Over the weekend my boyfriend and I got in a fight over his best friend and he didn't call me Sunday night like normal so when he go online I sent him an im and asked if he was mad and he said he was but wasn't anymore so I asked if we could talk about it and he said no. Then he called me Monday night and said he loved me and everything was fine and I texted him on Tuesday to see if I could come over this morning (Wednesday) and he said yes. Then he didn't call me last night so I called him this morning at 8:20AM and left him a voicemail to see if I could still come over and then called again at 9:45AM and he never called me back and still haven't. Do you think he really is made at me? Do you think our relationship is over and I should just stop kidding myself? Suggestions please I'm totally lost on what to do.
2007-04-18 13:48:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't want to over do it. Stop calling, make him start to wonder. If he cares, he will call, if he doesn't then there's someone better out there for you. Try not to look desperate because then he has all the control in the world over you and you don't want that. Good luck.
2007-04-18 13:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Go Bruins 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship is NOT over. It sounds to me he's still a little steamed. It also seems he doesn't keep promises very well. When he says he's not angry, but doesn't agree to talk to you, that just means (put honestly) he only said to shut you up. So, he's lying. There is definitely still some tension, if nothing else. Just give him time and he'll come around, IF he's mature.
2007-04-18 20:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is mad at you. He is probabley just stressed out over something and can't answer the phone. There is alot of possibilites, he also could have been out, going for a jog or something. I'm sure if he really loved you he wouldn't stay mad and i think he is telling the truth.
2007-04-18 20:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad I don't know any more details. Like what was the fight about. I know about his best friend but about what??? Did he invented new chess rules and you don't like it or what's going on???
From so little informations I can only guess that your bf is jealous and yes, he is still mad.
You might be able still get him to come around but that's just guessing.
It all depends what was the fight about!!
2007-04-18 20:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth ... it seems like gave him a reason to take advantage of the situation... he'll come back when he is done playing his game.. and you wont argue about it because you feel like you did something wrong in the first place....and his bestfriend is leading the pack.... influencing him....thats what friends or for... think about this if this is your man.. arent you a bestfreind to him also.. and he argued over his bestfreind to sacrfice you..
isnt he concerned about you being his best freind.. the person he should also console too.
2007-04-18 20:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by kenneth s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay whats happening with him it seems like hes getting tired or arguing and that pushes guys away its like he still cares for you and like you but he dont want the drama what he most likely doing reason why he aint calling you back is taking time out to think do he really want to be with you he probally is considering talking to someone else or he just want to be free where he dont have to answer to anyone so i would lay off he will call you once he figure things out.
2007-04-18 20:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty Wings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be mad and need a little space. if he isnt calling then he probably jus wants a little cool down time. call him in three days and see if he is still in a funk. if he is then maybe he just needs a break from the relationship.
2007-04-18 20:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rerico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl friend, leave him alone, go about your business and don't think about it. Please act like you haven't got a clue.He is either left you for another girl, or he is waiting to see if you get with his friend. That guy I'd stay far from. Remember not a clue=====he will return with an explanation but not if you ask!
2007-04-18 20:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by kim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the one thing that I can say to you is that you should not get into an arguement with your man about his friends.You have your place in life with him and so does his friend.If you continue to argue about his friend then you will look like a nagging bitc*.If his friend is a issue than you need to talk to him.
2007-04-18 20:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by hendersonswoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not trying 2 just 2 jump 2 conculsion but he might be cheating if he dont want 2 answer hes phone or he is still mad at u but i would live him alone beacues u r better than that even thow i dont kno u
2007-04-18 20:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by JEANETTE V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋