When I went to jail, my wife cheated on me with my best friends!!!! then she cheated on me on our one month engagement anniversary, and then again 3 times after that with her ex boyfriend....... I want to leave some times and some times I don't! I really love her and i want to work things ut but it's really hard for me to trust her.... what should i do?
2007-04-23 07:13:24 · 23 answers · asked by hOnDa RaCeR 71 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if she has stopped and admitted to having a problem and hasnt done it again! I think you should finaly allow her to make it up! And not throw it in her face every day about it! She made mistakes and is sorry im sure if you have stuck around for this long you are willing to give her a chance! So actually give the chance to have a chance! Plus im sure your not innocent!
2007-04-23 07:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
while if my wife were to have cheated on me 13 times and me still stay with her then i would find a girl of my own bring her in to my home make sweet love to her and let my wife now know that if u cheat on me this is what it feels like to be hurt by u and i love u and if u cant see that then hit the door and don't let the door nob hit u where the good lord split u. That's one idea but another is just tell her u r tied of it and and u want the engagement ring back and that it over and u got to find somebody else to lay up on and cheat on but u just hope that the other person finds out the way u r before its to late and u do them the way u did me so good bye we are not friends don't stop by don't call me lose my number and get lost .
2007-04-23 14:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by poobear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like a man who beats his wife and she keeps coming back... only she's beating the sh*t out of your heart. Some people don't stop cheating. How CAN you trust her when she keeps doing this over and over? It hurts to love someone who treats you like crap but when you do what's right for you, when you respect yourself and don't let people disrespect you, the relationships you have will be a thousand times better. From what you say it doesn't sound like there is much respect in this relationship. Can you live this way for the rest of your life? Do what feels right in your heart but remember that she may never change.
2007-04-23 14:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by mrs. lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go some where else honey. No matter how long you were in jail, she should not have had to cheat! I mean **** how many people are in long distance relationships and faithful? I know I am one of those people. Seriously, don't let this woman disrespect you that way. Your best friend, dude?!?! C'mon now. Can you even look at either of them now? It's time to move on and move up!
2007-04-23 14:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by ashzambuto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know exactly who and how many times? Goodness sakes... GET OUT! Unless you enjoy being used and treated as a doormat then by all means stay. If she ahs cheated 13 times, obviously she doesn't really want to work things out nor does she love you as you should be loved. Life is way to short to be miserable. Get out and find some happiness.
Good luck!
2007-04-23 14:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by _Savage_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well chief, it sounds like you're going to have to make a decision. Either stay and put up with her behavior (and God forbid she brings home an STD) or leave and move on with your life. I honestly wouldn't stick around. She doesn't love or respect you or care how you feel. That's obvious. If you stay with her, then you deserve any treatment you get. You should move on so you can keep your choices pen and meet new people! Good Luck!!
2007-04-23 14:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, theres nothing holdin gu guys together. If u can't trust eachother then what's the point? Your only get get a disease, so get out and have a little pride. How do u love someone who dosen't care at all about you. You people have no idea what love is!
2007-04-23 14:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by NY Yanks Girrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go, she obviously doesn't care that much about you. If you get back together with her and forgive her, you will always have to wonder. Once maybe twice cheating is one thing, but over 13 times is a bad habit, and you should drop her like one.
2007-04-23 14:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by jimapalooza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get some new best friends.
Next, get some therapy, because you clearly have self-esteem issues if you keep going back to someone who repeatedly cheats on you.
Also, tell your wife that if she isn't willing to go into therapy to deal with her infidelity issues, and make a promise to change, then you can't keep letting her hurt you. You have to walk away and get a divorce, and start over.
2007-04-23 14:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she isnt worth it. you may have had good times and those can be those good memories you can hold on to and look back on. but she caused you so much pain and hurt. if she truely loved you she would of stayed true to you. and she didnt. love is rare and delicate......she broke that love. you may always love her atleast a little bit but you can find another love out there. one that is more good than bad. someone you can trust and be happy with. not someone where you worry where shes going when she leaves the house. and why is one of your friends buisy that night too? its ****** up. leave her and be happy.
2007-04-23 14:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋