2007-04-23 08:55:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please rate other answers it help me pick the best answer. Thank You!
2007-04-23 09:13:14 · update #1
i think a good age to get married is like at 20 or 21. but thats just me.
2007-04-23 09:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I definitely say that you should wait until you are 25 or more to get married. You do a whole lot of growing up before then and what you think you want at 19 or 20 is totally different than what you want when you are a little more mature. I think kids should come 4 years or so later - around 29-30. Being married for a few years before you have kids really lets you connect with your spouse. You can do what you want to do, example - travel, sleep in late, watch rated r movies, whatever - before you have little ones demanding so much of your time. I married at 21, had a baby at 22 and am very happy with my life. I wish I could have waited a few more years to really find myself first before becoming a wife and a mommy
2007-04-23 16:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by abby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The time to get married is when you know yourself and the other person knows themself. When you can sit down and tell about everything in your past and be completely open and honest about everything. Anything left unsaid before marriage can create big problems later on.
Not everyone feels the need to start a family. You have to know what's right for you in that regard. Definitely after several years of marriage. Talk about kids before you get married so you know you're on the same page.
Talk, talk, talk, and be honest.
2007-04-23 16:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by EarthGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer may be different for each person. I do not think anyone under 24 or 25 is ready. You change alot as a person as you get older. Your values change, your priorities, and your expectations become more realistic as you mature. If you've met the right person, there's no reason to rush into marraige.
Beginning a family is another issue entirely. Both people should be responsible, financially secure, and be ready to become completely selfless. Your marraige should be strong, trusting, and understanding, because a baby brings alot of change to your relationship.
2007-04-23 16:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As history is shown, there is no "calendar age" to get married/have a family. We all grow up/mature at different times, so when it's right-it just is. You'll know it 100%. Make sure you and the person you want are happy as individuals, so when/if you become partners, there's no "I wish I would've..." going on. Trust me, don't live your life by numbers..it doesn't work. But when it's right, it's right. I wish you all the best!
2007-04-23 16:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lyfeizbutadream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are getting married to a person that you truly love and desire to be with for the rest of your life don't get married because you are getting too old or your friends are getting married so all that talking here is my finally answer SMILE haha I would say 23...
2007-04-24 19:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say around the age of 27 to 30 for getting married and 30 to 35 for having kids, but its different for everyone. You should get married when you meet a woman that you love and when you feel ready to do it. You should have kids when you and your spouse feel ready to have them.
2007-04-23 16:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
29
2007-04-23 16:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
32 married, 35 children
2007-04-23 16:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by silent*scream 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get married after you have established your own life, proably not before age 25. Have children after you are absolutely certain that the marriage is stable and you have had time to enjoy your spouse and probably do some travelling....say, age 33.
2007-04-23 16:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
u can get married when u feel like it just dont start family til you both have accomplished your goals in school an graduated with your job under your nose already. i have learned from experience...and live together first before marriage too
2007-04-23 16:02:09 · answer #11 · answered by BOOBOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋