when i look around, i don't see any guy or know any guy that i think i would like to date. i just feel there is no reason for me to want to pursue any relationship with them...i don't know if it's maybe bcoz i have a really bad crush on someone (who's currently not around) or/and bcoz these guys are just not the right ones...but bcoz i am just not interested, this feeling of complete dis-interest worries me....
2007-04-23 09:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by saxoool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see you as a person who is letting society make you anxious. If you are secure in yourself meaning if you know what you want out of life that to me is a great thing. You have that image in your head as to what your Mr. Right is like then great and good for you. You need not worry about what you don't want. It is some what of a selfish attitude but is one you seem to be able to live with and in the end what could really be more important to you than to be comfortable with yourself. To me you should not even worry about your disinterest. you are quite normal.
2007-04-23 09:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by ejohnjr34 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. Everyone goes through this. You dont have to rush yourself into liking someone if your heart says no. When you see the right guy, and you know your ready to start a relationship, go ahead. But not everyone finds their love at first sight. When the right one comes around, youll be ready. Wait. Give it some time. Good Luck!
2007-04-23 16:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over your crush, and start thinking more highly of yourself. If you met a genuine guy whom you shared several interests and were compatible with you might just find yourself on a friendly road to a healthy and happy romantic relationship. People can tend to become "hopeless romantics" and give up... but don't. Persistence will pay off and you will be glad you didn't give up in the long run! :)
2007-04-23 16:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by B Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone in this case because i feel the same as you.
I am just sick and tried of guys.
I have a crush on a co. worker who is slow and i am not sure if he like me or not.
the guys i meet, i just don't have chemitry with them and i just don't want to force myself to go out with them.
So yeah i know how you feel, and let be patient and the right person comes alone we will know it.
2007-04-23 16:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be that none of the guys you're around are worth dating. It's not necessary to be dating someone.
2007-04-23 16:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Adia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Life has a way of working itself out.
2007-04-23 16:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to guess that you live in a town with a population of like 100 people....
go to new york and oh you will find someone.
2007-04-23 16:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by blink182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need a break form dating. i had the same feel about six years ago, gave up dating, met my hubby.
2007-04-23 16:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by colee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. you just haven't met the right person yet! :-) Give it time.
2007-04-23 16:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Elise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are ok
you are just not interested in anyone right now.
2007-04-23 16:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋