seriously like this whole marco thing is driving me crazy......see practically ALL my old questions to know whats going on b/c i like this hot funny nice junior (im a freshman) and he thinks im cute blah blah blah u kno the deal....and anyways he nkos i like him and he says hes not ready 4 a relationship....does that just translate to "i dont wanna go out with u leave me alone" ?
2007-04-18 13:29:49 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um excuse you, stanhad, i AM pretty smart and skinny, and im not lackin any thing in the chest or butt so there
2007-04-18 13:54:17 · update #1
That translates to he's stringing you along. DON'T waste time waiting on him. Are you a doormat? Get your own interests and continue to see friends and keep on with your life. If he were interested, he would ask you.
Some people need to have others hanging around them to bolster their own ego.
You two are still in school. You are not ready for any "relationship." I would suggest you continue to date and see other people. You will meet many different kinds of people in college and later in the workplace and have years and years to go. You are not a fully formed person yet - even though I am sure you think you are. I remember what it was like at your age. However, you are too young and inexperienced to know how young and inexperienced you are.
2007-04-18 13:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait a nanosecond or less.
You can't force someone to like you and want to date you. You shouldn't pine away your life waiting for anyone. If opportunities exist to do other things, go for it. There is nothing more sexy to a man than a woman is no longer available.
I'm not advocating finding another guy just to fill that void...just get busy doing something else. If he sees you have a social life, he may want to be around you. If he thinks you are waiting for him, he won't want you because he will think that no one else wants to be with you and maybe you are a loser. It's an old trick to never be seen walking down the school halls alone...always have a girlfriend or guy with you talking like you are having a great time. You can be talking about nothing but always show you are happy and smiling and BUSY...then you will be desirable.
2007-04-18 13:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dear Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does not await that long. If he extremely wanted to be with you he might. i'm going contained in direction of a similar suitable component! and that i've got lost all my staying power for this guy. i'm executed! you may desire to unload his *** too.
2016-12-29 08:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rIn a nutshell, yes. he is not interested Right now and more than likely not interested at all. he probable just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Move and and try you best to forget about him. At least he was somewhat upfront and didn't try to play you along. Please do not wait for him to become interested, it may take a long, long, time
2007-04-18 13:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by not2smarttoday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not it means "leave me alone" - if he's not ready for a relationship and you are, then you're mismatched. Forget him. Find someone who is ready. You'll know when it's right.
2007-04-18 13:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Salvage1234 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NAw he is telling you that he isn't ready for a relationship because he thinks he is gay and doesn't want to go out with girls, he would rather go out with a guy.
2007-04-18 13:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty much what it mean. My advice don't ever wait for a man as you could be waiting forever... forget about him and find someone who will want to date you...
2007-04-18 13:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, pretty much that is what it translates to. So, my advice is DON'T WAIT for the jerk. Find someone who IS ready.
2007-04-18 13:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Beavis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you spell rejection? he's being nice about it. waiting won't help. maybe you could bribe him? be real with yourself...move on, there must be a hundred guys who meet your relationship criteria and won't feed you the prospect of ongoing self questioning.
2007-04-18 13:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by bilez1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not ready for a relationship means there might be someone else he wants to date too- but he doesnt want you to go anywhere- just in case
2007-04-18 13:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋