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I'm 8 months pregnant and want to have sex all of the time. My boyfriend on the other hand doesn't seem interested anymore. Just a month ago he was saying we don't have sex enough and now it seems like I'm pressuring him to make love to me. He says he's still attracted to me even though I have my round belly.-Anyways, he is always on porn websites and "takes care of himself". I told him on Friday morning that I was really wanting some affection, at night I tried to approach him for some affection and he didn't want to because he already "took care of himself". Would this bother any of you?

2007-04-23 01:07:12 · 1 answers · asked by starrinights 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Yes, true love makes it hard to be off! Even if you were prangnat he would be getting off on you getting off. This shows that is almost per-sexuality/pride that makes him get off with you which is a big warning sign about how much he really cares about you.... you might just be there because he was told he was suppose to have some where there inorder to be accomplishing something, which means much heck ahead of you. Sorry to tell you that man and woman are the same when it comes to sex, just society makes it harder for man to mature to the point that most women do. Namly that the emotions get you off, not just the physical. This does go into the realm of emotional intimacy problems and the cure is a long road with him yourself, or with a thearpist. This is a rapid social problem which makes it seem common place... its not suppose to be, but unfornatunely in our society we don't expect more out of guys.... were a porn, romatic love society which doesn't teach you the value of deep intimate bonds, nor how to. I mean porn teaches you that fing is better then making love, romantic love teaches you ether you have or you don't. Neither of which teaches us how we need to develop a relationship to sex, instead of having sex tell we have a relationship.... ether way good luck with this, not only would I be jealous but frustrated with myself for picking some one who doesn't understand the value of my body, nor my needs.... the needs being the important thing here, he should be able to get off soling by giving you what you need, without that he is still just a boy trying to get his, at your expense....

2007-04-23 06:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

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