how i can say my husband is man/women because he wearing my dress at night daily suit salwar , sarees , lipistick , bindi & then drinking & torcher me whole night .when i asked him why you wearing my dress then hi beat me & say wear my pent shirt & give your ear ring or nose pin & he wear it. i fed up this man.
after comleting the make then he start drinking & force me to drinking .
our marriage time maximum 6 months only.
he say i like wearing ladies cloths & what can i do.
our aaya working in home on sunday early he is sleeping with my dress & with make up.
i am not satisfied this man.
suggest me ?
2007-04-23 02:07:28 · 29 answers · asked by ritu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take photos when he wearing your cloths & show his friends
2007-04-23 02:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wearing womens clothing is certainly not within what most people would consider the boundaries of normal behavior, but everyone has their own fetishes. Perhaps dressing as a woman is just a type of security blanket for him. Personally, if you love him, then you could try to come to terms with the cross-dressing. I mean, if it is more than that, and he is a closet homosexual, then he needs to be a man and admit he is gay and come to terms with that.
Unfortunately, you said he beat you.
A real man doesn't beat his wife. If he beats you, then you LEAVE HIM. Not later. Don't think about it. You LEAVE. Do not let him hurt you. If he is slapping you today, he will be punching you tomorrow, and kicking you the day after that. Then one day he is taken to prison and you are taken to the cemetary.
If some man ever hit my daughter, sister ,mother, aunt, friend etc. They had better disappear off the face of the planet because I would beat them within an inch of their miserable pathetic life. REAL MEN DON'T BEAT THIER WIVES. EVER!!
2007-04-23 09:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mark L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the clear course of action would be:
1. You personally meet the Psychiatrist, without telling ur husband, discuss the problem with the Psychiatrist and apply the remedial methods told by the Psychiatrist on to ur husband, bcoz he might not willingly go to a Psychiatrist with u.
2. If possible talk to ur parent and ur in-laws and try taking him to the Psychiatrist, this is a much better option, don't be shy, everything is possible in this world.
3. If none of the above options help, then its better for u to leave him, as soon as possible.
One last option, that I would like to tell u going out of my way is that, don't conceive,it would make ur further course of action lot tougher and ur life miserable.
2007-04-23 09:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by rohit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound rude but sounds like you married a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde what in the world did he change after you married him at least i hope that's the case because your husband sounds like he has some serious issues. I mean sounds like he needs professional help because this is not normal behavior from someone who married a woman what is the deal. I would seriously talk to him and tell him that if he doesn't get help then your out the door because this is abuse to the 5th power.
2007-04-23 09:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear sister,this is very sad and worrying matter,should not happened to anybody but it has happening to your life,
My best suggestion pl discuss this matter with your sister or brother first,parents may depressed old age don't make them tensioned or well wishers they must under stand the gravity of the situation
My opinion what is your stand better go according to that nothing wrong.Society will accept your next marriage life also don't feel shy get bold step
All the best i will pray the god for your better future
2007-04-24 07:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Murugesan g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should has honest with you before he married you about his cross dressing, and now you are in a position whether to go or stay, the good new is you only married 6 months and still young, so I will say, you shall leave this marry and find another guy who is not cross dressing otherwise day turn into month, month turn into year and soon you become a bitter old lady, good luck next time, it is all right to be cross dressing but it is not all right not honest about it before marry. Next time check you spelling before write to us.
2007-04-23 09:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be having this tendency of crossdressing, must be watching lots of such porno stuff on internet. He requires a Physiologist who can handle his problem. Just don't mind all this, if he can get proper counseling & he can get rid of this problem. Just don't make his condition public hence if he come to know it he will never like to give up this rather will be a bigger risk for you as his treatment will ultimately result in domestic violence & cruelty that can even break your matrimonial home. Just consult some physiologist who will help him be normal as a man.
2007-04-23 09:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is I am sorry to learn that you are living in hell. Try and get out of this marraige as soon as possible, else you are certainly going to get crazy with this man. Go to some Women Forum and seek help is what I can suggest.
2007-04-25 01:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...aren't you the same guy who posted several other questions? Something about liking to wear your wife's clothes, being 16-yr-old boy who likes to cross-dress and all that crap? Must be you 'cos you use the same funny English in all these questions. So, what is your problem, really?
2007-04-23 16:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch him how he behaves without alcohol: watch his activities to the elders: what is his age, education: love marriage,arranged marriage,whether he is potent or impotent:your sexual life with him
after having full details contact a doctor in this field.
nothign is impossible in the world
donot worry for anything
take it a challange: if nothing happens after some time you decide
2007-04-23 10:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is not a normal person,he is mentally sick person, its better u leave him,b,coz I dont think any respectable lady can stay with such kind of man, if u love him so u have to find a way to help him out from this sickness
2007-04-23 09:54:11 · answer #11 · answered by paradise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋