I am 16 and I'm going to my girlfriends house for the first time. What should I do? How should I dress? Should I bring a gift? Personally I am nervous and cannot think. Please give me any suggestions as soon as possible.
Thank you,
Danial
2007-04-23 01:40:47 · 10 answers · asked by danialqureshi007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No need to bring a gift when visiting your g/friend at her place. No need to dress up in a shirt and tie...just be yourself, dress presentable for her family (no cut off t-shirts and torn jeans).....just be Yourself. It will feel awkward for her as well. Her parents /sibblings may ask questions to you ...bout what you like/dislike...if you're working after school or what you want to do when finished school...they just want to know if you have any goals other than dating their daughter*
I'm sure things will go smoothly for you* Just be You* :) Keep on Smlin*
2007-04-23 01:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There really is no need for a big gift but if you do want to give a gift. Buy a big book of chocolate, that way the whole family can have it and you won't have to buy two seperate gifts. Also, don't dress in a tie or anything like that. Just go casual/formal. Wear jeans with a button up shirt (you can button the shirt up or just wear a white t-shirt under it). Or a regular t-shirt with a blazer. Try not to be to nervous, it's your first time. And it's not like you are asking the parents if you can marry this girl. Just be yourself and make sure you don't say anything stupid.
2007-04-23 02:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by child0fthec0rn666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T THINK OF SEX AND DON'T STARE ON THE SENSITIVE PARTS
she will probably dress up to highligu then but don't it gives a tempt to the girl and also a good decent impression to the girl that you love her not her body be gentle but not too reserved show a bit of uncomfortable feeling so that she makes you feel home by talking or so and if it does not work make comfortable your self praise her house especially her room and don't open girls cupboard unless asked to do soo it. make her feel like a tiger feels when he enters tigeress territory he respects her.
be slow in actions mean ornal don't be to quick it may show your nervous ness and
take a white flower small but cute arrangement real flowers
and one pink bud and two beautiful red buds
present the white on entry yellow after sometime like when she server water or when you start talking and say this pink bud for our upcoming gr8 friendship and then after a has of few minutes or am hour suprise her by telling to close her eyes and make her belive you won't do anything wrong and then place one see bud on her ear and try taking a single syrs chocolate and then share that and when you say thank you for the lovely evening present the last rose and give a kiss on the ladys hand short soft gentle and make a quick but slow note don't let her speak too much that will allow her to talk when you meet next next meeting sure what ever turns out tonight Besties
2007-04-23 01:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by JASZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mehh dont worry relax dont bring a gift just go to hang out ok and i assum ya are going to watch a movie she likes you so your done with the hard part just have fun ok and real!! above all ok if ur nervouse she will be also so make it a pleasent time alright and i am sure she is way more nervoruse than you girls usally are...
dress casually jeans and a shirt nothing big ok..
uhmmm thats it alright well have fun...
2007-04-23 01:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your first time going to your girlfreind house and you don't know what your going to do the perfect thing to do is bring something entertaining like a video game or something and bring things to eat and snuggle up and watch a great movie or something that always work and let it go from there
2007-04-23 01:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should take a gift and take her mother one as well, mothers love that type of thing, it shows that you appreciate them giving you the oppurtunity to come see their daughter. You all should watch a movie and talk, don't go in full speed ahead trying to get a kiss or get touchy feely, that will send the wrong message.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-23 01:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dress in a collared shirt and slacks, you didnt mention if you are going for dinner, if so bring some flowers for the mom
2007-04-23 01:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress smart but causal, just bring yourself and calm down! Go with the flow and be yourself bud
2007-04-23 01:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bring her some flowers and dress like if u were going to church
2007-04-23 01:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tia M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a bunch of roses.
2007-04-23 01:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by vnbmuliyala 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋