anyway. Don't worry you'll find someone.
2007-04-23 16:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Simon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋