Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

If a girl came up to you and said that she likes you would you think that she only wants to sleep with you??

2007-04-18 14:07:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earlier my hubby & I got into a confrontation. I am pregnant and am really uncomfortable right now becuase my uterus and ligaments are stretching. I expressed my hurting and he didn't say anything. I didn't think it would take so long to respond, I thought it would be immediate bcuz what is there really to say? I looked over at him and asked if he was going to say n e thing & he said I wasn't even done talking but I had been for a minute or so. It escalated, so I decided 2 just leave the convo and get in the bath to relax me & he continued to yell through the door. I said I didn't want to hear anymore and said "can't hear you" (waters running) so he decided to just open up the door and walk in. Boundaries is a big issue becuase he has kept me captive in my own house before as well as in rooms in the house. (not for hours or days). And has also physically held me in place and when I fought to get away he wrestled me to the couch. He said he'd never be "that kind of person" but he has.

2007-04-18 14:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by justcuriouslyasking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i get beat up at school so what should i do

2007-04-18 14:07:13 · 2 answers · asked by Iwonit 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you deal with something like? my husband is going to start a job at the oil fields and i don't know how i going to deal with him gone for that long......i love him so much and i am going to miss him so much

2007-04-18 14:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

see she had sex with my boyfriend called me a "*****" and she called me out there she tried to make me seem like a ***** and she just talking a hole lot of **** and i dont got time for her lil girl mess. so should i still respect the fact that she still my cousin or should i just **** her up or just dogg her as yall say.

2007-04-18 14:03:40 · 1 answers · asked by kia 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, im studying to be a fire fighter at the moment, im still living at home i cant afford to move out yet. to get in shape for the fire academy im starting to play water polo again. i played in highschool and was pretty good at it. my dad loved me playing water polo for some reason. i play the sport because its fun you know, i enjoy playing it... my dad starts with this "you should train harder and get a scholarship to get out of the community college, get a degree in business, or history, and play sports through college." even though i DONT want this, i want to be a fire fighter really bad, im working really hard for it. i started a kick boxing class and now he thinks im not going to do anything but kick box... its not true, i tell him im just doing it because its fun and it will get me in tip top shape for fire academy. i needed a ride to boxing tonight so i asked him, he says no because hes tired. but if i asked him if he could take me swimming at 1 AM, hed have no problem... WHY???

2007-04-18 14:03:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-18 14:01:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

here's the story. my wife is turning thirty in a few months. we got married a year ago and it hasn't been easy blending my two kids and her daughter. Plus I was married before. my wife gained about 20 pounds since we've been married. my ex wife is tall, thin and blonde. my wife seems really concerned that now that she's thirty and getting older I will leave her because i am almost forty and that's what older guys do when their wives get old and unattractive. possibly she thinks i will go back to my ex wife because of the kids. now she's pushing for a baby with me even though it's been really tough keeping up with all three for her and me. she knows this but i told her no more kids for now. she said she always wanted another one and how could i deny her that! something other than a baby is going on here and i cant figure it out. it's like her world ended when i said no baby right now even though when we first got married she was unsure. how can i help her and what does she really want?

2007-04-18 13:58:08 · 8 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After about 6 or 7 years of asking him to do it - my boyfriend of 10 years (so it's not really MARRIAGE counseling) has finally agreed to therapy - so he and I are going to a licensed MFT next week. We are having problems that revolve around money (I don't think he pays his fair share - he thinks I should be compassionate while he figures out how to make money at something he loves) his daughter (I don't think he is involved enough in her life - and I pick up the slack - but he thinks everything is fine and that I'm too involved in her school work) and his daughter's Mom (I believe that he tends to walk on eggshells around her - and he doesn't defend me when she puts me down - and he says he's trying to keep the peace for his daughter's sake). I'm wondering how much of this I should lay out on the table in the first session. He wouldn't be surprised by any of it - as I've complained about all of it to him. Is there a standard procedure for the first session with a therapist?

2007-04-18 13:56:57 · 2 answers · asked by liddabet 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A popular girl says high to my friend every day. but she is more friendly to him than her boyfriend! Is this normal he wants to know but he is to shy to ask her

2007-04-18 13:56:04 · 12 answers · asked by Young dude 1 in Singles & Dating

While she was visiting (wife is out of the country) we went dancing and things got a bit heated. There was alot of touching a little kissing. When we got home there was more touching. We always stop but I really would like to go on, just once.

2007-04-18 13:54:32 · 24 answers · asked by Daivd M 2 in Family

I have developed a crush on my English Teacher. She is single, in her late 20's and she is cool. Her interest is taking care of horses, she owns horses. My favorite physical feature on her is her butt. I cant stop looking at her butt. Is there anyway I can seduce her.

2007-04-18 13:52:12 · 6 answers · asked by Info Nympho 2 in Singles & Dating

Over the weekend my boyfriend and I got in a fight over his best friend and he didn't call me Sunday night like normal so when he go online I sent him an im and asked if he was mad and he said he was but wasn't anymore so I asked if we could talk about it and he said no. Then he called me Monday night and said he loved me and everything was fine and I texted him on Tuesday to see if I could come over this morning (Wednesday) and he said yes. Then he didn't call me last night so I called him this morning at 8:20AM and left him a voicemail to see if I could still come over and then called again at 9:45AM and he never called me back and still haven't. Do you think he really is made at me? Do you think our relationship is over and I should just stop kidding myself? Suggestions please I'm totally lost on what to do.

2007-04-18 13:48:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in 7th grade and I sit with this popular boy and girl in science class. They always talk about how many times they've kissed people and how manyy people they kissed. Then they ask other people when and who they've kissed. EVERYONE has kissed someone before but when they asked me I didn't know what to say because I'm a kissing virgen. What should I say when they ask me tommorow. If your young you would know that you can't tell them you haven't kissed anyone before or they'll think your some kind of geek.

2007-04-18 13:46:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no trust issues with my hubby and don't question his motives at all. Our marriage is great! It's just this girl he works with that has a marriage that's on the rocks and is constantly flirting with my hubby. Should I talk to her? I barely know her, she seems nice. An example of what she has done is rub lotion on his neck, he hated it and doesn't want her to do it again. To me that's just not right. What are your thoughts?

2007-04-18 13:42:42 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've decent looking and yeah I've been called gorgeous but mostly from my girl friends and some guy friends who are very very close to me. I'm nice overall but i've never been kissed. I don't want a boyfriend for status don't worry I just want to know what you guys usually look for in a girl? How can I make myself a little more attractive. And don't worry I'm not just gonna go for the first boy that comes my way. Please leave advice honestly!

2007-04-18 13:41:59 · 9 answers · asked by omgitstbaby 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 13:41:05 · 16 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't get me wrong I'm a nice quite girl but when it comes to the bedroom I'm a little controlling and I like it rough, hot and kinky. My boy friend on the other hand is very sensual and compassionate when it comes to sex. I love him very much but I'm not to sure how we can overcome this little problem. He gets very upset and mad for example (today after a lovely lunch together he walked me to my car and we kissed, then I bit his nose playfully, he pushed me away said he was leaving and left without saying goodbye.) Is it just the fact that I'm a girl or was that rude? Anyways I'm willing to change and make compromises but this wouldn't be the only thing that upsets him. He's doesn't watch porn and the fact that sometimes I do and its lez. makes him uneasy, in fact after telling him that he asked me if I was a lesbian. I'm to a point were I don't know what to do and thats unusual for me. Help!

2007-04-18 13:37:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok mt bf's sister is really being a *****! She is giving me dirty looks and i have known her for a year because i have been dating my bf for a year, so anyways she had a bf and they broke up, and my bf was being nice to his sister and comferting her, well then the next day he was being rude to her about it! And i didn't care, wat am i supposed to do when i dont care! But anyways she thinks that he's being mean to her because of ME! And i didn't do ****! I never told him to be mean to her about her n her ex! that was all him! NOT ME! and she said it's cuz of me cuz he's trying to act cool around me or w/e, but it's still not my fault!!!!!! wat should i do?

2007-04-18 13:34:21 · 1 answers · asked by that one girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I noe i posted one of these before but i what to add more details.

All my friends hate me!!!!?
My friends ditch me all the time!! I want to be their friends but they always make me seeker when we're playing hide and go seek. I even cried at school cuz of it. They always ditch me and show little signs that they don't want to be their friends. I can't get new friends cuz it's more than half of the school year and now everybody hates me since they spreaded fake rumors that i talk behind their back!! I can't report them becuz then they noe i lost and they won. Now they're spreading rumors 'bout it all over school. ive tried makeing new friends and everythin but they're aren't my type and its hard since its the middle of the school year!!!!


Tips of making new friends and join new groups!!! (will be needed)

Tips to get them back!!! ( will be needed.)

I guess they don't like me since i'm the newest person in that group and i like the people in it but its just they hate me.

2007-04-18 13:32:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sean C 2 in Friends

can they work? Have a story to tell?

2007-04-18 13:31:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seriously like this whole marco thing is driving me crazy......see practically ALL my old questions to know whats going on b/c i like this hot funny nice junior (im a freshman) and he thinks im cute blah blah blah u kno the deal....and anyways he nkos i like him and he says hes not ready 4 a relationship....does that just translate to "i dont wanna go out with u leave me alone" ?

2007-04-18 13:29:49 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

her friend if her mom knows him and they said that there mom like him too i got really mad .idontno weather i should just give up.idontno why i feel like this.

2007-04-18 13:29:40 · 1 answers · asked by pamathason@alltel.net 1 in Singles & Dating

My marriage is destroyed, and i want to fix it, but my husband has fallen out of love with me.he said the passion had gone out of our marriage, and suggested spicing it up.
We had a threesome with a close friend, and it has destroyed our marriage, i cheated on him with this guy,and lied about contacting him when i promised that i wouldnt,and my husband has moved out.I have always let my husband follow his dreams,he joined the military when i was pregnant with our 2nd child,then quit,is in a deadend job with his family, and i always stayed because i love him,and now feel like he has deserted me and our 3 children. I am very sorry for what i did,and want to fix our marriage, but my husband doesnt want to.He has put me through a lot, and wont even give me a chance,I am destroyed,i have lost the love of my life, and dont know what to do.We are still friends, and i suggested counselling but he is not interested.He hates me as a wife,but loves me as a friend,and i want him back,what do ido

2007-04-18 13:29:26 · 16 answers · asked by lolly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 7 years out of high school and my high school best friend's sister is having a baby.

My friend got married a few years ago and I have talked to her about once in the last year and havent seen her for over that time! I have come to the realization that we are totally not as good of friends anymore but when we do see eachother it is nice and her parents are awesome and so on. Her sister is younger than us and was never really our friend...only our friends sister.

Well, the friend is planning a shower for her sister and has invited me and my other 2 friends...they are in the same boat as me. We dont want to go...we dont even talk to her sister!

Not going isnt the issue...the issue is...do we send a gift? She is so far "related" to us it seems silly. Do we send gifts to all of our old best friends sisters who are pregnant?

2007-04-18 13:26:20 · 9 answers · asked by stephasoris 4 in Friends

do you think height matters in a girl? for instance, if you're really tall, do you mind if the girl is a lot shorter than you? or perhaps taller than you? what is the ideal height for a girl, or does it just not matter...

2007-04-18 13:25:45 · 12 answers · asked by violet h 1 in Singles & Dating

If not, you will now after reading this.

It's sort of interesting, thinking about the time of year and what sort of circumstances they might have got it on.

2007-04-18 13:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am cheating on my bfriend which has given me a phone a car and i'm cheating on him him 4 an even richer guy that has a wife and is pregnant but is super cute,we have gone on so many date i've even gone to his house four lovemaking but i'm not so sure to dump my bfriend or 2 date the married man or his wife cuz i'm bi and so is she wut 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-18 13:24:09 · 22 answers · asked by elena_fitz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 13:20:53 · 28 answers · asked by daniele m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Boyfriend takes his problems out on me , like if he's had a bad day he's a big dick head to me. Today he called me (he's out town for the week on buissness) well i told him on the phone that theres a POSSIBILITY i might get cut off unemployment this month therefore im going to go hand out resumes. Before i told him this i could tell he was having a bad day already. But after I told him he bagan yelling and screaming at me about the chance that he may have to cover the rent himself this month. This got me angry so i raised my voice in defense and told him the way he was treating is innapropriate... he fired back "Dont take that tone with me".... So I hung up on him. I dont see what his problem is... this would only be a one time thing, and its not even a sure thing that i will get cut off. He makes VERY good money and could cover it easily plus have alot of money left over. Why do i always get the effects of his bad days and frustrations? What should i do?

2007-04-18 13:20:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships