I am 7 years out of high school and my high school best friend's sister is having a baby.
My friend got married a few years ago and I have talked to her about once in the last year and havent seen her for over that time! I have come to the realization that we are totally not as good of friends anymore but when we do see eachother it is nice and her parents are awesome and so on. Her sister is younger than us and was never really our friend...only our friends sister.
Well, the friend is planning a shower for her sister and has invited me and my other 2 friends...they are in the same boat as me. We dont want to go...we dont even talk to her sister!
Not going isnt the issue...the issue is...do we send a gift? She is so far "related" to us it seems silly. Do we send gifts to all of our old best friends sisters who are pregnant?
2007-04-18 13:26:20 · 9 answers · asked by stephasoris 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't need a gift or even an appearance at the shower. It should be for her sisters friends not hers. Just tryin to rack up on gifts I would guess.
2007-04-18 13:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by charkeyp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Showers are difficult especially when your friend is the girl.
Don't go to the shower, but give a gift at least. You send gifts to friends that take the time to invite you, especially if they are somewhat related.
2007-04-18 20:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by aliasasim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to, but just to make it easier on yourselves and to be the "bigger person"..just send something as a token gift.
a card would be nice? signed by all three of you hahaha so to knock out three birds with one stone.
it is silly but hey, why not do a little something just to be nicer than you have to be?
2007-04-18 20:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by ChloeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just send a "congratulations" card. My cousins did the same thing to me.
2007-04-19 11:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a gift if you want, but if she isn't your friend, you don't really need to.
2007-04-18 20:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tawny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what brand of shower
2007-04-18 20:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't bother.
it becomes a sort of game if you do.
2007-04-18 20:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would save my money.
2007-04-18 20:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by mommie_29801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.
2007-04-18 20:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by ibsawdust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋