I lied about having feelings for another person. Although I have not actually cheated on him because I haven't had sex with the other person. The thing is that he would ask me straight up if I had feelings and I just lied to him. He told me he doesn't know if he will ever trust me or if he even wants to have anything to do with me. I am hurting because that's the only thing I've ever lied about because the person i told him i still had some feelings for, we used to have a past. and he always told me that if i interacted with the other male, he would leave me. so i was scared. i never had intentions on cheating. i don't know what i was thinking. but now i've messed up and i'm in so much pain because we are so in love and i may have lost him forever. Can you please tell me if there's anything I can do to make things better between us or make myself feel better?
2007-04-23 08:22:19 · 12 answers · asked by stupidperson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on and dont play games anymore
2007-04-23 08:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. Men aren't like us. When we get hurt we want guys to run and chase us and apologize and bring flowers. Guy's egos are sensitive and you really hurt him and as far as he's concerned you did cheat on him by having feelings for another guy and not telling him about it. You can't make him trust you, love you or come back to you. You can apologize and wait it out and see what happens. Maybe give it a week and call him. But it's going to be up to him. You may have blown it this time but there will be another love in your life and that time you will know what NOT to do. Good luck.
2007-04-23 08:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supply him some area. adult men are not like us. as quickly as we get harm we wish adult men to run and chase us and make an apology and produce flora. guy's egos are comfortable and you somewhat harm him and to date as he's in contact you probably did cheat on him by making use of having thoughts for yet another guy and not telling him approximately it. you are able to no longer make him believe you, love you or come decrease back to you. you are able to make an apology and wait it out and notice what happens. perhaps supply it a week and get in touch with him. despite if it is going to be as much as him. you have got blown it this time yet there will be yet another love on your existence and that element you will know what to no longer do. sturdy success.
2016-12-26 20:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not fair to the other person if you're heart is not free. they deserve your whole heart. lying hurts and mistrust is a consequence. be trustworthy and respectful, leave the past in the past. there may be nothing you can do to fix this but remember, it's not fair to the other person if you're heart is not completely free.
2007-04-23 08:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by mrs. lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the games, move on, let him heal.
He wont ever trust you again.
Why do you want to continue hurting him by flaunting it in his face each time you see him?
2007-04-23 08:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to play the field for your own gratification. Tell Truth and stop using others.
2007-04-23 08:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to tell you but u think you did the best and unfortunatly the most difficult is to move on asap
2007-04-23 08:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you really played yourself out. He is gone and now you can learn your lesson from this and not mess up your next relationship.
2007-04-23 08:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by mama 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
see what happens if you don't think before you act? you're lucky if he comes back to you... (but sometimes... love is stronger than anything else... so he might come back to you) and don't fcuk it up!
2007-04-23 08:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2007-04-23 08:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by LB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋