We've been together for 19 months, things have been tough lately. She has become distant etc. Today she told me she is not as serious about us as she used to be, she said she still loves me, but she just doesn;t take things as seriously anymore. Where do we go from here? We are meeting up to talk it through later on - but what can I say? I know one thing for sure...I really don't wanna lose her. Serious answers only pls :)
2007-04-23 05:16:58 · 3 answers · asked by tony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all i can say, she may be thinking of a break up. dude i'm sorry for that. I know this is really lame but show her that you love her, and that u won't let anything go wrong.
Give her a rose and chocolate, buy her something, like jewelry. Good Luck dude, hope all things go good.
2007-04-23 05:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by munchy_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the only thing you can really say at this point is "Goodbye". She's sending you lots of clear signals that she wants out. You can't hold onto her if she wants to go, and the harder you try, the worse it gets. You have two consolations:
1. There are lots of pretty, wonderful girls who will appreciate you, and 2. There is always a chance that she will appreciate you a lot more after you've been gone for a while. (The problem, of course, is that girls like that only appreciate you when they don't have you.)
Try not to get too hung up on a girl that doesn't want you - watch some Pepe le Pew cartoons for perspective. That always helped me deal with it..
2007-04-23 12:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly my same situation, but we have been dating for 6 months. I am the one who is becoming more distant. I still love him, but I dont feel like it is completely working out. So my best word for advice is to talk i tout. Thats what we have been doing, he doesnt want to lose me either but Im frusterated with things and I dont know what to do. So we talk and try to change things the best we can, and every relation ship has to run its course, sometimes sooner than others unfortunatly. So things may not always work out. But I hope they do for you! Just talk and change somethings, figure out whats on her mind. GOod luck!
2007-04-23 13:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Marr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋