My b/f and I are broken up, but he still text me asking me if I still think about him. why is he asking me that? one is it a game to him, or does he really miss me?
2007-04-23 01:35:02 · 12 answers · asked by strongfemale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably still cares about you and he thinks about you and was just wondering if you still think about him. I think he really misses you. Why did yall break up? Turn around and ask him does he still think about you and why.
2007-04-23 01:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just want to know how much love u have really put into the relationship. Perhaps, you appear too much at ease with the breakup while he's actually crying n tearing inside him about the breakup. He wants to know that maybe to the very least both of you are once truly in love with each other n that his efforts that he placed into this relationship is worth it. He still loves u a lot. Maybe he initiate the breakup and he regrets a lot or most likely u initiated the breakup and he feels very crushed by your decision.
Well. sometimes breakup does not means end of story u know. Humans are not like robots. Not a system whereby u just click a button "end", everything comes to an end.
The reason why he text u is that he's trying to tell u that he actually miss u damn much n wish to get back to being good friends again.
Give him some time. Let his heart heals for a while. Don't shut him out completely 'cause it really hurts a lot.
2007-04-23 08:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely feel you, in my case my boyfriend broke up with me like two weeks ago, and like a week after the brake up he asked me out on a date. I was like are you kidding me?
And because i still have feelings for him, i said yes. But in my case i realized that this is all a game to him, and that he doesn't feel the same way about me as i do about him. He is not hurting like I'm and i think he is kind of taking advantage of my vulnerability.
So i think you should be up front with him and ask him why is he doing this, up front, all out, no taboos.
Uh, maybe i should do the same?????
2007-04-23 08:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by anonymus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF'S THINKING OF YOU AND MUST be thinking whether you are thinking of him and not so calculative any must say coz he is not keeping in mind that you can figure out or if's to calculative and his ego comes when he misses you and text you so that you know if misses you either of the two for sure
2007-04-23 08:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by JASZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take advice from a 47 year old man.
His male ego will not allow him not to be desired. He doesn't want you persay, he just wants to assure that he is still desirable.
Bust his bubble and tell him that there is no feelings for him. you look at him like a brother. That is a death blow for guys.
2007-04-23 08:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Fred G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hoping you are upset and thinking about him all the time, next time he texts you tell him your doing great and enjoying yourself and you haven't had time to think about him (even if you have been) that will soon get him thinking, i think he is obviously thinking about you or he wouldn't be texting you play him at his own game. good luck!
2007-04-23 08:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through that!..for almost a year! my opinion... just dont text him back at all and if you do make it short because if he cares he will try and try. if he doesnt he may be trying to put you on the backburner just so that hes sure that your still going to be around just incase his plans fall through but whatever it is good luck!
2007-04-23 10:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wants you to start chasing him he may just be playin a game but he may miss you and still love you but his being to much of a man to say it
2007-04-23 08:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks about, and has to be missing you.
2007-04-23 08:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First YOU are still calling him your b/f....Clearly you both still have feelings for each other!
2007-04-23 09:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋