Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

I am getting married in 2weeks. My wedding dress fits perfect except for the boob area. I am not blessed in no means so how can i make them stand up an look like I got something. I tried the lift bras an stuffing but it just makes the dress stand out more at the top. What can I do to make them stand up?

2007-04-18 10:29:40 · 1 answers · asked by gaboy an gagirl M 1 in Weddings

I like boys, their great lol....... :P but i think i like girls too, not so sure though....i'll find them attractive but i have no desire to be with a girl whatsoever, i just want to experience. is this wrong or just a phase?

2007-04-18 10:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Singles & Dating

I personally don't believe in separating from my spouse but my husband thinks those are just sacrifices made in a relationship. I understand what he is saying but what is the point of getting married if we would not be living together or able to see each other. His brother just got married and left his wife to go do a 2-year masters degree program in Ethiopia. Now she is pregnant and he wont be able to come back until he finishes the program. So he won't be there for her whole pregnancy, birth, or the first year of his child's life. That is so weird to me.

I don't think anything is more important than family. I personally find it a bit selfish.
Now I'm interested in a 9 month program but its in Oklahoma. I asked him if we could move there. He said I could move there and live on-campus while he stay here and work. (Texas) It seems it doesn't bother him that we would be away from each other for that long but I can't imagine being even a month without him. Who's right on this?

2007-04-18 10:25:31 · 18 answers · asked by vanillacream753 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, so saturday night i went to a party and got down with all of my friends. and apparently, one of the guys there rather liked it. we talked for an hour after the party through texting, he gave me the nickname 'nice booty' or w/e. and truthfully, i kind of enjoyed it. he asked me if he could slap my **** and i said 'i bet u wont' and he said 'wait till tues.' the next day, i told my friend i liked him.
she bugged me to let her ask him if he liked me too. so, i let her. and he did. i told her not to tell him i did too, and she did anyway. he stopped calling me by my nickname, and didnt slap my butt on tues.

and later today, i found out from a friend that he said he stopped all of that because he found out i liked it.

i dont want him to keep thinking i like him, how do i get out of this mess? or just recover from it?

do i do something about it? or do i just leave it alone and let it fade?
i feel so heartbroken right now, i know i really messed up. any advice?

2007-04-18 10:24:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 10:22:59 · 6 answers · asked by nick f 2 in Singles & Dating

We got back together, and now it seems he is stuck that because I left that I caused the problems. I just want everything to be happy, I know I made a mistake when I gave up, but I was stressed out and I didn't want to lose the baby I'm carry , so I need some time to relax, But now I dont think he will ever get over the fact I left. He is still hurt,and since I can back its like nothing is there anymore. He wont sleep in the bed with me, he doesn't talk much and when he does it about the show thats on or a friend, but wont touch "our" relationship. I want this to work I know I made the mistake but how do I fix it?

2007-04-18 10:22:56 · 7 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we're having our wedding in a memorial hall. we have caterers coming in for the dinner but we need to work out the drinks situation. half of our family drink and half don't is it rude to ask for byo drinks or should we provide the beverages?

2007-04-18 10:22:15 · 37 answers · asked by Louiebaby 1 in Weddings

"La la la la la, and everybody's singing" If you know the title of this song, I would be forever grateful! God bless! Thanks so much!!!

2007-04-18 10:20:51 · 15 answers · asked by Rain Nicole S 1 in Singles & Dating

My BIL is getting married to a girl whose family has more money than my BIL does or anyone in his family. When the bride to be asked to have my daughter as flower girl I told her I was honored & yes as long as things finacially were taken care of after being assured by her we agreed, then hubby asked BIL a few weeks later & he said "don't worry things are taken care of" we are paying for all traveling & lodging expenses (its far away & the rehearsal is a two day before the wedding so we need a hotel room in a expensive city for 3 nights) Now the bride to be is asking hubby & I (through emails) for money to pay for our daughters dress/shoes/hair accs. using the excuse that since they rented a house two months early that they are hard up for extra money. yeah . how do I take care of this without starting family problems (this girl is already on the bad side of most my SIL's) & I have been the one who has been sticking up for her to them since I know how she feels becoming the new SIL.

2007-04-18 10:18:47 · 16 answers · asked by Erin F 1 in Weddings

How can I document my expenses?

2007-04-18 10:17:41 · 4 answers · asked by Carla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is really into sports and is an outdoorsman. He isn't into mugs, money clips and the other normal best man gift ideas.

2007-04-18 10:16:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i was talking to my friend and she asked so what base are you on,what does that mean?

2007-04-18 10:16:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you expect, or want, a girl to do whenever you do these things to her...

1-If you walk up behind her and start tickling her, what should she do...

2-If you say "whats up?" what should she say... not "nothing" or "I don't know"

3-If you mention anything about sex, or any words related to that (you know what i mean) what would her reply be?

4-If you go up to her and just hug her from behind (not your girlfriend) what would she do?

ok... My friend wanted to know some of this... And she won't take my word for it... so I'm gonna ask you guys...

2007-04-18 10:14:45 · 11 answers · asked by brandi l 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me a few days ago that he needed some "me" time and wanted to see his friends more. This came all of a sudden from him being tied to me at the hip (his choice) for the past 2 months...I asked him if he wanted to see other people or break up and he told me that he wasn't saying that...he just needed time. So I told him that was fine. I told him I would give him a few days to think about it with out me contacting him. He's only 21 and I'm 26. He hasn't tried to contact me either. I have noticed that he has been logging into the dating site we met on durring this time...How long should I give him before I call and I guess I am wondering if this is the beginning stages of the break up phase...Is he not contacting me b/c I told him too take a couple days to think? I guess I kind of figured if he cared like he said he did he would have tried to at least text me..?? Not sure why he's logging into that dating site again...my replacement maybe?

2007-04-18 10:13:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 10:13:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 10:11:24 · 5 answers · asked by george g 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex use to pay 44.80 a month in child support . Now due to his new playmate that he seen he has cut paying child support and told every one that he his backrupt.
court will not touch him due to this.

2007-04-18 10:10:05 · 26 answers · asked by MOONBEAM7699 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend are really close. We always hold hands at school and we get in trouble for it. We're ready to kiss, but we never get to be alone because we don't live close and I can't drive over to his house because...well.....i don't have my liscense. So what should we do?

2007-04-18 10:08:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 10:07:58 · 22 answers · asked by B0NiTA AppLEBAuM 2 in Singles & Dating

is there anything i can do? i mean last time i had sex it went about 15 minutes and i feel that wasnt long enough, im a guy

2007-04-18 10:07:15 · 12 answers · asked by CRUNK 2 in Singles & Dating

he wont tell me what im hiding from him because he wants me to confess...but there is nothing to confess..he also says he has proof but i am not hiding anything

2007-04-18 10:05:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How much do you currently have? Do you wish you had more or less? Or have you got it just right?

2007-04-18 10:03:01 · 9 answers · asked by Sparklepop 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-18 10:02:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does cheaters change?

2007-04-18 10:00:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 09:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf used 2 be really caring with me...he used to give me lots of kisses and hugs,he was starring at my eyes a lot,and nice stuff like that.But 3 weeks ago,he found out that he's dad has a cancer..and he will die soon....and since then he doesnt give me many kisses...he doesnt look at me like before...and he seems cold and distant. and i asked him if the spark is gone,ot that he doesnt love me anymore....cuz i told him that when a person is really sad about something like that with his dad,he should get closer to me and stuff like that.And what he said was that inside he feels the same things for me like before and that he loves me more than anything...but cuz of his dad's cancer he's really down,and cant express his love for me...but that inside he feels it,just that he cant express it.

do u guyz think that's true?..or is the love just gone away??

2007-04-18 09:58:40 · 15 answers · asked by Lollirot 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the appropriate reason of getting married

2007-04-18 09:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I need a nickname for my boy friend but I have no idea what Should I call him. He has a nickname for me and he calls me: "Baby Doll". The only reason why I need a nickname for him is cuz he wants one. OR I would just call him: "Baby"
His name is Jonathan, black hair, brown eyes, about 5"9, really sweet and cute!
I'm bi, so I also need a nickname for my girl friend..She want's one too...lmao.
She calls me: "Baby Kins"..Her name is Leslie,She has Blonde Hair, blue eyes, about 5"5, she kinda like a punkish prep {if that makes any sense,} She has her VaJaJay pierced, and also her ears pierced twice..umm, she's hot, and adorable..
So please help me.
THANX!

2007-04-18 09:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 09:55:35 · 9 answers · asked by draco23rosa8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was about 7-8 my 17 year old female cousin used to beat me up..like punch me and stuff..then open the window and threaten to throw me out and i really thought she would do it cuz she was crazy! also sometimes her 17-18 year old (maybe even older!) boyfriend would hold my arms while she beat me up (not playfully) i would be crying hysterically..this went on about 2 times a week for about a year (im 19 now) ...I flinch whenever anyone makes quick movements and I wont stand near an open window if someone else is around..could that be because of that?

2007-04-18 09:54:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships