Don't get me wrong I'm a nice quite girl but when it comes to the bedroom I'm a little controlling and I like it rough, hot and kinky. My boy friend on the other hand is very sensual and compassionate when it comes to sex. I love him very much but I'm not to sure how we can overcome this little problem. He gets very upset and mad for example (today after a lovely lunch together he walked me to my car and we kissed, then I bit his nose playfully, he pushed me away said he was leaving and left without saying goodbye.) Is it just the fact that I'm a girl or was that rude? Anyways I'm willing to change and make compromises but this wouldn't be the only thing that upsets him. He's doesn't watch porn and the fact that sometimes I do and its lez. makes him uneasy, in fact after telling him that he asked me if I was a lesbian. I'm to a point were I don't know what to do and thats unusual for me. Help!
2007-04-18 13:37:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I think he's going to break up with me and I don't want that ;(
2007-04-18 13:54:29 · update #1
Wow like rough, hot and kinky sex and your husban likes compassionate sex.... hmmm seems you might have a problem..... really, the fact is sex is what you make of it and some where in your seual development you descided to make sex a good ego buster but an emotionless experience.... usually really hard to love a girl when you got her doggy-style and your slappy her ****...or really hard to love a guy when you've got him chain'd up and your whipping him.... your letting sex perverse, and the made reason most likly comes down to the fact that you split sex and emotion... this is usually develop over a life time.... your going to need some conseling inorder to fix this, or a man who is welling to work with you.... sorry but your the odd ball not him. I hate to say that too I use to believe that kinky sex was good sex, then I feel in love....
2007-04-19 07:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋