I reside in California and i have a boyfriend that lives in North Carolina. We been having a long distance relationship for 6 months, and lately he has been avoiding me. He hasn't called me, hasn't been on yahoo messenger, or myspace. Every time I called him, he never picks up. He said he's going to move to California with me in 2 years, but i had a friend secretly call her, and he said that's not true. he hasn't called me in like 3 months. and she has left me severely depressed. what should I do?
2007-04-23 05:47:27 · 8 answers · asked by liljmaniac 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOunds like this fellow has moved on with his life..found another...to spend time with....and doesn't have the heart /balls to tell you. If you havnt spoken in 3months....time to move on with your own life and try to get past this. Good thing you found out now rather than when and if he moved there to be with you. Sorry to say...but the truth does hurt...but you're a better/stronger person from it* Stop calling him, stop emailing or trying to text him ..etc.....Just move on with your life..you Deserve so much better* GOODLUCK*
2007-04-23 05:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are tough. They do require a lot of communication in other forms. (such as on-line or via phone.)
On the one hand, it could be very innocent, he's had a bad week or something.
However where its been 3 months since he called, that could be a time lapse there (Has it *really* been that long already? kind of thing) but you didnt' mention how long its been that he hasn't talked to online. If that's been 3 months as well I'd definitely say 'move on'
LDRs are not for the faint of heart, if he's not up to it, might as well find someone else, hopefully closer to you.
Good luck mending that broken heart.
2007-04-23 13:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ally J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine how hurt you are. But like most others are saying you need to move on - find different clubs, organizations to fill you time and get you out meeting other people. If he hasn't called in 3 months, I wouldnt be referring to him as your boyfriend either - your perhaps stopping other guys from approaching you when you say that.
2007-04-23 12:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint.
2007-04-23 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by sai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. Find a new lover..
2007-04-23 12:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ask ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationships never work, trust me
2007-04-23 12:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by T Rom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her, he, she? sorry.. well, if he has moved on, it's pointless for you to hang on to him.. you deserve better than that
2007-04-23 12:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life .he dont want you
2007-04-23 12:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by mlisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋