I wish I knew how to get over the pain.
2007-04-23 06:19:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time is the only thing thats will heal the wounds and ease the pain.♥
2007-04-23 06:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pnut...sorry you are in that pain..it is so hard. Yes I went through that with a guy I was seeing..well he was 10 yrs younger than me...I did not know that at first he lied..then he finally told me. I then started having 2nd thoughts etc. and he was so sweet..I decided age really did not matter. We continued to see each other every day!!! Then he says he is getting nervous about his feelings..well by then I was very much in love with him..but I did ask him to just leave. Time goes on I cannot tell you how much it hurt .. I use to cry every night..and I felt sick all the time. Well time really does heal .. then all of a sudden there he is at my door!! Wanting to get back together..this is after he found out I was seeing someone else. I have to say the feelings started to come right back..but then I said to myself oh no..this guy has hurt me to much..I am not going to risk that again. So I told him no. That was not easy...since he kept coming over..came to my job..called etc. etc. I feel to this day I made the right decision..he would have done it over and over again! The reason I say this..is he is to scared to love..and I also could never feel deep trust...without that I would not be happy anyway.
You know now that I think of it...his loss!!!! :)
Hope this helped..just sharing can help.
P.S. It will be her loss.....!
Ciao
2007-04-23 09:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father once told me that a break up after a serious relationship is like a death and the only way to move past it is to mourn it as such. You have to give in to the pain until time makes it easier to take, and then you can put effort into helping yourself. But just like when someone dies, it's pointless to try to move on when you are still in mourning. Give yourself time and it WILL get easier, I promise.
2007-04-23 06:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by luvlandon2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I lost my only best friend, of 7 years. I almost convinced myself he did pass away, so that the pain would hurt a little less. =( *hugs* Take care of yourself....
2007-04-24 19:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by jennainhiding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand precisely the way you're feeling because of the fact I went by it myself in December of 2005. I actually had to stand over the sink because of the fact i replaced into sobbing so perplexing...yet permit me permit you recognize that it DOES get extra useful daily and sure, its going to be perplexing, yet you may substitute right into a extra useful individual because of the fact of what you have been by! the main suitable factor I have been given from my broken marriage replaced right into a sparkling attitude! At what different time in our existence yet while cases are hard, can we actual take a reliable perplexing seem at our lives and picture approximately a thank you to strengthen it?!?!? do no longer beat your self up and don't carry onto those unfavourable thoughts--the only one which you're hurting via doing it extremely is YOU! and don't you sense which you're worth of affection??? for sure you're! So do no longer say which you're no longer likely to be "susceptible" or "on no account get so close to to somebody"...you mustn't punish your self because of the fact of your ex's habit, dedication, or infidelity subject concerns! extremely, the only factor you're able to do is take sooner or later at a time...placed your self and your son as your #one million priority! And once you're taking daily at a time, it extremely is going to upload as much as weeks, then months, and extra... Take time for your self conventional and picture of each and every of the advantageous issues on your existence and convey appreciation for those! And in case you have unfavourable thoughts, write them down and get them out of your gadget! I wrote a itemizing of each and every of the flaws approximately my ex that I WASN'T going to omit approximately him! dangle in there, you and your son deserve extra useful and additionally you will possibly be able to desire to have self assurance that it's going to come alongside once you're least watching for it!
2016-10-28 18:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...i know that feeling...and im really sorry, pnut1980...but i promise, time really does heal...and things will get better, you´ll see. :)
2007-04-26 12:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jaded 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋