2007-04-23 06:20:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rigorous physical activity.
Reading!!!
Meeting new friends (hopefully woman)
Watch TV or movies you enjoy.
Whatever you do, DONT DRINK alcohol that only makes it worse..
Look towards your faith perhaps..
2007-04-23 06:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kain 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship, what it was like, and how it ended. I've always been the one to end it, so it's not like I spend time pining for the guy that's gone - I exhausted every chance of making it work before I left. Still, it can be hard being alone when you're used to having someone there. I try to keep busy and keep my mind occupied. I spend a lot of time reading, driving, using the computer, hanging out with friends/family or bugging my boss for more hours at work. Being in that situation now, I can say I'm slowly getting comfortable in my own skin again. It does happen, eventually.
2007-04-25 09:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way is to not be alone.
- Pursue a hobby or dedicate more time to one you have;
- Join hobby clubs or other social clubs around a particular area of interest;
- Go to local events - look in the paper for weekend social activities that are being advertised;
- Join Big Brothers/Big Sisters...or any other charity organization that you can volunteer for - put your time to use for someone other than yourself (or your ex, for that matter)
- Travel, if you can afford to - go out more locally, if you can't...museums, art galleries, the theater - you just might meet someone new!
- ANYTHING that gets you out of the house and out among people - the more you socialize, the less time you'll mope and you'll be getting back on the horse, socially.
2007-04-23 13:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to stay real busy. Find new projects to do or new hobbies. Anything to keep yourself as busy as possible. Or you could just sleep alot. Whatever your schedule allows you to do through the day(s) when you are alone. Be strong & just think how better off you are without that other person in your life. Just remember there is someone better out there waiting 4 you.
2007-04-23 13:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by pussycat220doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to do to distract you, preferably something that takes up time. Going to the movies is the best, because you really forget everything for a couple hours. Having a movie rental fest is also good. Shopping (doubt you'd like?). Going to a bar or club. Find a church function. Find a new hobby. Find things to use up time, until it doesn't bother you if you don't have anything to use up the time with.
2007-04-23 13:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay busy. (work, school, etc.). Hang out with your friends. Its tough to get through, i know where you're coming from. Also another thing is time, it just takes time to through all the pain. There'll be times that when you go out and you think 'Well, the last time i was here, I was with...' I still do that myself, and my g/f ended our 2 1/2 year relationship back in Sept of 06. Just keep your head up and before you know you'll have another girl keeping you company. good luck bro!
2007-04-23 13:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Troy Mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.be with family and friends.
2.go out
3.talk about it, it helps to get over the person
4. it will take time
2007-04-23 13:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play Jenga solo until you can have only 1 piece on each level.
2007-04-23 13:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lowe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with friends, chat with people online, or watch a super duper sad movie and cry till you can't cry anymore.
2007-04-23 13:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay busy, don't be alone thats when you become low, i'd put in overtime at my work to keep me occupied, i'd meet with mates come on yahoo that passes hours, i know it's hard i've been there plenty of times and it's horrible you'll get, :) xx
2007-04-23 13:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋