im sixteen an a guy i really like asked me. ummmmmmm. ya, i still cant make up my mind because im like really popular (unfortunately) and im afraid. what if they call me a u-know-what! no. i dont know because i really like this guy alot, scence fifth grade! man! grr. i really need some good advice.
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2007-04-23 08:24:26 · 29 answers · asked by Bella baby! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Well, are you ready for sex? Have you ever been close to having sex? How long have you been with this guy? And how would poeple find out you had sex with him? Would you tell them or are you afraid he'll tell them? Any guy like that isn't trust worthy. You're only 16 and that alone in itself shows that you are NOT mature enough for sex. Look at virgimity as something sacred. Unless you already arn't well then look at your morals.
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2007-04-23 09:03:12 · update #1
Well, are you ready for sex? Have you ever been close to having sex? How long have you been with this guy? And how would poeple find out you had sex with him? Would you tell them or are you afraid he'll tell them? Any guy like that isn't trust worthy. You're only 16 and that alone in itself shows that you are NOT mature enough for sex. Look at virgimity as something sacred. Unless you already arn't well then look at your morals.
2007-04-23 08:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? What does being popular (unfortunately!) have anything to do with this? Y'all are not even together in a relationship, he obviously doesn't want a relationship, he only wants to hit it and quit it. Why are you even considering this? You are too young anyways, and sex is for people in love, not just some fun activity to pass time. You LIKE him, you don't LOVE him. Sex doesn't equal love either. If you are ready to have sex with this guy are you ready to be a mother at 16? Are you ready to go to the doctor and for him/her to tell you that you have an STD? Think about the consequences of your actions. Be safe, and please think about this,. I'll pray for you and God bless.
2007-04-23 15:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
youre 16. enough said! Almost every girl your age i know, wishes they would have waited! your still in high school give it some time. Save it for the right guy not some guy youve had a crush on in grade school. Why dont you date him first and get to know him if you havent already? Most high school guys just want to sleep with the "popular" girl just for their own macho pleasure and high fives from their friends, not because they really love you! its not worth the heart ache nor is worth being known as the school "slut"! so not worth it! you should have more respect for yourself!
2007-04-23 15:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by suicideblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont take this the wrong way but you are a bit young to have sex with this guy. Just because if you choose not to have sex with him it doesnt mean that you dont like or love him. I am a Christian so sex before marriage is a big no no for me. I dont know if you are a Christian or not but y not adopt the policy of not having sex before marriage. It will make your life a lot less complicated.
2007-04-23 15:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if you should, you're not ready. Your virginity is something that you can't get back. You should wait for someone that you LOVE, not just "really like". Having sex is supposed to be an intimate moment, when you're absolutley and completley IN love. Not just to say you've had sex.
2007-04-23 15:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just want to have sex with a guy because you like him? Sex should be done between mature adults. It brings on a lot of emotion, and remember once its gone you can't get it back. Wouldn't you feel better giving it to someone you know loves you and actually deserves it?
2007-04-23 15:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he had to ask, then he is a lousy lover and you certainly don't want to have sex with him. It should happen when you are so in love, so turned on, so excited that you can't stop yourself. If you have to ask about it. If you aren't sure. If you aren't carrying a condom around with you at all times, then you aren't mature enough. You aren't ready.
2007-04-23 15:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell and write a sentence,capitalize, and, don't use the word"like" as in "I'm like", or things such as "ummmmm" or "ya", or "gr" they make you sound 11 or 12.
In other words LEARN TO WRITE AND SPELL. It is much more important that your silly question.
2007-04-23 16:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if sex is right for you then more than likely it isn't the right time or the right guy or both. When it is right there will be no questioning it.
2007-04-23 15:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do, everyone will hear about it and they will call you names and make you feel like an idiot. Everything will change at school and everywhere.
You should wait till you are older and even better - until you are married.
Don't risk your reputation.
2007-04-23 15:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzy, I Miss U Love! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋