Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

Ok..We decided fr me to move back in with him. But nothing is peachy, he still sleeps on the couch, not much talking etc. I talked to him today and he said that just because we are back living together that not everything is on good terms. I thought when people come back together its all happy and fun, and everything sugarcoated. But he isn't sugar coating anything just act how he feels, he told me yes he loves me, and wants to be with me but not everything will go to being a big happy family until we work things out more. My heart is broken again. He keeps saying I'm the one that left and he just asked me to come back, to work everything out. So now I kinda feel like I can't have a say in anything because I left and should of just stayed gone.
I need some help to get thru this I thought our life would be grand, but its not, Will it change in time? Once we talked more, etc? Any advice would be great.
I'm just confused on how this is supposed to go.

2007-04-18 09:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i had a prom date, who i asked myself, and it turns out that he cant go now, and my prom is in 3 weeks. i go to a VERY VERY small school, the kind where everyone knows eachother. and i just dont know what to do for a date. i dont want to ask someone else just because i already did that and it didnt work out...plus isnt the guy really supposed to ask the girl? idk maybe im wrong. but its just really depressing because to add to it, im 6ft tallt, and many of my guys are shorter than me, and pleanty already have dates. and im already wearing flats to prom to help with tha tissue. and im just really freaking depressed about this whole issue...any help or anything?

2007-04-18 09:53:32 · 7 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Singles & Dating

need advice for revenge please

2007-04-18 09:51:39 · 25 answers · asked by kim w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm hurting bad right now. I said something to my bf that i wish i never,it was stupid,nasty and immature. He told me he might take this job offer which is quite far,and so i would'nt see him as much. I said some nasty things just to hurt him,i apologised after but he wasnt too happy and now i feel like crying because i really love him and now he probably thinks the past 3 years we spent together were meaningless because of what i said. I cant take it back and none of us have mentioned it today when we txt each other but i know he wont forget about this,how can i forget this horrible feeling?

2007-04-18 09:50:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this hapen two week ago ..my father was 75 ..but up to know i still can't let go.. i can't sleep..i miss him so much..

2007-04-18 09:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by mona w 2 in Family

Ok so I've met this guy, I'm sooo in to him, we click... In many ways. He seems to be into me maybe even more than me into him if that makes sense... So how soon is too soon for sex... I really like to hold out so that the guy will get to know you & respect you but damn I dont know how much longer I can wait... We havnt been seeing each other long ~ 1 month... & Im an adult

2007-04-18 09:48:31 · 23 answers · asked by whoopingthatass 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend and her boyfriend have been dating for 7 months now and now he hasn't called her, emailed her in a week
do you guys think its time for her to break it up with him or stilll stay with him

2007-04-18 09:47:45 · 3 answers · asked by daisylady2601 2 in Singles & Dating

In the event of a divorce, the woman gets half the man's property and money. Doesn't the constitution protect the man's property rights in this particular situation? Do you agree this should happen when a married couple divorce?

2007-04-18 09:47:03 · 17 answers · asked by Ian C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been approached 3 or 4 times within like 6 months from girls 17-20 and i am 34. I think thats too young for me personally but i am just curious, thanks!

2007-04-18 09:45:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

need revenge advice, please

2007-04-18 09:44:36 · 27 answers · asked by kim w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend moved here to live with his brother about 6 mo. ago and we started going out about one month later.

I just found out that his brother is moving to Michigan and taking my boyfriend with him, he said they'll be gone before the next school year.

Now the movie-esque part:

He was talking to a friend of mine and he told her that he loved me and that the last time he told a girl he got hurt so he didn't want to tell me to my face. He also told her that if I felt the same, then he would stay and not move with his brother. But....that would mean he'd becompletely on his own. He have to get his own appartment, job and still go to school at 18!

I'm still trying to figure out if i love him and I think I do, but I don't want to do that to him. If he left he would have so many more opprotunities than here and I don't want to hurt him just so he'll go.

So........
What do I say?

2007-04-18 09:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mother in law is a very mean woman. I have known her for over 20 years and tolerated her abusive ways. She is an alcoholic with a mouth like a trash can. I have now cut her off completely, don't alow her near my family, don't take her calls and try to avoid her in everyway. A short discription of what she does - she is intoxicated every 2nd or third day, she calls my home, work, parents, friends and anyone I know and says the most horific things. Since my husband & myself don't take her calls she leaves about on average 30 messages on our mobiles daily, emails, writes letters and so on. She gave up her son (my husband) when he was 4 months old as she wanted to have a good life. Her mother adopted him and brought him up. She was alowed to see him on a daily basis. Since I met her 20 yrs ago I have hardly known her to be sober. She is not only rude but tells horific lies. I need advise on how to stop her harrasment and that she stays away forever.

2007-04-18 09:40:54 · 20 answers · asked by pirate 1 in Family

she likes me thinks i am good looking, thinks i am nice and like nothing wrong with me but says she dosent have these special feelings for me ,yet she hardly has had a chance to relly get to know me ,yah we hang out some times and have short talks on the phone but she is very shy and alofe twords guys in genral and no she is not gay she grew up in a differnt country were their is no datting just you i guss have to have some instant attraction from no were i ask her to give me a chance like to get to know me and try to look at me like this to see if she dose like me but is affraid to commit to that but still looks at me with these in love eyes and keeps hanging out with me is she playing hard to get?? if i liked a gril i would not ackt like that but maby grils are differnt ..how can i win her heart my life would be like heaven with her and with out her ...well missrable can anny boddy give me some tips i dont have good lady skills

2007-04-18 09:38:45 · 5 answers · asked by lololol 2 in Singles & Dating

who's going to be in a long-term relationship? List 5-10 things that make a relationship sucessful

this is for my psych class, if u could answer it, it would really help me! please only people who have been in a long term relationship of 5 yrs or more..

2007-04-18 09:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by lucky 4 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-04-18 09:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 09:35:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Wrote here last month,myex boyfriend lost his job etc and was going through tough time with ex boss.He said he neeeded time alone ,now thats one month ago now.I have send him on a few emails of helpful sites he may need to do with problem with his ex job.No replies apart from one.Met up with him for luch 3 weeks ago and he was so distant -have heard nothing apart from one text which i replied & he said 'how could he ever find out if what he wanted if i was pushing him.I think to be honest this is just to tell its over.As have heard nothing in week.Men -do you run if women text??Im beginning to think its really overand he just cant face up to it.Its tough!!

2007-04-18 09:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by daisychain 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 09:34:12 · 22 answers · asked by andrewjumar 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to this guy know for about a month and i been talking to someone else to....both of them are very nice and they have that kind of gansta edge that i like....but they want to know if we can make it offical, and they know about each other...,so what do you think i should do....go with the one with the brains and the edge or the one who can really treat me hoe i would like to be treated?

2007-04-18 09:32:27 · 1 answers · asked by Tomanique G 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it feel like

2007-04-18 09:31:42 · 34 answers · asked by world wrestling fan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 09:30:53 · 22 answers · asked by pebblezz 1 in Family

2007-04-18 09:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by pebblezz 1 in Family

im only 15 and my moms bf always wants 2 touch me and i tell him 2 stop i even threathen him 2 tell my mom but he just doesnt stop and i dont want 2 tell my mom cuz i dont want her 2 get hurt he even sometimes comes in bed with me and he wants 2 cuddle PLZ HELP ME what should i do

2007-04-18 09:29:43 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can one who is 18 tell somebody who is 24 that they love them or have a crush on them? Or at lest get them to pay em a little attention?

2007-04-18 09:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by AllsparkGuardian 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OMG I love Sanjaya. But everyone says hes really bad! HES SO NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO say if you like him. Answer honestly

2007-04-18 09:27:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-18 09:27:29 · 17 answers · asked by nancy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I found Out that my Dad Who have Not been in my life years Has Insurance on me After I told Him That I didn't want him to put in Insurance He fourged My signature anyway,What Can I do about This Can He Get In trouble for this????BTW I'm a 28 year old women Married with Kids and Have My Own Insurance.Someone Please Tell me What Can I do In This Situation???True Honest Answers Only Please.


Thanks In Advance

2007-04-18 09:27:08 · 9 answers · asked by It's all Love!!! 4 in Family

Ok I found Out that my Dad Who have Not been in my life years Has Insurance on me After I told Him That I didn't want him to put in Insurance He fourged My signature anyway,What Can I do about This Can He Get In trouble for this????BTW I'm a 28 year old women Married with Kids and Have My Own Insurance.Someone Please Tell me What Can I do In This Situation???True Honest Answers Only Please.


Thanks In Advance

2007-04-18 09:25:58 · 8 answers · asked by It's all Love!!! 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We both have made our mistakes and have been separated for a while now. There was a lot of family interference and now I have been served with papers. I still love her very much as I got married for the right reasons. We have a 3 y/o baby girl and we both adore her. I know she has been having "bad" advice from her disgruntled-with-men friends. We are having our "final" talk tomorrow and I know she is going to fight with me (screaming etc) but I am willing to fight for my family as I love them both.

2007-04-18 09:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by BSY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a one sided marriage I have no friends not allowed this man didnt even go to my mothers funeral, I love him now is that wrong I was brought up to make things work my parents were married 43 yrs ,I'm just now relizing I'm intitled to happiness and so are my kids so do I wait untill she turns 18 do I leave now I'm afraid I will have to run to get totally away. I've always been the worker now refuse because its just not fair I feel taken advantage of. Beleive all inputs are being read I have nooooo one to turn to my kids are my all that keep me going!!!

2007-04-18 09:24:29 · 2 answers · asked by cmomma1 1 in Marriage & Divorce