five years clean and three of them i never even thought about it anymore.......but then one day about 8 months ago it just happened and its not stopped since. this time seems harder than last, even though now i have every thing to lose.....mostly hard earned trust. any suggestions? already done groups and it didnt help a bit
2007-04-23 00:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by bedebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, give yourself credit for quitting it before. One thing you already know is that you can do it. Another thing you already know is what to expect - just exactly how hard it is. You know what worked the first time, and you know what didn't. So you already have a lot going for you.
What has changed in your life in the last 8 months? Using it again didn't "just happen", you are fooling yourself about that. You made a series of choices that led to you putting your hand on it and putting it into your body. You made choices about where to go, who to be with, what to look at and listen to, what to do about whatever you were feeling. You know better than anyone that you need to take an honest look at your actions, and think about what might have triggered them.
I'd also like to point out that you have very likely grown and changed in the last five years. Some things that didn't help you before may help you now, such as groups. Or maybe you'll need to find new things that work. You know that in the end, it's only you that makes the choice to do it or not to. You also know that a little help can mean a lot at the right time.
Get yourself whatever help you think might work for you, and take the first steps. You are worth it, and there are people who love you and trust you.
Let us know how you are doing, my thoughts will be with you.
2007-04-23 01:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They(rehabs) didn't help because YOU didn't want them too. Let's be honest here ok? Your an addict, you know this. Eight months of meth abuse after getting clean finally setting off some alarm bells? I really hope your not to the point of loosing teeth to "meth mouth" and have those 'picky" sores on your arms ,legs, and face. Need more reinforcement? Go to facesofmeth.com. Good luck because that SH
2007-04-23 00:53:08
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Yeah, cross country for me too! I was a lazy kid when I got into high school. I didnt realize how out of shape I was until I started running XC. But now I run an 18:08 5k and I'm on varsity. Go shin splints!
2016-05-17 04:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go seek professional help. how did it just happen? things like that don't just happen. It's usually a series of events that lead up to the moment of weakness. Get clean because you're just messing up your life. Think about the things that are important and ask yourself if it's worth throwing those things away.
2007-04-23 00:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by SlamDUNK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have children, think about what it will do to them. Ask someone that you trust for help. They will respect you for trying to get help.
2007-04-23 00:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need family and or friends that are drug-free, on your side for support.Will Power baby!!!!!!!
2007-04-23 01:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try Jesus he can help... read the Bible its all in there.. the strength to overcome.. its all in prayer and communication with the Lord... you have to fill that void in you
2007-04-23 00:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by infernos_heart 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to work on your will power more! Good luck!
2007-04-23 00:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to ask..whats meth?
2007-04-23 00:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by HereToAnswer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋