Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

kiss someone but cant?

2007-04-18 07:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some of the people in the fam are rude and greedy and unapreciative and competative and critical. should the couple just elope.

2007-04-18 07:15:41 · 25 answers · asked by L.A. WOMAN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

on guys? boxers, briefs, boxer briefs or none??

2007-04-18 07:12:55 · 28 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we were about to do it when i felt her leg and it fell on the floor! She had a prosthetic leg and as i ran out of the room she tried to chase me but tripped cause her leg wasnt in place .... i came back and picked her up but she then bit me...... i took off i dont know what to do about her what are your insights people?

2007-04-18 07:12:51 · 17 answers · asked by greeneyedflavor 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 12+ years, we have had so many tough challenges and made it through but after a lengthy affair on the side of my spouse and his insecurity issues and a lenthy emotional separation I feel like I am at the end of my comitment. Don't have anyone else, don't want anyone else but when I think about all the love that I don't get I wonder if I should let go. I still worry about him and how he is doing but am afraid to let him know I do. I miss him but can't stand when he calls unless it's to be nice because most of the time he's either a downer ot talks about himself too much. Maybe I am being hypersensitive as I write this but I have let too much time go by not understanding my feelings and wondering if I should let go. How do I know if this is the right time or the right thing. How do I know if there is anything left or I am giving up too soon. I know I feel better now that we are not near eachother but am always happy to visit or be visited. Don't know what to do.

2007-04-18 07:12:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am the gf of Steve. Steve has a daughter who lives out of state with her mother. The mother has a boyfriend and a daughter living with them as well. Recently, the mother went out of state for a RN meeting and left Steve's daughter alone with her bf and didnt tell Steve until she was already gone. While she was away Steve found out that ex-wife's livein bf slaps his child in the face as a form of punishment. Steve confronted his ex who said she didnt have the right to interfere with the way her livein bf parents his child. Steve is very concerned because his ex knew that her bf was doing this, does nothing about it and leaves their daughter alone with him for 5 days. The ex wife and daughter live in Arizona... Is there anything Steve can do? Steve's daughter is not the one that is being slapped. it's the Ex's Boyfriend slapping is own child. We are concerned for both children, however Steve's child is the one this question is in regards to.

2007-04-18 07:10:52 · 11 answers · asked by Very Concerned 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 07:09:27 · 7 answers · asked by ckc07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone. I'm 20 years old and my ex is 25. We had been together for 14 months before we broke up few days ago. We were in love.
Few days ago, he wanted to break up with me. I told him that we could work out together, but he didnt want to. He said that he does not love me anymore and doesnt have any feelings left for me. He said he still loves me as a friend. He told me that the main reason we broke up was that he wanted to be a freeman, free from any attachment because he wanted to do things for himself, like travelling and hang out with anyone he wants to. He didnt want any girlfriend right now and he wanted to move on. He said that he was SO happy that he is finally free and broke up with me. I was so upset, I talked to him for 3 days after he dumped me, but he still didnt want to get back together. He asked me to move on and he didnt want to give me any hope. I am 101% sure he is not cheating on me. I still love him and I admit i had faults in this relationship. Thank you.

2007-04-18 07:07:56 · 25 answers · asked by MiMi 2 in Singles & Dating

Make love he sometimes loses his um.. well you know. He says this is normal for men .. Is it or is there something Im not doing . He is only 34

2007-04-18 07:06:09 · 21 answers · asked by pink_velvett_66 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He said he would go out with her again and they are best friends and he wants to hang out with her all the time and he said if she tried to make a move on him he wouldnt tell me ... what do i do??

2007-04-18 07:04:04 · 16 answers · asked by ambereyes 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a opion paper for my college english class, my topic is, is it right to have sex before marriage or should you wait..im not sure my title yet but thats what its about my opion is it is fine to have sex before marriage as long as your in a good relationship and been with the person long enoff...Im wondering your opion on this to help me right my paper i need people who are for it and against it. Thanks!

2007-04-18 07:01:51 · 30 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a great guy last year but I sabotaged the relationship because I was afraid of getting close to him. We broke up for about a month b/c we couldn't repair the damage. We fought too much and needed some time apart. He wants me back and I want to be w/ him w/ my newfound confidence. The problem? He wants to take things very slowly and be friends trying to work our way back to a relationship. I believe actions speak louder than words and he doesn't act like he wants to be w/ me. I cuddle up next to him. I grab his hand. I tell him how much I care about him and want this to work. I'm definitely showing him that I want to be w/ him. I want all or nothing w/ him. I can't be just "friends w/ benefits", there is too much of a history between us. He has all the control right now, I have nothing. I shouldn't want to be w/ somebody who won't fight for us right? Do I wait for him to be ok with an "us" or move on? He won't take well to pressure. I do love him but am I being stupid?

2007-04-18 06:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

what is your opinion on you significant other being friends and communicating with members of the opposite sex?

2007-04-18 06:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would u ever read ur boyfs or girlfriends texts or emails without them knowing??

2007-04-18 06:55:57 · 20 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 06:53:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We get into a argument, and he always puts the blame on me, He gets mad, and leaves for a couple hours. When he comes back I'm already sleeping, and so nothing is said! We ususally dont talk for a couple of days after that! So it's never resolved. Do you think it's right for him to leave, instead of staying and working it out?

2007-04-18 06:52:29 · 65 answers · asked by Sunday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 06:48:47 · 19 answers · asked by Caroline 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 06:47:35 · 15 answers · asked by mas50e 1 in Friends

Now she is 38, childless, single, and in a mental hospital, but std free. What kind of damage being with all those men does to a woman ? How can I counsel her and be a better friend ? I know, its weird but me and her are friends. How can I help her forget her past ?

2007-04-18 06:46:44 · 15 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my best guy friends is addicted to cocaine. me and my best friend always try to get him to stop but he wont. he smokes weed and ciggerettes, does cocaine, steals my a.d.d medication to snort it, and snorts other various pills. he knows he is addicted to everything but he wont admit it. i know how terrible cocaine can be and he really is a nice kid. i want to help him but i know if i turned him in t anyone he would be mad at me. is there a place i can go? who should i tell? im really really confused but i know that if i dont do something he could die. pleas help me

2007-04-18 06:44:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i left my man because i wasn't happy with the way that things were going. i met a guy and he showed me everything that i deserve as a woman. i was happy being single for a while but when we see eachother now its like we want to talk to eachother but we dont know how to approach one another . i love him and i know he still loves me but something tells me that i need to move on. when isee him i want to run to him and hug him but i hurt him by leavin him and i dont want to lead him on... he's hurt me as well in worse ways but i dont wanna swoop down to his level. im not that kinda female. i dont know what i want... i wasn't quite as happy as i shouldve been while i was with him... but i miss him and im less happier now!!! please help!

2007-04-18 06:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to know the best way to prevent pregnancy in healthy and safe way. How do you do it and do you experience any side effects?

2007-04-18 06:41:16 · 10 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me 3 months ago after 6 years of dating. Because he didnt want to settle down. We have been together since we were 16. He has started drinking & partying alot something he never wanted to do before & he is always in a bad mood if he is sober & his family says it seems like he is trying really hard or acting to change himself. he has always been really close with his mom but know he is pushing her away. I was just wondering does this sound more like a phase, maybe he just needs to have a wild hair & doesnt want to be tied down or does it sound like this is the person he wants to be. I really want him back but I cant figure out if this is a phase he is going through or not..what do you think?

2007-04-18 06:39:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i just found out that my bestfriend is cheating on her boyfriend which is one of my friends too, and she is cheating on him with HIS BEST FRIEND. And we are in 8th grade, and the boyfriend is a freshman and his bestfriend is a SOPHMORE. I dont kno if i should tell him or not, and my best friend said when she dumps him she gunna try to get him to go out with me cause i have liked him for awhile. What to do???

2007-04-18 06:39:32 · 7 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Singles & Dating

burden my online friend about my problems in life? He's my only friend, the closest one l have. We are close, but l don't want to put a lot on him, and sometimes it's better to just keep your council, make a stronger person out of yourself. But l sometimes feel l want someone to relate to about the things l'm going through.

2007-04-18 06:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by Tet 4 in Friends

But how do I get over the anger and hurt? I do trust her. Are there any tips for putting a marriage back the way it was?

2007-04-18 06:34:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my gf always argue over small things, we do not know the reason at all. We can fight about everything. I know this is very unhealthy and I want to find a solution. I am the man that can change and make things better. I am wondering what is the tip or resource that can help us to get a better relationship. Really need help on this since we are in a bad term right now.

Thanks

2007-04-18 06:27:07 · 18 answers · asked by hideaki413 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my current girlfriend for 2 years. She has a 3 year old son who is from a previous boyfriend. His real dad has never seen him. I have basically been his dad. Now he wants to obtain custody and my girlfriend will not give it to him. She says that I have to decide to marry her and adopt him now or she is moving out of the state. We have talked about marriage but I feel our relationship is just to unstable right now for that. I dont know what to do.

2007-04-18 06:25:29 · 23 answers · asked by ParamedicFireman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I take the kid on trips etc, and recently he has opened up to me that he likes to wearing, makeup, pantyhose, high heels etc.
He is pretty feminine, and now he wants me to buy him some clothes and makeup etc, so that he won't have to borrow his Moms. He wants me to let him dress when he is over at my apartment.
I don't want to betray his trust, but I know that his Father will go nuts.

2007-04-18 06:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by William A 1 in Family

My Maid of Honor decided to be selfish since she does not like another bridesmaid and step down. She will not even be coming to the wedding (Shows me what kind of a friend she was). Due to this *new* problem we do not have the site that we had planned on for over a year! My wedding is only a month away and I have called almost every park and venue in my area and all are booked on the day I am getting married.
Luckily We are only having about 20-30 guests at the wedding so would it be ok to hold off on the reception? Would it be rude to not have one at all or wait until a site comes available?

2007-04-18 06:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by T Rad Fools 4 in Weddings