Does a cheater change?

Question

Does cheaters change?

Answer 1

Yes they can change, but the likely hood is pretty low.

I believe in second chances. I'm not perfect, I've made mistakes. I've cheated on a previous BF in the past. He was willing to give me a second chance. I did not take him up on it, because I KNEW within my heart of hearts that I would do it to him again. I was just making a reason to end the relationship because I was too much of a coward to just tell him that is wasn't working out between us.

However, that being said. I would not cheat on my husband. I've matured and grown as a person since the cheating incident mentioned above. I've been cheated on and cheated myself. I've seen the devastation and heartache it causes. (from both sides) I would not wish that pain on anyone nor would I want to go through it again.

So, once a cheater...always a cheater? No. Not always. But within the same relationship....maybe to a probable yes.

Answer 2

Well many people will probably say once a cheater always a cheater but it is not tecnically true, if a man or woman wants to be faithful they will. the choose what they decide to do sometimes it is because they aren't happy and sometimes because it's easier than being happy but either way it is a choice.

Answer 3

If he already has a pattern, no. If it is the first time, there could be a possibility.

In most cases, I feel that a cheater never changes until he has no money, he's too old, and very sick.

Answer 4

The chances of a cheater changing are about the same as getting snow in hell.

Answer 5

If he cheated because you weren't meeting his needs sexually, then yes he can... but you have to meet his needs. I call it the rule of overlap. If you want sex 1-3 times a week and he wants it 3-5 times then make sure it's at least 3 times... If you have different styles of sex (he wants kink and you prefer sensuality) then you had better take turns. It does not work to force one person to accept the style of the other... it is never fulfilling enough and they are wide open for an affair.

If he cheated and has NO complaints about sex, then he will most likely cheat again. Sometimes guys cheat for emotional reasons... you'll have to meet that need too, if it was unmet.

Answer 6

i think of a cheater can exchange even nevertheless it takes alot. they might desire to fulfill the properly suited person that they want to be with and purely with. Im no longer asserting anybody can exchange, yet a number of them.

Answer 7

i CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MY SELF i HAVE CHEATED ON EVERY WOMAN i HAVE KNOWEN and I don,t see any change in the future some of us just like women more than others it has nothing to do with the woman it,s us we can,t help it and I,m not trying to be funny I have been doing this all my life and I am not a kid I don,t need help this is just the way I am . I have some thoughts on why I am this way but they don,t make ant sense

Answer 8

No cheaters always cheat.

Answer 9

Anyone can change, but actions speak louder than words. That being said, you have to ask yourself if you are willing to wager on this particular person changing enough to not hurt you again.

Answer 10

cheaters cheat.. because they aren't with the person they really want to be with..

i think they can change.. i knkow my bf has cheated on his past gf's i'm not worried about him cheating on me cause i know he loves me and he's finally found the person he's been looking for :)