Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

2007-04-18 22:14:23 · 6 answers · asked by bobthebrowser 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for 10 years. About four years ago we got into an argument and he literally ran away and hid. Long story short, we ended up back together, but there was a lot of damage done to our finances and to our relationship. We basically lost everything, and had to rebuild from scratch. But....every time we argue...over even the smallest of issue he starts threatening to leave. I think he does this to frighten me. Well it happened again yesterday and I called his bluff. So he's out of my home, and I really don't want him back even though he's already been home begging me to let him come back. I don't think I've ever really been able to forgive him for the incident 4 years ago. Is it me hanging on to an old issue? I don't think so because he makes it an ongoing issue by threatening to leave all the time. Should I have been able to get over that and go on? All opinions welcome.

2007-04-18 22:07:47 · 25 answers · asked by PJJ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 22:01:34 · 4 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-18 21:56:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always felt that trust, communication, emotional aspects etc are more important in a relationship but guys seems to place a greater emphasis on physical intimacy. Why is this so?

2007-04-18 21:55:50 · 19 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 21:54:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

nobody want to date them

2007-04-18 21:52:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 21:51:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex was always a good dad very intersted in seeing my son, he still is but now he has a new girl friend and is getting in to alot of trouble, he has a warnt out for his arrest he is injecting steriods and just genrally not a good role morall,
i just said to him that unless he sorts his self out he cant see my son.
he is saying that when my son grows up he will hate me because i kept the two of them apart.
i will have my son think that he does not love him when he does,
i dont know what to do for the best, i would hate for the shoe to b on the other foot and i could not see him.but then i would never do any thing that would cause that

2007-04-18 21:46:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You are free to turn my question around and ask the same for a wife. Actually, the issue I want to raise and share with you all is simple. Why is there so much of dishonesty in the most intimate of relationships on this earth, and isn't it rampant enough across geographical and cultural differences ?

2007-04-18 21:44:09 · 38 answers · asked by nanhowala 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What harm can it cause my unborn baby??? I am so worried... I took 2 drops on my sore throat every few minutes yesterday only... I am worried about my baby... please give advice

2007-04-18 21:36:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife had an affair starting last sept till end of nov- i found out in dec. we have been married 25 years this month 23rd aprill . she is trying realy hard she said it was a mistake her head was messed up and realy regreted it ,and has no contact with the other bloke, she gave her job up where she met other bloke. but i cant put it behind me every day i mention something about it or ask the same questions ive asked 100 times and she has answered them and been truthfull with the answers .but she now refuses to answer as she has given me the answers 100 times .she now wont talk about it and says she needs to forget and put it behind her,but i cant i have to bring it up ,and this upsets her she says were suposed to be putting it behind us .I still get images of her and him making love and find it hard to let it go.I know she is right ,but i cant put it behind me (she got very depressed last week and took an over dose of tablets and had to be taken to hospital) how do i stop.

2007-04-18 21:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by anthony f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to be trusting and move forward after some upsetting events in my marriage. I know the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater", but is it really true? Have any of you really learned your lesson and are now able to avoid temptation? Thanks for honest answers.

2007-04-18 21:26:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 21:25:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-18 21:23:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 21:23:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 19 years old. I have had my wood bead necklace that I have made myself since I was of 14 years of age. I am very attached to it. I would die if it were to come off. It has never been off of my neck ONCE at all, EVER!! lol... I was wondering if it would make a great gift idea. It is like showing someone that you care enough for them to sacrifice something in a way (though of only material possession, but still), and that they mean a lot to you. Is this a good gift idea? Yes or no? and Why?

2007-04-18 21:17:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 2 months ago I discovered my partner had a 4 month affair. The affair has since ended but because of my deep and undying love, I have chosen to try to reconstruct the trust and rebuild the relationship that I once cherished with all of my soul. Since that time, I have done a great deal of self evaluation on the matter, trying to decide if it was my fault my partner cheated or if there was something more I should have done but didn't...those sorts of things.
What I have decided is that people are fallable, we make mistakes each day and we learn from them, no matter the degree, mistakes are a given. I am finding more and more comfort in the fact that as time passes by, I am less and less hurt by the mistake of my partner of 8 years. I am finding resolve in the fact that even though the affair was a long one, they chose me over their lover. I am less and less angry with the mutual friend that my lover slept with even. I am at peace.

Have I freaking lost my freaking mind

2007-04-18 21:13:41 · 3 answers · asked by D tothe M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 21:11:52 · 1 answers · asked by yvonneashuyinks y 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a horrible dream lastnight that my boyfriend had left me for someone else, I woke up checking that he was still lying beside me, it completely unnnerved me. Has anyone ever experienced the same sort of feeling and waking up startled to make sure it isnt real?

2007-04-18 21:10:23 · 5 answers · asked by nc 3 in Singles & Dating

i love her ,i don`t have a job or other means of productivity; how do i take care of her financial needs?

2007-04-18 21:09:15 · 2 answers · asked by mallamsaint 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-18 21:08:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

of he time with my friend,he is always fighting with the former girl but he gets along with my friend peacefully,should my friend continue or back off.thanks

2007-04-18 21:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by yvonneashuyinks y 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if I have made the right decision, I fancy a girl at work and it was making me feel guilty (although I have done nothing with this girl) so I thought I'd do the right thing and split up with her seen as I fancied someone else I dont know if its because it was yesterday or something else but now I feel I made a bad decision my emotions are up and down. I'm 27 and need some advice thanks

2007-04-18 20:56:48 · 24 answers · asked by simonted 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean at first it is exciting because it's all new with that person and you are not sure where it is going or how they feel. But with time all that is cleared up. Now a few months later you are more comfortable with each other. You know what I mean? It is like some of the pretending has been lifted and now there is a deeper emotional connection. Do you think this connection is better than the excitement of the newness that you had initially?

2007-04-18 20:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has has stoped this too many times but every few months I find something new and the subjects are getting more depraved.

2007-04-18 20:54:00 · 14 answers · asked by mature_egyptian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I had a huge falling out when our relationship ended. Much was said and done and we both acted out in anger. When I tried to talk to him and confront him, he deleted my emails and didn't want to talk to me anymore. I let it go and time has passed...it always bothered me and I called him and apologized but I got really emotional and told him I would email him and to please not delete it. Well...he has been online, yet the email says "unread". Does this mean he is considering it?
I want things to be ok between us, without any anomosity. We went thu alot and I helped him thru so much. Has time made him think? Or does he not care. He knows we cannot go back to the way things were...but I wanted to see if we can get past this and remain friends, he also is aware of this. Please just tell me if you were him how would you feel. I mean he could have deleted it like the rest.

2007-04-18 20:17:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are very rich. They are always buying me expensive things that I really do not want - horses, cars, jewellry etc. They seem to think that this is all they have to do to show their love. I would much rather we spent time together - just going out for a picnic or going for a walk. Do you think they love me? If not what should I do to win their love again?

2007-04-18 20:17:45 · 14 answers · asked by Ugly Girl 1 in Family

my bf has this girl thats a friend and they always hang out and hit each other and cuss at each other and also buy **** each other! the thing is that she cheats on her husband and i had no problem them beeing so close until i found out from my bf that she cheats on her husband so guys what do u think as a guy do u think that my bf is cheating or just beeing a friend to her ? but i do know her well i guess and we all have hung out together so i dont know should i have something to worrie about ?

2007-04-18 20:14:35 · 1 answers · asked by irina b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-18 20:05:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings