how can a man show his wife that he's never betrayed her even if she thinks so?

Answer 1

She needs to look into her distrust. Try some counseling.

Answer 2

Deniele it will take you a little work so she can trust you. I don't know what had happened with the two of you before but if this is what you want, just show her your love, affection and passion. Try to have more patience with her, knowing that she don't trust you can really be a stress for you, but this is what needs to be done
If your love is stronger, then you can pass through this no matter how long it will take. Remember when a woman feel betrayed or get turn off,its hard to get it back without circumstances. I think your a strong man and I know that you will make it,it might take a little while but you will....

Answer 3

Well, there are lots of the same answers over and over.... But - in dealing with this myself as a man - I had nothing to hide - so, Honesty, Time, Love and more TIME! Believeing in her and giving her space and trying not to dwell on the distrust. But, keeping her occupied in your thoughts without being pushy - movies, dinner, walks, bike rides things which shows you are willing to do together besides sex and sleep - but, don't push her away or brush her off either... If all this is done with the an effort on your part to maybe even consider church / church related activites which you maybe able to do together as well as a good counselor... That may be your best option though is counseling.

It is true that there may be some possible mental issue which she is dealing with from within herself - from the past? But, the main thing is to do what you can within your own belief knowing you have done nothing wrong. And, Please - don't argue with her..... Even when she is being verbally ugly toward you - appolgize and try your very best to not be defensive as well - well..... maybe after a certain amount of time has pasted.

However - You can not change her. You can only Love her as a person with unconditional and pure strength of your soul and spirit.

- Good luck and God Bless as prayers can heal all hurts with in your heart - Turn the stress over to God and let him heal you by seeking forgiveness from your spouse.... (Flowers are good too!)

Answer 4

Well if your wife thinking your betraying her it doesn't matter if you buy her diamond rings once a week it will never leave her mind. SO if she believe you are just say your not and that's all you can do. But if it was the other way around iot would be differnent because a woman would never admit she is cheating and tell you she isn't and that's the end.

Answer 5

You haven't denied it here, you just said you want to show her that you haven't cheated.
Either way, you're more likely to succeed if you're telling the truth. If she's your wife then she'll hopefully pick up on your honesty, if you haven't been banging her sister that is.
Women can be a pain in the *** sometimes, can't think why people actually get married. Screw that. Good luck anyway

Answer 6

assuming your the man, she has to trust you and if your relationship is open enough you two should believe in one another, why would she think that?
assuming your a woman, I always follow my instinct, well I never use to until I caught mine doing it, my instinct keep telling me but, I didn't listen and I should have. If your the man ask her what her instinct is telling her? And make her really think hard about it and ask her why she is feeling that way and if you are the male and your not cheating then you shouldn't have a problem in telling her.

Answer 7

Tell us all why and under what circumstances does she believe thatyou betrayed her? What sort of situation were you ever in that made her doubt you? Something you had to be doing had to cause this problem. Give us more detail so we can help you!

Answer 8

It all depends. Do you do anything that would give her reason to distrust you? In all honesty its it hard to prove you are innocent. When a person gets this in their head they will see only what they want to see. Try spending time with her, call her and tell her you love her, buy her flowers, in general make her feel like she is the only one for you. Good luck to you.

Answer 9

Make your life an "open book". Give her passwords to your email accounts, websites you have posted profiles on, let her check your computer history as much as she likes...give her the cel phone itemized bill for the last year, let her check for herself all those numbers that aren't familiar to her, let her check your cel phone history every day & check that against the yearly itemized bills to see if you've deleted anything before letting her see it...let her "tear your car apart" as if she works for CSI...your wallet, your drawers & any other places you may hide something. If your not guilty then you have NOTHING to hide. I found neked pics of my b/f's exwife in his bible! (on a disk, pics taken on a digital camera he didn't purchase til 2 yrs AFTER their divorce was finalized) This gave me REASON to suspect he may have been cheating on me with HER. I took pics of them together at their childs track meets (right after getting off the cel with him telling me she wasn't there) another reason to NOT trust his word. How did we manage to stay together? Under the stipulations I wrote above AND couples therapy from our church. He's been set straight & BUSTED at the same time. I've not given up on him...he chose me over his family & xwife. We'll see how long this last. (its been a yr since I found the pics in the bible)

Answer 10

I don't think it's possible. People break up over their spouses constantly thinking that they're cheating. Maybe try showing her that you aren't by taking her out to dinner a little more, listening to her feelings, etc. Don't talk about the situation (of her thinking that you're cheating), just talk about your lives and how you're willing to improve them.

Answer 11

Jealously kills relationships. If you have never given her any reason to distrust your love and commitment, then you have a tough hill to climb. And sometimes that hill can become overwhelming as you continually try to prove yourself. If you are clean on this, try to get counseling and see if you can get her past her insecurities.