A spanking?
2007-04-23 02:05:05 · 20 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll take the spanking too.
2007-04-23 02:11:51 · update #1
Sometimes my g/f says, "You're a beast and I shan't talk to you." But it's amazing how soon she starts talking once she's over my knee.
2007-04-23 04:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Id rather the spanking, although I've rarely had the experience of receiving it. I certainly love giving them and my gf liked it to from what I could see (she couldn't hide it). But recently she seems to not be into the idea and I think she associates it with being put down. For me, even if I was the one being spanked (and as long as it was not too violent), it is a good way to deal with things in a simple yet not overly serious way. Usually relationship problems stem from very unimportant issues blown out of proportion. If silence is used, things can get worse. After a spanking, there is no rule to say that you can't discuss the actual problem after-ward. I have used silence before and it can go on for days...it really sucks. Some silence might be necessary if a raging and destructive fight is to be avoided, but for smaller things...lets all just drop our pants and feel our relationship problems being spanked away.
2007-04-23 15:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all I HATE the silent treatment, better to try to discuss the the issue, resolve the problem and clear the air. The silent treatment is almost as bad as screaming or fighting dirty. As for the spanking ,that should come only after you have kissed and made up...wink,wink : )
2007-04-23 02:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by jesshispet 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Silent treatment is more effective,it hurts more than a spanking.
2007-04-23 02:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i never get to choose, but, my first, second, and third choice, a spanking and other things...
But a combination of both is ok. Like if i did something naughty, She would not talk to me, then send me to Her room and later, when She comes in, give me a spanking (or whatever) in silence. Then continue the silent afterwards....
2007-04-23 04:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by utob 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd take the spanking, can't stand the silent treatment.
2007-04-23 02:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think a spanking. I've had the silent treatment and it sucks!!
2007-04-23 02:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lori F 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
will in my house i would rather talk to her and work out the problem but to answer you question the spanking Just sound like a good way to get out the pain that i did to my mate.
2007-04-23 02:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'll take the spanking.
2007-04-23 02:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
With silent therapy, you are able to at last sit down down with the guy and function a radical talk related to the priority handy, yet with yelling you frequently don't get plenty for the era of on the grounds which you wind up pissed off and while human beings yell, they tend to assert incredibly hurtful issues they'd not frequently say which could finally end up inflicting a tension interior the marriage after years of "yelling" and arguing. I grew up in a house the place my dad replaced into yelling each and all the time at my mom for regardless of reason and my mom replaced into the quiet laid back sort of guy or woman. So i'm able to incredibly do devoid of the yelling by way of fact it often is accompanied by utilising derogatory feedback. to boot, issues can actually amplify from yelling to hitting.. in fact it incredibly is how maximum abuse situations start up out.
2016-11-26 22:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if you know what you did wrong if anything? if so, take the spanking and learn from it. you cannot learn anything with the silent treatment.
2007-04-23 08:58:39 · answer #11 · answered by tm41170 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋