ok i went out wit this guy and we broke up and a few weeks later he called my name and i looked and he said f u what should i do?
2007-04-23 05:10:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This fellow was probably trying to act all "big' infront of other ppl. When two ppl break up..sometimes the other person is hurt by it but doesn't want to show it so Acts* very immature..Ignoring his obscene comments would be your best bet. Silence is the worst when someone is trying to get your attention , which he obviously is....The need for him to burst out obsurd comments is his way of saying he still cares and your break up has upset him in someway....Just keep on walking...and no matter what comes out of his trashy mouth...You're the better person for ignoring it. No need to be "petty" and call names back putting yourself down to his level. Just IGNORE it* he will eventually stop as it's not getting him anywhere. GoodLucK*
And yes...guys can be so mean...as can girls*..as to Why? it 's probably because they're hurting inside and don't want others to see that but when they come out with these comments...it shows what an immature child they are*
2007-04-23 05:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah I have mates like that. I'm sry this has happened to you. We're (guys) are not all bad, but my advice is seriously not to start having a go at him - it'll make it worse. To be honest, he'll relax after a while I think - he's probably just feeling the heat from the break up or something (if u don't mind me asking was it you who broke up with him?).
2007-04-23 12:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont pay attention to him. Hes doing it for fun because hes a loser! Just know you are better than that and dont let him bother you!! Just walk by with your friends and laugh...not at him....butm just to show you have a good time without him and youre not caring or sulking about him!! If he says anything else, just dont look at him! If you must, just tell him you dont have time for these childish games and you have better, more important things to tend to!! Hes not a guy....hes an immature lil boy!!
2007-04-23 12:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a freshmeat at going out. Lol...if you guys broke up..y would he cuss...doesnt make sense...
If i broke up with a girl..i'd ignore her and avoid her...and never talk to her again...
looks like this guy doesnt know how to treat a broken girl's heart..
2007-04-23 12:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a big deal out of it and post questions on what to do about it on the internet because you can't think for yourself.
or just ignore it, smile, and walk away.
2007-04-23 12:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it. i think he is trying to get a reaction. it sounds like he doesnt know how to cope with a break up. dont worry about what he thinks, keep on with your life and do what you do. if he steps over the line into harrassment, then you will want to look at steps legally to protect yourself.
just my personal opinion. hope this helps.
2007-04-23 12:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bitter about the breakup. i did something like this when i was like 15...
when i was 17 i looked back and realized what i had lost
and how immature i had acted
2007-04-23 12:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him with no regrets ....sounds like a real loser, anyone who would treat a woman like that ..... there are much better options out there than someone who acts and talks like that....
2007-04-23 12:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Tom A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be like almost everyone else and say it back.
OR try to be an adult and talk to him about it. I suggest to try this first and if not, go for my first suggestion `=)
2007-04-23 12:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by miscellaneous `=) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally ignore him....he's just being an asshole. Don't pay him any attention because if you do he will just do it more and more because he knows it makes you mad or sad.
2007-04-23 12:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋