my bf has this girl thats a friend and they always hang out and hit each other and cuss at each other and also buy **** each other! the thing is that she cheats on her husband and i had no problem them beeing so close until i found out from my bf that she cheats on her husband so guys what do u think as a guy do u think that my bf is cheating or just beeing a friend to her ? but i do know her well i guess and we all have hung out together so i dont know should i have something to worrie about ?
2007-04-18 20:14:35 · 1 answers · asked by irina b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me just say this, friends make great lovers, lovers don't make great friends.... so yes be worried. Society likes to make us think that "friendship" is seperate from "relationship". But thats like say fing is more emotional then making love.... it isn't the case... at the core of ever deep and meaningful relationship exist a friendship. Also why isn't he hanging out and hitting on you, buying you things? Your suppose to be more then just this guys f-buddy, your suppose to be his best-friend, sounds like she took that role from you.... so yes you do, at the very, very least he is cheating on you with his time and his emotions.... its a small step for it to be something else....
2007-04-19 04:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋